Why girls only find shitty men and fuck boys and how to fix it.

[Anonymous]

Are you a girl and you find only shitty guys to date? Or do the guys you date leave you the second you have sex once or twice? I am going to explain to you why that happens. They are two different problems but related because modern culture endorses the behaviors that contribute to both.

EVERY MAN IS A FUCK BOY

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Many men want a serious relationship. When I say serious, I mean eventually marriage and a family. There is one thing men do not want and that is to marry a girl who sleeps around. If you are an amazing girl but you sleep with ANY man right away, or he finds out you've slept around, you immediately go from serious dating possibility to undateable. How often do you try to hang out and date men that you consider undateable? Precisely by sleeping with a guy too quickly, you have eliminated yourself from dating him.

But what if you don't sleep with them right away they stop calling you? GOOD. That means that man was not interested in a relationship, he was interested in a hookup. You just saved yourself from being pumped and dumped.

So what about the three date rule? Waiting to sleep with a man is the way to fix this problem. HOWEVER, waiting with the man you want, while still hooking up with other men, or recently having slept with other men, will still eliminate you. No man wants to wait a month to have sex with you, while you are still hooking up with you buddy Mark.

Also, once men hear you are easy from their friends, literally every actual fuck boy who just wants a quick lay, will try to talk to you.

So you now have every guy looking for a hookup talking to you, every guy who is interested in you to date you immediately deciding you are undateable. And so from YOUR PERSPECTIVE every guy just wants some pussy and will not commit. Hence you think every man is a fuck boy.

To fix this problem. KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED to everyone! You now must prove to yourself, to men, to your general reputation that you do not sleep around. There is no other way to fix the problem. Stay single for one year and do not have sex the whole time. That should do the trick. The sooner you start the sooner you will get results.

WHY YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A LOSER

Does it seem like guys date you but they are always video game addicts and they can't keep a job, or just they are losers in general? The reason is you are not feminine enough to attract masculine men, and manly enough to attract feminine behavior men. Opposites attract and since you are taking the male role, you are attracting typically feminine role men.

Example: You have a great career, you work as a senior nurse and make $30 an hour. You have your own house, car, etc.

Now a man comes along and he is very successful too, even more so than you. He doesn't need a second income so the amount of money you make is not important to him at all. What he prioritizes is someone who is not stressed out and is pleasant, someone who has time for him that he can take on vacations as his schedule allows, someone who will eventually have time to care for kids in the future. Are those your strong suits as a successful career woman? Not really. Any girl with no job is better suited to his desires. So this guy will tend to date women without a career like you have.

What about the losers? Well the man who has a part time job making $9 an hour looks at you and says "Oh mama, she makes bank and has her own house, easy street if I make her my girl" and so this broke lazy man finds you very very very attractive.

So now you are in the situation of broke lazy men finding you a top catch and spending extra effort to get you, while at the same time, you are making yourself unattractive to successful men.

How to fix this: You don't have to give up your career. BUT you must prioritize a man over your career. Yes this sounds harsh but if you don't take off when you need to to do things with a man, and if you can't cut your hours back a little if you are getting stressed out too much, you aren't ever going to attract the man you want. The man you want is going to want a partner in life, not your money. He will never care about your money. He wants feminine energy, not stressed out hard ass business woman who will be a poor mother if you decided to have kids someday. You can also tell him for example if you have kids you would gladly cut back on or quit your job if you both felt it was appropriate and that having a family absolutely comes before money or your career. That could also put the man at ease. Being in a stable relationship with a successful man, even if you cut back on your career is going to put you ahead in your career more than being stressed and alone or having a loser boyfriend. In the end that life will sabotage your career anyways.