Why don't we normalize men using toys?

Women use dildos and everyone knows it and it's not a big deal, it's already general knowledge lol How is it that, females can get sex easier than men but they are the ones who use toys the most, when men have it harder to get laid? Is it because they feel ashamed that as men they can't provide real p***y?
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  • I think there's just a stigma associated with it. Basically like you said; there's this feeling that, since they can't get a real woman, they must be a loser.

    I mean, look at how people react to those sex dolls that have been hitting the market over the last few years. The general consensus is that only a pathetic loser would buy one of those. It's kind of the same thing.

    Men are supposed to be able to "go out and spread their seed" but if he can't and has to resort to a toy, then he's failed at being a man, supposedly.

    Mind you, I personally don't care, so I'm just giving my opinion on why I think it's like that.

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  • Yeah, but sex toys for men simply just suck, horribly, horribly suck.
    It's just not pleasurable getting a chaffed dick from a dry piece of rubber that's nothing at all like the thing it's trying to resemble.

    That's the main issue with sex toys for men, I'm sure.

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  • I'm not sure I understand what you mean. I don't think there are many toys out there for guys. I guess there are a few, but if someone wants to invent more, then go for it. And if guys want to buy them, then go for it.

    And the phenomena where it's harder for guys to get laid, is something that guys created.

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  • Is it because they feel ashamed that as men they can't provide real p***y?

    Yep, it's exactly that

  • Ahhh c'mon. Guys would love to have the option of toys women have. There are at least a few women who I could use as character witnesses to the fact that my mouth has been all the real pussy they've ever needed

  • i don't think that will make it any easier for men to get laid.

    i mean women apparently prefer to fuck jackhammers xD so it's probably better if they stick with their toys anyway.

  • A lot of guys do have their toys , but so easy to just use your hand.

  • I have toys. 😋

    • Game boy? Lol

    • @DaMack999 xbox and ps and pc if you are wondering. Lol

  • My sex toy is between her legs.

  • Just another example of gender based double standards imfao

  • Well it's mainly women that say stuff about it, most guys don't care

  • Toys for men are more expensive and more messy.

    A girl can get a vibrator for like $10. Good luck finding a fleshlight for under $30. And even then you still need a regular supply of lube. And washing cum out of it seems like it would probably be more annoying then rinsing off a vibrator.

  • Men have hands. They don't need toys. Dumb question.

    • Women don't even need hands, they can literally just hump a pillow to orgasm.

  • There are devices out there that work. They are not magic; they just effectively augment masturbation. I have and use one of these.

    Why don't we normalize men using toys?

    It is a penis head vibrator. When I am fully erect, it fits snugly and, using lube, it draws a vacuum when it is stroked. It guarantees orgasm in half the time, neat and clean. Using a device like this slakes off excess libido and reduces the obsessive need to get laid and thus allows men to make more intelligent decisions regarding women and sex. I think every man should have one if these.