Why Having A Fu**Buddy is Better Than Having A Boyfriend

I like the idea of having a boyfriend, but there's so much physical and emotional commitment involved. Even if it breaks the 'rules' (why should fuck buddies have rules?) I like fuck buddies because:

Why Having A Fu**Buddy is Better Than Having A Boyfriend

There's No Commitment

It seems that sometimes with friends with benefits, since you were friends first, people assume it's exclusive. Of course it isn't supposed to be unless you decided it was before, but some people think like this. Fuck buddies are straight up; things are clear since you were strangers before usually.

You Can Have Fun Without Others

No meeting friends/family. You don't have to hang out with anyone else since you weren't friends first. You can just hang out solo with each other and do whatever you want. You could do that anyway, but....it'd be more awkward.

Why Having A Fu**Buddy is Better Than Having A Boyfriend

No Sexual Commitment

Sure, you can fuck others. But this point is about how you don't have to have maintenance sex or have to totally care about what your partner wants. Everything is optional with no pressure or stress.

You Can Still Be 'Romantic'

You can be really nice, and do fun things...go out...and just be casual w/o sex. This isn't how it's supposed to be, but why not?

So these are my top 4 reasons...I know these are short, but I think I summed everything up pretty well. I <3 options. And I feel like I can have more benefits with fuck buddies, including closeness.

I wanted to add, stds can take weeks and weeks to show up, so relationships and tests don't solve everything!

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  • Sex with women like this is always bad.

  • Bleh, no thanks. To each their own.

  • so it sounds great but remember nothing is that simple in life because people are not simple.

  • Good for you. Good luck with that. Just be honest in the future when the guy you want to have a relationship with asks how many lovers you've had intercourse with. He may care about getting STDs.

    Own your sexual history and don't be a lying tramp about it...

  • I think the reason you think that having Friends with Benefits because people randomly change when they have a relationship. Before they were best friends but now they're having a relationship with each other and they change. Now these people throwing shit to the side and start controlling each other.

    But it's not good but actually you're cheating. As soon as you have "fun" with others you're cheating. It's not pleasant at all and still is one of you two creating some feelings.

    So as Bryson Tiller will says: DON'T!

  • What if one of the people involved starts having deep positive feelings the other person? What if you get pregnant? What would you do then?

  • Spot on, pink anon.

  • dont have any of them being single is the best

  • Yes, I agree, there are certain times where you just need a nice and clean fuck buddy! ;)

  • Its all fun and games until somebody gets pregnant.

    • It's also don't save a girl from being known as a slut, if she would fuck with others.

  • You'll get no argument here.
    Some people just want sex, others want a relationship with the added benefit of sex.

    • Point #4 is like a relationship.

    • Exactly , I'm partial to either a relationship or friend with benefits

  • Only if you don't want a LTR

  • yeah sluts have more fun

  • i don't have the time to waste on such meaningless things.

  • I'd rather have a girlfriend than a fuck buddy.

  • its not a pleasant feelings like you have just said.. it may change those ideas after had it..

  • Right.. Fuck all day long. well got to find a lady that can last.

  • i agree with your reasons.. having a fb is good and can be exciting and easy...
    question , what if you fell in love with your fuck buddy , and then realised you still liked all the things about having a fb then your original fb said he didn't mind you having another fuck buddy... would you find another and have both?

  • I think a cuckold relationship would be better than fuck buddies.

  • And nobody wants a girl like your ad a girlfriend or wife... Trust me!!

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