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When I was younger and going through puberty, I thought having big boobs was going to be the greatest thing ever because I thought it would get me lots of attention and make me feel hot but little did I know that with big boobs came with great responsibility. This mytake is for those who have big boobs or for those who think having big boobs is all fun and games to learn that it’s really not. So here is my rant against my 28L sized boobs.
Expectation: “I would look hot in all my clothes!”
Reality: If you can find clothes that fit you!
My boobs get the final say in what clothes I buy because it’s either I find something that fits my boobs and looks baggy everywhere else or I find something that fits everywhere else and looks like I’m giving everyone a free show. I haven’t worn a button down shirt in years and I can’t button my new cardigan all the way because the top button will pop off and hit someone in the eye. But when you do find something that does fit everywhere, it’s a dream come true! (If you don’t mind people judging you harshly).
Expectation: “I could cover them up when I need to and only flaunt them occasionally”
Reality: No, you’re going to show them off even when you don’t want to!
I can’t wear stuff like tank tops, T-shirts, or anything that’s too tight or has too low of a neckline because you can really see my boobs. Even if they’re covered because a fitting top can still show the size of them and there are times when my shirt slides down and my boobs sneak out of the top and say “Hi everyone!” Which is not something I like because I prefer to dress more conservatively in order to be taken seriously.
Expectation: “They would come in slowly but surely!”
Reality: Nope, they’ll grow like crazy
(Insert same picture here because it works twice)
I was 10 when my boobs started growing and they grew about 2 cup sizes a year, making me the girl with the biggest boobs in class and the other girls ask if I stuffed my bra and when I was 19, they grew 6 cup sizes in a year and they were FINALLY done growing when I was a 20 year old with mixed feelings about her 28L boobs (but at least I’m in college now with girls who have bigger boobs than me (thank God I’m not alone lol).
Expectation: “Finding bras wouldn’t be too hard!”
Reality: I hope you hate money!
I can’t go to the stores like Victoria’s Secret because they don’t carry my size so I have to order my bras online for 50 a piece. And don’t even get me started on the prices for the strapless bras!
Expectation: “I would be so sexy that no man can resist me!”
Reality: Sure, if you like creepers!
If I had a nickel for every time I had a creeper compliment me on my body of all things, I’d be so rich that I wouldn’t need to use my boobs (that apparently have the power) to snag a rich husband! Guys, it’s tasteless to flirt with a woman by praising her body! Praise her clothes or her personality, not her boobs (or whatever else) unless you’re in the bedroom and having sex!
Also, some dudes aren’t that shallow, some dudes prefer small boobs, and some dudes prefer dudes. So if you’re gonna planning to go under the knife just to get that one guy, you’re just going to be stuck with two watermelons on your chest and that guy not looking twice at you.
Expectation: “Exercising wouldn’t be a problem! I’d just wear a sports bra!”
Reality: ...Or two or three or 5000.
I haven’t ran in ten years because I don’t want people staring at my whole my boobs bounce all over the place and throw out my back at the same time. And sports bras do NOT get the job done because they are too flimsy, don’t cover the entire boob, or they will at first until the boobs find a way to free themselves and stretch out the sports bra... Yet another reason why I’d rather stay inside and eat pizza.
Expectation: “They would be so perky!”
Reality: Ever heard of gravity?
They sag down and make me feel like a grandma because I can’t get away with not wearing a bra because they droop down to my tummy. I would only get complimented on my body if I wear a bra!
Expectation: “You’ll learn to love them!”
Reality: Yeah :)
My boobs can be a real pain in the ass, but they’re my pain in the ass and I learned how to live with them and how to dress with them. Don’t get me wrong, there are times when I wish they weren’t so big and I wish that I could take them off at the end of the day (my fellow busty girls will feel me), but they’re a part of what makes me feel sexy and a huge (pun intended) part of what makes me... me :)
Thanks for reading and may you and (if you have them) your boobs, big or small, have a great day!
What Girls & Guys Said
40 52“You’ll learn to love them!”
the reason why they sagg is because you're wearing a bra,
when will the day come when women release that bras are really bad for you?
you really don't need them.
100% agreed. The less clothing people have to buy, the better. I don't think women like bras necessarily. Unless into fashion, it's just a chore I'm sure. And even so, the sizing and paying issues are likely never fun. But let's look at us men for a second. Who owns the bra fashionista of the world? Who decides pricing and rules companies involved with it? Really, it SHOULD be women since it's a woman's issue, but it seems it's often men. That's like women trying to decide how urinals should be installed. Or in charge of thick beard shaving companies. It makes no sense. I think women should fully rule women's fashion while men rule theirs. Of course, some women will be greedy and continue selling bras anyways, so that's why no matter who runs clothing companies, the common people, men and women work to eliminate bras and whatever other clothing. Demanding that prices not be abusive either.
just wanna write something to all the ladies that disliked me *science* agrees with me.
www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/259073.php
i just want the best for you guys, i think most girls wear bras because other girls do it. wich is a dumb reason.
OK, Imma try to explain this so an angry female does not come and yell at you here cause believe me, they will. Hell, they go off sometimes more on true LITERAL male feminists than they do people that have raped them. But that's a case for another time. Anyways, the point is, both males and females are to blame for bras. Males often can't control their penis, or at least CLAIM that, so therefore, demand women wear bras, cover up, bla blah BLAH. In reality as you say, there may in fact be no need for bras. In fact, clothing I think has been blown WAY out of what it was supposed to be, which is simply protection from the elements. Elements were supposed to be more weather or so, not other human's gazes or erections. I also think it's quite unfair that men can go topless but women can not. The sexualization of boobs is stupid. They are balls of fat for fucks sake. What's next? Sexualized belly buttons? That's a part of sexuality. Nobody gets concerned about those though!
@errorgoodnameunfound um im pretty sure that if women didn't wear bras that would not mean that men would start mass raping them also when a girl wheres no bra i don't notice it because she's wearing a shirt.
that... what? thats contradicting... you wrote first NOT for them to wear bras... and then you said you can't see them because of their shirt? Exactly! Same for other guys! If women don't harass men for being topless, then men can do the same for topless women. If laws allow women to do so and they do it, too bad. Rape means jail no matter what. You think cause men see naked women at a club theyll rape them? Please. Usually security like crazy. Hell if women went naked I'd be ok, as long as we had the choice too. If that many men are willing to rape over that, let em try, take em to court, and execute em. Rapists aren't useful for the planet. They only cause issues. If they REALLY had to let it out, they can use their HAND. They don't need a women to release urges. No excuses.
@errorgoodnameunfound i meant when they're not wearing a bra under there shirt i dont notice it. you're also taking this way to political I'm just saying it bad for there health. do you understand why i have dislikes? because i really dont get why there mad.
Eh, anything can technically count as politics. Just you saying women shouldn't get bras is already political territory or approaching it. Also most health topics now is all politics. I don't mean to get political, but it's quite hard not to. Also, the reason women down-voted you is possibly political in itself. Or almost. You essentially blamed women for wearing bras when technically they don't actually always have full choice. So yah, they're going to be upset. Why they don't push en masse for bras to no longer be needed? I don't know, I wish they would too. Some want to, others are too stupid to care. We go around secretly hurting ourselves and harming our health in many ways on a daily basis without even thinking about it.
@errorgoodnameunfound i didn't blame them i just said bras are bad. i think most girls wear bras because others do, most people are sheep to be honest. this is the last time i try to help people jeez.
You may not have meant it that way, but it's likely what it read as.
Great take thanks
Most overweight girls have big breast right?
I’m not overweight (as you can tell my band size is only 28)
nooo!!! actually most fat women ar eflat!! unlike butts and other parts.. u can't eat ur way to big boobs! u either have them or not! theyre hereditary!!! there are thin women witht htem and curvy (not fat) women with them!!! look at kat denning ofr example... big boobs na dsmallw aist.. many women have that curvy form!!! i duno who got the idea that big boobs are on fat women!!! thats like me saying u have to be fat in order to have a nice butt
Boobs are weapons
such a weird topic
Boobs are great, all of them
It's like my ex said (she had pretty big boobs too), "They are just stupid balls of fat." She was right on point for that one. I think many problems could be fixed if clothing wasn't done the way it is. That is, being for more than just protecting from natural elements. Today, it's looks, looks, LOOKS! Everything is seeing with the eye like a dumbass baboon looking at a banana. There's no way in hell that I think humans will suddenly say FUCK ALL CLOTHING and fully stop wearing it. Nah, too many bugs, mosquitos, germs, etc. However, in certain instances, it'd be nice if women could just go bra-less or even shirt less. Men can do it. So women should be able to as well. So many problems here are based on clothing especially bras and women's shirts. If men are so manly, let's show it! Let women go shirtless when they want to! Ya think some of them don't look when we go shirtless? Come on now. But then again, I rarely hear them harassing or catcalling shirtless guys. So, if we are to let them do this, let's return the favor. And anyone who says nay, well, think of MONEY. Think of that MONEY saved NOT worrying as much about buying shirts or bras. The money issue often affects wife AND husband, girlfriend AND boyfriend. And for those single men like me, think of women more and more on welfare, on YOUR taxes to be able to barely afford this clothing! If they don't need it as much, your money only goes up! Hell, if only society could adjust to this, perhaps guys doing something like adjust their junk wouldn't be so embarrassing. Cause hey, some of us have ones that don't stay still! NOT our fault! Perhaps SOME of us have certain length abilities activated quite easily, so we have to take care of it to be comfortable! Or maybe I just said that because I'm included in this group. ;) Anyways, let's also talk fashion. Perhaps we should re-evaluate who runs it. We need women running women's clothing and men running men's clothing. Nothing else unless at a sheer minimum. Men know men best. Women know women best. Let us each deal with our own shit. See this? www.thecut.com/.../...try-is-still-run-by-men.html That's STUPID! It's 2018 people! Do you want women to start designing urinals or men's boxers? No? OK THEN, this needs to change! It's not just financially important, there are moral and ethical questions we need to ask ourselves. 95% of this take 's issues stems from clothing! DEMAND better! ALL people should go out in comfort!
From what I understand about them, if I had my own opai, I would not go around braless, mostly because of stairs and running, manboobs usually come with a supporting stomach, and they do not like circular shapes at all.
I used to be a C when I was younger... it was one of the reasons why I started hating PE, it made me too self-conscious and it also interfered with my breathing.
For everyday life, I feel better as a B.
Yes!! Perfect and pretty funny.
the way we like defined six packs, and veiny muscle arms and shit, men like bubble asses and perky big breasts. can't shame them for it.
Okay
It worse when your boobs are big and your really short because they can sometimes look comically big. Being short it's already hard to find clothes that fit, the add big boobs to the mix then all clothes look either slutty or frumpy. Then of course there's guys, even good guys who don't mean too because they are taller than me when they are talking with me struggle to maintain
Eye contact eventually end up just lost in my clevage or stare at the ground.
I feel you. I went from a training bra to a C cup, which I don't consider to be big, but definitely not small. I get a lot of comments from men about twice my age, and of course, finding clothes that actually fit is a pain.
Kat denning is short, so is kim k, so is vida guerra and many women!!! comically? how insulting!!! comical is people with fak ebodies! dont dar einsult women based on their body!! nobody finds scarlett johansen who has big boobs and is short.. comical!!! just because ur fat and bad bodied.. dont mean all women are. i have many shorter friends and all they get are compliments
@Beautybynature?
@Beautybynature scarlet Johansen has very small boobs.
Thanks a lot, you make me feel graceful with my 36B bust😊 Have a nice day😊
Thanks
I personally like smaller boobs. When it comes to foreplay I can get my mouth around their entire nipple and surrounding skin easily. Maybe more pleasurable for some chics.
Small boobs seem more innocuous too, which in a non-creepy way really turns me on.
It's biology man. Men looking for younger looking women and traits in those women. Then again, big boobs were/are? also considered as a sign of fertility, but it's always seem to be different in different cultures and times.
My ex girlfriend got fake tits a few months after we split. That and her 20lb weight gain made it way way easier to get over her. Fake tits disgust me.
yes.. pedophiles do tend to prefer females that resemble children!!! and what guuy is trying to sove all a boob in his mouth? thats like me preferring flat butts because i can shove it in my mouth.. weirdo!!! big boobs for the win!!
@Beautybynature of course you would say that shit. You are either a fat ass with huge tits or you got gross fake tits. Get a fucking life.
Speaking of pedos. This women confessed a crime on GAG. Suck up my friend son what to do? ↗ Yet not one person has called her that yet.
So the only way to hav big bobs is to be fat or for them being fake? you are INSECURE FLATTY MCFLAT FLAT!!! you can't eat ur way to big boobs... lord know u woul d of done it!! loool!!! big boobs are naturally a blessing and are hereditary! meaning GENETIC... u have the or not!! skinny girls and curvy girls have them.. not fat u jealous flatty
I feel bad that you have th e body of a prepubescent boy!!! must suck not looking feminine!! must suck looking lke a surfboard! flat and shapeless. there is nothing ideal about being shaped like a 10 yr old boy. But to try to knock at busty girls to make yourself feel better? That's pathetic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzYL70FPiL4
the opinionowner mad because she looks like a little boy..
http://oi63.tinypic.com/2jblcer.jpg
I enjoy racks.
Is it wrong that this kinda turned me on?
Uhh... okay?
Thanks for your understanding!
Haha nice take
"Praise my clothes, not my body. God, so tasteless."
>What?