Why is he cumming after 3 minutes?

Usually my boyfriend lasts 30-45 in bed if he even cums at all, but lately he cums after like 3 min. Why is this? I'm not doing anything different, same positions, same places, same everyting.
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  • The short answer is, it's not you, it's him. Whether it's a physical problem or just that he's not putting in as much effort, something has changed.

    He'll be embarrassed as hell if you talk to him about it, but if things don't change you may have to.

  • Does your boyfriend use drugs?

    • smokes and drinks but he always has

    • Any changes in his behavior at all? Are you both still enjoying both your relationship and sex?

    • The only change I see is that he seems to be more loving towards me. I was thinking maybe that could be the reason? and yes we both still enjoy it : )

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  • He's not masturbating right before you have sex/constantly, so he's on a hair trigger more often. Just a theory.

  • Sounds like when you two first started sleeping with each other he was nervous, now that he's used to you he gets off faster. I had the same thing happen.

  • Maybe he doesn't try to hold it back anymore?

  • maybe he's just extra horny