Why Guys Don't Hit on Pretty Girls

I hear it a lot. "I'm so pretty, but guys don't hit on me?" Or "why do guys never hit on the pretty ones?"

Why Guys Don't Hit on Pretty Girls

There is a reason: because some (not all of course) girls are just cruel. It's usually a loud embarrassing and public rejection. How many of those kind of mean turn downs would it take for a guy to just give up? Not many.

Think about it what how many of these kind of rejections could you take before saying "no, not worth it?"

And I know it's not fair to judge all women by the actions of a few, but how can a guy tell which is which without asking? They can't. So they simply don't.

It's much easier to get rejected online via dating websites, where there is a level of anonymity.

As one guy said, approaching a girl is like a minefield. One wrong word and....

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  • Guys have balls, use them?
    Ps girls aren't catogorised in being either "pretty and mean" or "pretty and not mean". Every single woman living on this earth have both labels with in themselves. So next time you go to judge the opppsite sex, you'd be better off having a clearer think. Maybe it's not the women, it's an even chance it's how you or any guy approach women.

    • Such maturity in such a young age! You are 100% right! My reaction to men all depends on how they approach. If they approach in a disrespectful or a "you can't say no to this " attitude they get the mean side of me. If they approach respectfully and with a healthy amount of humility they get the nice side of me weather accepting or rejecting ! So it all comes down to HOW you approach determines which side you get ! Great response !!!

    • Me myself always go for what I want. Some guys are scared of rejection. Guys most realize you will strike out more then that homered but eventually you'll getting it.. a lot pretty women are intimidating to insecure men.. women like confidence do if he's lacking that an you're attractive, you might get looked over

  • the thing with talking to good looking girls is that they get bored of you fast. You can tell when one is bored with you when they either A) repeatedly stop sending you messages back in the middle of a convo, or B) they are very brief with you when they do chat. So whenever i get a whiff of that, i just stop messaging them

    • You know that a lot of people hate communicating via chat messages? I prefer calling so I don't spend a lot of time on whatsapp and sometimes I just get tired of replying back. Talking is far more effective and far more easy.

  • I Like the hottie who doesn't understand just how hot she is, I married one.

    • My favorite kind of girls

  • I approach 7+ / 10 women. That's my break-even point.

    Of course, I'm monagamous now. But that's how I met. Approached at a dance. Let her examined my alphaness, game over.

  • wow... that bs.

  • Pretty girls get hit on. They don't get approached often.

    • Acting like an ass and catcalling is a defense mechanism a guy does when he wants to flirt with a girl but he's too nervous to do it but he doesn't want to admit to himself he's nervous because he wants to think he's macho.

    • I agree with the asshole part. Usually guys who catcall are trash ghetto type tho. @octavion

    • @Octavion I didn't know.

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  • Gorgeous women are easy. Just know, the hotter the chick the more that is fucked up with her.

    • lol as if!

  • i never hit on girls. I'm an introverted ugly loser who'd never even stand a chance with pretty girls. the only girls that would ever consider dating me are obese chicks no one else would want. and i don't want a girl like that either. i can't say I've ever been rejected. why? cuz I've never ever hit on a girl in my life. I'm too ugly and socially awkward, i know i could never get a girl i like. why try, right? i would you try something if you know your not gonna make it? would you participate in a gunfight if you only have a knife? no.

    and i have to admit, I'm starting to hate pretty girls. always such bitches. and it really must be my fault i don't have a girl, cuz back in middle school i had a friend who, in my opinion, was even uglier than i am. and he got a girl. and they never gave me a chance. maybe I'm even uglier than i thought.

    • Ugh. Stop with the self-loathing please. Gain confidence. And stop hating people. Not all pretty girls are bitches.

    • in my neighborhood they are

  • Bc they probably look at the girl and their like oh she's probably talking to a lot of guys

  • I don't because I find the opportunities are rarely there. But when I do talk to them they're either unresponsive or curt (bar setting) or they're really nice but don't give me much indication they're interested in pushing things forward. So I'm left wondering whether they're actually interested but taking the really passive role or are being nice for the sake of politeness. Suffice to say many opportunities have been lost for assuming the latter.

  • "As one guy said, approaching a girl is like a minefield. One wrong word and... "
    OH NO!!!
    ... you OK bro? Need help? o_O

    As for me, pretty girls are usually taken immediately. I don't say we are slower or something but the rate of having a BF already is much higher.

    • hahaaaaa this is true for some.

  • pretty isn't pretty to everyone.

    • YUP not everyone is gonna like you

  • Guys won't hit on pretty girls because we'd rather spend our money on video games.

    Why Guys Don't Hit on Pretty Girls
  • I hit on them all the time, they just don't hit back...

  • Geez I didn't know my ex had a YouTube channel.

  • Have seen countless snarling bitchy " FUCK OFF CREEP !! " type rejections whilst working as door staff... unfortunately there's a lot of these types of bitches around. Also common were girls using guys for free drinks all night , usually the same types. Guys , if you get shot down like this... then verbally NUKE her back. Enjoyed cutting a bitch down to size several years back , she was just so nasty & toxic !!

    • Sure make her shrivel in a corner and afraid to come to work and go die somewhere. Especially "FUCK OFF CREEP MY BOYFRIEND IS BLACK"!

  • If you're a girl and you get hit on a ton online and not much in real life its because guys have more balls online because you can't see them lol. I try to act like a smooth Rico motherf'er online but really I would never have that much confidence in real life.

  • Intimidation? Maybe.

  • Not true at all. Guys hit on pretty women all the time. The pretty girls are so used to that.

    • Truth!

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