Why girls scare of anal sex?

[Raj9946]

[normalice]

I'm only guessing, but I think it has to do with bragging rights. What is a bragging right? The basic formula for a bragging right is when you obtain more of something through equal or less effort than everyone else puts into it.

A lot of guys treat sex like the ultimate 'bragging right,' because none of us really have a clue how to get women to sleep with us, yet some of use do anyway. It's like saying "I've done nothing the rest of you haven't done, yet girls let me fuck them, but don't let you. haha."

But girls don't like the idea of being a bragging right, though, because it seems humiliating. And when it comes to anal sex, I think girls assume there's more for a guy to brag about than they really need to be satisfied. However, what girls don't seem to understand is that a lot of guys aren't "bragging" about the anal sex so much (though, there are guys that buy into that) as bragging about finding a girl who wants to do it. Like "Yes, i had a girl's springiest hole wrapped around my cock, but she liked it!" If she's not into it, then it's not worth bragging about, and it doesn't inflate the ego. Girls don't seem to understand this and get hung up on thinking guys get bragging right about putting it their ass, at all. I guess that idea scares them.

[demonics]

"RWAR shove a dildo up your ass and see how you like it!"

Brazilian girls shoved ___ up their asses and liked it, hence 50% of women in Rio claim to have tried it, compared to only 20% in the US.

"'ll take dumb argument for $500 Bob"

The proper answer to that question would be something more like:
The taboo.
Tried it once and I didn't like it.
My religion/culture forbids it.
I'm afraid it will hurt.
Its unsanitary.

See that wasn't so hard now was it? Happy to mansplain it for everyone.

[Goodwifie]

I have ulcerative colitis so no man is ever going anywhere near my bum hole.
Really glad that my husband isn't into it.

[goddess87]

The issue is a lot simply don't have the desire to have that done to them. Try it first if you think it is so wonderful.

[kaylaS91]

Try inserting a dildo up your ass and then let me know how it went.

[Gayview_Mahat]

^this^

[demonics]

Thats not an argument... "Hey try this food that I personally hate... yea not so good isn't it? Thats why everyone on Earth hates it."

www.cosmopolitan.com/.../

I see where the sentiment comes from though. "What stuff exists outside of my world view?"

[SneezinWithBlessin]

Because the only thing which is in your butthole is your shit. And also imagine you sitting on the toilet ad then you tryna making a poo and it doest come out an ouch

[thatguywithakeyboard]

You know same logic would apply to your mouth, it's intended for food/water intake and speech. However many girls enjoy having a cock shoved deep in there... Also biggest bonus of Anal is no matter how many times you cum inside the girl can't get pregnant.

[Don1892]

Its actually pretty good

[demonics]

Surprising coming from a German... Germans are into weird shit.

[Don1892]

German?

[thatguywithakeyboard]

@demonics German? Who? We’re? Das is good, das very good :). But neh, he takes a swing and he misses. I’m European but not German :)

[demonics]

@thatguywithakeyboard Totes wasn't talking to Frau.

[thatguywithakeyboard]

@demonics someone wants a BBD up there tidy? :)

[SneezinWithBlessin]

How did this get so weird.

[Don1892]

No idea

[estoydorado1]

Why don't you try it and let us know.

[RJGraveyTrain]

It hurts.

[Kitten967]

Because it can hurt

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Anal Lube? Specially designed Lube and it costs $1-2 more than your regular down the mill jelly...

[Kitten967]

I know that, but some people don't know that. It also takes more than lube for it to not hurt. If it's done properly it can be pleasurable but some women just don't like it

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Well outside of 15-30 min of playing around with the girls ass + making sure she is relaxed, and then 30 min with some lube and a condom it's all set to go, the key is to take it slow and easy allowing the anus to adjust to the object being inserted... :) as you can tell I love anal sex :)

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Funny enough the most common reason why Anal is a NO-NO. Is because most see it as something Dirty and then also associate other peoples stories with Pain being involved, this creates a twisted cocktail of fear and disgust.

[Kitten967]

I already know all of that lol. Sadly not that many people know how to do it properly

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Well Anal-sex is pretty fun when done right, especially if we start involving remote controlled Buttplug Vibrator and some nifty public exhibition :)

[ROCKS128]

Can u tell how the hell can it be pleasurable to girls?

[thatguywithakeyboard]

@ROCKS128 If someone did the homework or learned bit about human biology he would have know that Anus has large sum of nerves, passing impulses to the brain, thus allowing for pleasure. Based on a Statistical Survey done sometime in 2000, it was determined that woman reach orgasm 91% of the time via Anal penetration, 62% via Vaginal intercoucre and 80% via Cunnigilus play. Now you know, and knowing is half the battle :)

[ROCKS128]

But I would like to hear it from a female, coz they are the ones who will take it.

[Kitten967]

It's pleasurable because it feels good if done right. It's also pleasurable because of what the other guy said. It's pleasurable for the same reasons any other sex is. Not all women like it though since not everyone is the same and not everyone has the same kinks. Some guys like anal being done to them too because of the nerves in the anus.

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Too each his own poison essentially.

[Alessus]

Would you want someone to ram a cock up your ass? I wouldn't.

[normalice]

i wouldn't want someone ramming a cock into my mouth, either. And yet, a lot of girls get off on that..

[Don1892]

I think normalice makes a. great point. Side note though, yead id like that. Girls do too

[thatguywithakeyboard]

So how is Deepthroat different? A cock down her windpipe, yet many girls like this... Hmm... I spy a White Knight in the making...

[Alessus]

@thatguywithakeyboard I grant you, it's a fair point you've made, but I don't suppose any of you have thought that maybe women don't want to do either, but figured that if they had to choose, they'd rather it be rammed down their throat than their ass? Or it could be that they think that since they expect a man to go down on them, it would be kinda hypocritical to not be willing to do the same, so are willing to do the bj? Though I don't know, haven't asked women about their deeper thoughts about bjs and anal, so it's all speculation on my part.

[normalice]

i've been with many girls who don't like receiving oral, but actually get off on giving. And while I've never been with a girl who likes anal, I've heard stories. Girls vary in this regard, so there isn't really a way to claim some physical thing is responsible, or it would be unanimous. It's mental. It has to be.

[Alessus]

@normalice Suppose so, as I've never heard of a girl not liking receiving oral, but have heard of girls refusing to do blowjobs and as far as anal is concerned from what I've heard it's usually been the guy who wants it and has had to persuade their girlfriend/wife/whatever to even get them to try it, so I suppose I assumed that it was pretty much the majority of women who dislike even the idea of anal sex where as men seem to like it. Personally never really seen the shine of it, but to each their own I suppose as long as they aren't hurting anyone.

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Then there are girls who don’t like giving/receiving oral, no anal and we are stuck with supper basic Vanilla. My EX was like this, was rather dull sex :(

[Shianne1999]

Because it's scary and not natural. You can't make babies in assholes

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Usually Anal experience is ruined by an "Asshole" who spend few too many nights fapping to Pornhub and considers himself a Anal Master, just to fail miserably and ruin the experience for the few chosen man who actually know how to please woman with Anal sex/play.

[chloehatespeople]

Because guys don't know how to do it without hurting anyone. You're supposed to stretch the anus out with your fingers and buttplugs for a couple of days before you do it and use a lot of lube.

[jacquesvol]

Would you want a penis in your anus?

[Don1892]

Yes.

[jacquesvol]

@Don1892 not everyone wanys that. Most don't

[Don1892]

Statistically speaking about a third do. For women its a lot higher

[jacquesvol]

@Don1892 Source?

[desithick]

Because we aren't...

[The_Gentelman]

Try it yourself you will mostlikly find out

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Ah a fitting username to a White Knight :)

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Try it on yourself and that will give you a pretty good idea why girls are scared of it.. 🖒

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Oh, Mr. White Knight... Yeah bud, this tactic is as low as dogs piss.

[disgustingweebtrash]

It can hurt some, try sticking a dildo up there and see how it is

[Batuthekhan]

hurts

[Don1892]

Only if the guy is completely useless.

[Mxdude]

Shove a big dildo up your ass and tell us how it felt

[Don1892]

Good.

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Someone speaking from Experience of trying to find out how Anal feels?

[Don1892]

Yeah. Its good. Sucks if you try to force it or dont use lube though.

[Anonymous]

There are two primary reasons, and most women who are scared of it fall into one or both categories.

1) They have an irrational mental aversion to the idea of anal sex

2) They have had a bad experience with an idiot who didn't know what he was doing.

[Anonymous]

Pain.

Your ass is not designed to have something big rammed into it.

It can mess you up internally.

Take your pick.

[The_Gentelman]

So if ever anal only with small and short penesis on your behalf?

[Opinion Owner]

How about just not doing it, I like that option better

[Raj9946]

i want ask another question from you

[Raj9946]

which condom flavour most girls like

[Don1892]

Thats not really true to be honest. It may not be the primary purpose but it is absolutelt equipped to deal with that and it categorically doesn't damage you unless you are doing it wrong.

[Anonymous]

Two reasons.

First is the thought of it.

Second is that they may have tried it, without being prepared or having an inexperienced guy, and they have been hurt.

[Raj9946]

can you pls accept my request

[Raj9946]

i want to talk privately

[Raj9946]

i need help thats why