Why guys don't like to give oral to girls but expect us to give them bj? Isn't it a bit selfish?

Well the smell is other problem but boys smells down there too!!! And still want us to give them bj and sometimes they even force girls to do it!
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  • If someone is pressuring you or forcing you to blow them, or do anything else, you need to get out of the relationship.
    If a guy doesn't want to eat you tell him it's something you really would enjoy him doing. He may not know what exactly to do, so don't hesitate to encourage him and give him some friendly guidance. If you have a bush, shaving it or trimming it will let him see better what he is doing and without a mouthful of hair. Shower right before sex so both of you are as clean as possible.

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  • Smell - unless it's his natural scent, he probably hasn't washed or not washed well enough.

    But there's a lot of selfish people out there unfortunately. And even worse if the person is only looking for sex. But there's also a couple of other possibilities. Maybe he's had a bad experience and has just stopped doing it, thinking that every time and every woman will be that way (girls can be nasty down there sometimes to lol). But something else I learned that was shocking to me, was way back when, guys used to believe that oral was "something women did" and it's wasn't "manly" at all for a guy to do. That wasn't so shocking as to learn that some guys still actually believe that today! Maybe you have one of those guys?

    • Most likely though, he's just selfish and you've got the wrong guys. There are lots of us that will gladly do it. You have to be sure to tell us what you like and don't like though while we're down there.

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  • Most girls want every guy to be a sexpert. If they aren't good at sucking us off (which they usually aren't) then guys get turned off by it and don't want to do it at all. It's pretty hard to be bad at sucking a dick, but I've heard that's possible too. Stop just expecting your guy to know everything and tell him what you want him to do. Do you like his tongue inside of you? Then tell him where you want him to lick you.

    • This is a good point, communication is a must, and so many women don't do it but "expect" us to know what they like and don't like still. And that in itself is one thing, but then think about how different you women are from one to another as far as your likes and dislikes. I mean, guys are as well, but not like women lol.

  • i can see their point it's a lot different to suck someone's cock then them doing the same for us... having said that i have no problem giving someone a blowjob even if they don't return the favor

    • *sigh* I wish I knew you... :)

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  • I'm sorry that you've had guys like that hun... not all men are that way trust me... I never never had to ask my hubby for this... his face gets stuck on me like a magnet lol

  • 1. I enjoy giving oral sex to my partner.
    2. None of my partners have ever had an offensive odor.
    3. I enjoy receiving oral sex but I don't expect it.
    4. I have never forced a girl to give me oral sex. If any guy has ever done that to you, then you should have called the police and reported him for sexual assault.
    5. Overgeneralizing about half of the species is counterproductive.

  • there is no smell if its clean...

    and I've never understood why some people live with a double standard.
    I have ALWAYS been more willing to please my mate, than wanting her to please me, and there is always a big payoff for it... some people just dont have the sense to know how to treat their mate fairly.

  • Dont have too much experience but what experience I have I've actually given about 97% of oral with my ex. She would try to give it but would stop so I dont know much about your problem here

  • You are 100% correct. If a guy received some oral he definitely should return the favor every time. I have found that if I'm going to have sex or get a handjob or oral I take a shower first and make sure I'm clean down there. Have you been with guys that are selfish and only like getting the handjob or bj?

    Maybe stick with giving them a handjob if they will not return the favor. Your thoughts?

  • Bit selfish? maybe, but most girls are submissive, and girls tend to get more messy down there than boys, personally I am okay with skipping oral all together, and I am not forcing any girl to give me a bj, I believe that piv is necessary, not bjs.

  • then again there are some guys like me who dont really car too much about getting sucked off but love licking a girls pussy

  • Some guys are selfish. Don't have a relationship with them.

  • I like to pleasure a female partner in every possible manner. provided she is also willing to do the same.

  • Oral is my main event. I give it unconditionally

  • I don't know. I've never had sex, but giving oral to a girl looks really fun/satisfying so I can't understand why a straight guy wouldn't want to do it.

  • Sounds like your dating the wrong people

  • Wow sounds great 8) Just kidding. I think it's good for both people to be satisfied. A good relationship is where you and your partner both love each other hopefully :)

  • I think more men would do it if women actually asked for it. Not too many guys have much practice eating girls out, so unless she asks for us to do it, we are worried that our skills might not be up to parr.

  • I'm fine with giving oral. Nothing is wrong with it.

  • yes it is obviously selfish , from now , just dont give him unless he is giving first

  • True , that was one thing I heard a long time ago that is why a lot of girls get rid of their pubic hair.
    It's just an excuse
    I love going down on a girl...

  • I love to 'eat out' but only if it's freshly washed with soap and water. My head and foreskin is clean daily

  • I give my girlfriend oral almost as much as she does it to me. Fingering her is just easier to do without taking her pants off.

  • No idea, I don't mind giving oral.

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