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Why I am feeling like this?

Okay, since I was a young boy I had dreams, fantasies and desires towards men, I had an affection towards panties, thongs and everything girly, maybe because I grew up with my two older sisters. But back then I was really afraid of the possibility that I might be gay or people to find out about that.. I was feeling that if people find out it will be the end of the world for me. Right now I feel different, I mean I don't want my closest friends and my family to know about that, but when I am in the streets, wearing female thong or panties and see women walking I kind want and wish that they would know that I am wearing thong and that I like and crave men just like them. I told (over texts tho) a lot of girls who I know about this. I liked some of them when we were young, but I was rejected, hehe. And some of them think that I am gay other thinks that I am not gay and just really hurt by women.. But I feel good when I am telling them. It' like I want every woman to know about me, which is crazy and strange..
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  • You idolized your sisters when you a kid. You admire their femininity. You heard the term " birds of a feather flock together" Well, just because you were around them, you are not them. You enjoyed your sister. Their female engery. If you grew up and had brothers, you would do the same. The females you meet and see in the streets are your sisters subconsciously. It's like "I want them to know that I'm cool too. I'm like them. They'll be proud of me."

    It's honestly real to pickup other people's personality. The term "Be around the people that do what you are interested in" "If you want to be a good business owner or obtain wealth, be around those people." The Bible says "Bad company corrupts good company." I see this scripture in more ways than one. Like I said, being around someone or people tend to influence us. Some good. Some bad. That's just my take on it. That's what I felt when I read your question.

    • That's what came to me. Instantly.

    • Thank you for your answer! :) You have a point in everything you said, but what that mean for me?

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  • You may be bisexual. You obviously have sexual attraction towards men, and do you feel romantic attraction towards women, or only towards men? Still you sound pretty confused, but I think you'll get answers as you experiment with how you feel. Some people realize they don't like something after they try.

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  • Well, if I had to take a guess it would be because you are either into cross dressing/sissification or you are in your egg stages of being transgender.

    Either way, you do you. No complaints here. 😊

  • You are an exhibitionist, and a cross dresser (that’s why you want strangers to know what you are wearing under your clothes. If you desire men, then you actually ARE gay! But that has nothing to do with the exhibitionism.

  • Maybe you'd like others to know about your more feminine side? Perhaps you crave validation from those who you perceive embody what you'd like to become and to be desirable in the same sense they are? It's okay to want others to recognize you for your femininity, perhaps the underwear is your way of testing the waters around this feminine expression you crave? If you're enjoying the feeling, I suggest slowly being more forward in the way you present yourself in a feminine manner as a means of figuring this out. If you enjoy it then keep at it! If you don't there is no shame in reverting back to where ever you feel comfortable.

    In regard to sending messages to your friends, make sure they are comfortable with that content before sending anything that might alter a friendship.

    *I am not a professional at gender anything, the above comments are my opinion and should be taken as such

  • I still feel you might be bi sexual. Like you like both sexes equally. There is nothing wrong with that. You like guys and you like girls. That is totally normal. Also if you like things in a turn on kinda way could be a fetish.

  • Did your dick go hard for both women and men?

  • Your gay and proud or bi and proud. When most lgbtq accept their sexuality they get to the point where they want people to know because then they no longer have to hide and can fully feel free to be themselves

  • Maybe you were subconsciously telling girls about this and rejecting them before they could reject you..

  • Transsexual maybe...

  • It can often be confusing, but it's okay. You can take time, explore new things and figure it out. Just take your time and do what makes you happy. Just try exploring your sexuality as much as you can

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