Guys, Why don't men look and pay attentionto vaginaslike women do with penis?

I've only ever had 1 man that actually loved looking at me nude and my vagina and playing with it. Most men don't even look at it or want to do much besides the odd clit lick. I thought men are visually turned on? So why don't they even look at it? Or do they look when the girl isn't looking? I love staring at my bfs dick. It's a turn on. I'm surprised men don't do the same. Any thoughts?
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  • Thats a good question... I've always wondered about that.
    the thing is, we can't look at it... unless we are ready to either penetrate or do the "odd clit lick"...
    fun fact, if we do stare in that general direction, we are labelled. but its fine if a woman stares at a bulge.
    a dick shows... and for my second argument, im going to use "anonymous's" quote... its more of the feel.

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  • Thoughts, yes you have been dating wrong guys.

    it is the centre of attention there to be adored and loved and made love to.

    Giving a girl oral and really pleasuring her is at times better than sex.

    • I'm thinking it's an age thing. Men my age up think like u. I've been dating younger men and they seem to care more about jackhammering it, chocking and slapping faces and bums and trying to put their dick in the girls arse without even asking or shoving thumbs up there. They have no idea how to pleasure a real woman

    • Erm I’m a year older than you, and do not do any of that shit. It’s the guys not so much the age, Going back through time, guys love giving oral to a woman. It’s one of the first things you learn even before sex at times

    • Thanks for the opinion! Have a good day!

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  • Clearly you've never run across me. LOL.

  • I guess I am one of the odd ones. I love to look at the vagina, in real life is even better.
    Given the chance, i will look, play with, lick, touch, put my face in it, and then finally get down to business with the vagina.

  • I do personally. A big part of why I like going down on her, the up close and personal view! Just extremely unlikely maybe? I think most guys do.

    • And I've actually experienced the opposite of this as well, women don't seem to pay much attention to me, or if so are very subtle about it. Sometimes I think "Hello, I'm naked, doing anything for ya?" lol

  • Geez! You've been with the wrong guys. I am a vulva worshipper. I am a lousy kisser up top but Don Juan between her legs. I look, play, explore, French kiss her vagina, retracted her hood to suck her clitoris, watched her vagina contract from orgasm, watched her pee closeup. I've even looked into her vagina with a flashlight while she Kegeled. I thought girls would think I'm a perv but they seem to have been flattered. A vulva is the best toy a man can have. I just love pussies.

  • I love going down there and spending a lot of time in oral.

  • There are plenty of men who love looking at vaginas. I do, and I pay a lot of attention to my girlfriend’s.

  • Not 'guys'... just YOUR guy.
    And besides, they would probably rather fuck it than look at it. Sorry toots.

  • i hear that a lot from women. still my personal experience was always the opposite xD i think it generally sucks, when your sexual partner does not give you at least somewhat a similar attention as you give them.

  • I don't know about other men, but I sure like to pay attention.

  • I always look at my woman's pussy and admire it

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