Guys, Why he can't cum?

I am seeing this guy for over a month, sex is great- Ι can see that we are both enjoying it. But he never comes. I don't know why and when I asked him he told me that it is very hard for him to do that and that I do not need to worry. I still do of course because I want him to enjoy as much as I do. What can I do in this situation?

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  • Well let’s start off with this… don’t blame yourself.
    Does he masturbate a lot? That can be the problem. Can he cum when he masturbates. Is he majorly into porn? That too can be a problem.
    If he is hard and you two are having sex there isn’t any reason for him to not cum unless he stops.
    Oh one additional question… do you get really wet? That could be an issue but a wonderful issue. If this is the issue then stop in the middle and use a soft cloth and dry yourself a bit. This might help if that’s his problem.

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  • Definitely have a more In depth discussion with him about this- it’s not just something you quickly ask and get an answer for. Discuss with him and find out what he gets off to when he masturbates and try and incorporate that into whatever you’re doing. Also find out if their is any medication that he’s on that may affect his sex drive or anything

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  • seems dry inside. but as long as everything else functions, you can enjoy. it is the same as when a condom contains the fluid.

  • Would he possibly be on an anti-depressant?
    One of the major side effects is that it makes it hard/impossible to have an orgasm.

    • An anti-depressant that makes it where you can’t orgasm? Now that’s depressing!

    • @BadApple69 go figure right! It's a nice catch that catch 22.

  • Ask him to stop jerking off and lay off from porn for like a month. Might have a death-grip syndrome.

  • He should consult a urologist.

  • Some meds mess things up. Try getting him real close with a hand job first, then have sex. Use more naked foreplay. Does h e stay hard all the time u try sex?

  • I almost never come either. The girl usually loses stamina beforehand. I'm just really insensitive :D and can take a lot.

    Just fucking be happy that he lasts. If he says he likes it, don't fucking overthink.

  • How much porn does he watch? Could be result of porn addiction.

  • Can he cum on his own?

    • I have never seen him, I don't know- probably yes

    • You've never asked him?

    • nope...

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  • Most strange guy i heard so far happy without cum! sounds like big issue here!

  • How important is it for you that he comes?

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