Why fo people think it's sad that I haven't had sex? A couple of people said that too me and I'm just confused?

What do they mean by that? Are they trying to make me feel bad? 🤔
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Superb Opinion

  • No, they are probably surprised.
    i guess the bigger question: who do you talk to about your sex life?
    Do you constantly tell people? i mean most people keep that info private in conversation.

    • No just girls that are curious or sometimes I meet here on gag

    • Gotcha. So why do they think it’s sad? it’s a choice, right?

Most Helpful Guy

  • I understand your confusion. First, remember that not having sex is more than OK. When you are ready you will feel comfortable and that is worth waiting for. Having sex just to have sex is ok for those who choose to; however, this (along with all other behaviors) should not be forced on anyone.
    The only way to really know what they meant is to ask. I like to remain positive and believe they want you to have sex because they enjoy it and want you to have the same pleasure.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You will when you are ready. Sex feels good so maybe that is what they mean.

    • Maybe well I'm always ready just no one wants to date me

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No, that's stupid.

  • probably because you get sad about it from time to time...

  • No, they are not trying to make you feel bad. It’s just that sex is very pleasurable and they’d like everyone to have that pleasure.

    • Oh, they're being assholes 🙄

    • No, not at all

  • Why do so many people you know talk about your sex life?

    • Fuck if I know

    • Okay, so the way to handle this is to project confidence. You could be like “Remember the first rule of business is to mind your own.” Or, you haven’t found the right match yet. Shows you have standards and having standards isn’t sad.

    • Ahh, I see that's cool

  • It is not sad you have not had sex. What is sad is that you know what you need to do to move your life forward but you do not have the will to do it.

  • They think you're missing out

    • True and maybe I am 🤔🤔🤔

    • Lol 😆

  • You wait for love ❤️ and someone to love and love ❤️ back to you.

  • It doesn't make a frickin difference!!! sex usually = money & more problems just masturbate then make yourself some lunch afterwards!

  • Weird to care now that's usually something we all made fun of each other in High school and middle school. Today if you told me your a Virgin in public I would say damn that's crazy but thats it.

    • Sane I told them too lol

  • because people are morons your choice is your choice only none of their concern

  • Don't worry about what they think.