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Why don’t guys care if I’m a virgin?

I thought if you were a virgin, you were automatically able to get a boyfriend. Lol, boy was I wrong!!!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Being a virgin is more likely going to ensure you commitment and a better guy. But you still have to actually meet them first unless you plan on advertising it from the rooftops.

    Virginity is more like a guy being an honest person. Is it desirable? Absolutely, but no guy is going to get a girl's attention with just that.

    Being attractive/social is more important to getting a guy's attention, but being chaste/virgin will be more important afterwards.

  • Biologically, you should be right so you either are meeting the wrong men or you’re very shy, not open, antisocial, etc. Just because you’re a virgin doesn’t mean you’re clueless about sex. If you feel like you are, just google, read up on literature, and watch videos on positions, techniques, etc.

Most Helpful Girls

  • how would a guy know that your a virgin in the first place? do you walk around with a sign on your forehead reading - I am a virgin - ! do you walk up to a guy and say by the way , I am a virgin so do you want to have sex with a virgin now or not? think before you answer this for because you need too ! Thanks

    • No I am in need of a sign though. Where did you get your "I am crazy" sign? It looks good on you

  • Why would they care? To them... a hole is a hole. So they only commit if they like you enough as a person

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That was a weird thing for you to think in the first place.

  • There is no value in virginity.

  • No, you have to have a lot of qualities. That's like a guy assuming that him having a job is enough to get a girl. Its a bonus to many because it means they are not competing with your past, that your less likely to have a bunch of issues etc. but they still need to find you attractive, they still need to find your personality appealing etc.

  • Because being a virgin is nothing special 🤷‍♂️
    Also you are only a virgin until the first sex and if you have nothing else in common your relationship won't last anyway.

  • Because virginity isn't really that important, whether you are one or not. SOME people treat it as some sort of high value, purity thing, but honestly those people seem like walking red flags to me

  • Lots of guys don't want the drama of being your first.

  • It doesn't matter to me , i would date a girl whose a virgin
    and i would not have sex with her , to she was ready , if she
    didn't want have sex it would not matter to me.

  • i guess that phase or trend faded 😂

    • Lmao

  • "I thought if you were a virgin, you were automatically able to get a boyfriend"

    Who the fuck told you that? You still have to look attractive, have an attractive personality, and actually make an effort.

  • Lmao

  • What you thought is right, you will get a REAL BOYFRIEND who will marry you in the future.

    Your virginity is very precious, every girl should stay virgin till marriage.

    The losers who doesn't want you, are refusing you because they just want sex and a no strings attached relationship and they know that they cannot get it from you.

    • TonyMetal_1986 - I love your answer and thank you for it

    • @MissDawn7961 your welcome miss dawn and thanks for liking my answer, i appreciate it 😊

  • Um, I want a virgin, but not just any virgin. She has to be a good match. You fall in love with a person, not a sexual status.

  • I do. I would like a virgin myself. I'm fully qualified: I'm a virgin too.

  • what lmao

  • It depends how open you are with your body the sex thing isn't such a big deal

  • Because usually men sees that as a bonus.

  • Nobody wants to be someones first at this age. Most people just wanna have fun and aren't looking for anything serious anyways. I mean its a precious thing still but still

    • Miss it was just what i have observed my 24 years of life. Hope you have a good day.

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