Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

First of all I am not being hateful. I want to simply explain my points of view and I really expect you to give me rational responses. Yes I am a virgin who wants to please her future lover very much. 🍌👅 Please don't make any remarks about my "INexperience". If you believe in female sexual experience then explain details by details WHAT A NON VIRGIN GILR CAN DO THAT A VIRGIN GIRL CANNOT DO. I have asked this question to my non virgin friends and none of them gave a concrete answer. They have said:

1. Virgins are a dead fish

OKAY. But non virgins can be dead fish too. AND virgins can be passionate and active and they don't have to have a dick inside them for being able to touch and kiss the guy's body. IF you ❤ someone why won't you show affection to them?

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

2. Virgins get attached after you take their virginity.

This is funny. What does being attached have to do with experience. ANY woman who ❤ and has feelings for the man gets attached to him after having sex with him. And is there anything bad with being attached to your bf? Should she be cold after the sex? Would you like her to act cold after you banged her? I am sure any guy would feel insecure if a girl you had sex act like a stranger to you. You would think you are a bad lay.

Guys complain about frigid and cold girls yet they also complain about girls being attached to them? Please explain why wanting to have sex with you again is annoying. 😂

3. Virgins bite your 🍆

Seriously, biting is a choice. You don't bite accidentally.

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

ANYONE knows biting genitalia is not pleasant. And you can always use your lips in a way that your teeth won't meet your partner's sex.

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

4. Virgins can't deep throat

Sure. Like all non virgins deep throat. 😆 Some people have a good gag reflex. And bj can still be good without deepthroating. Am I right, guys?

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"
Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

5. Virgins don't try new things

Yes like you try new things everytime you have sex. 😂 Have you never repeated the same sex position? If you are really that into new and different things then you will like sex with a virgin as it IS indeed different compared to sex with non virgins.

6. Virgins are not kinky

If you are only for kinky sex and not into passionate lovemaking then you are a bore. Kinkiness in mind, non virgins are not necessarily into kinkiness. Many adventourous women have had wild kinky fantasies in their childhood (before losing their virginity). Some women get less kinky after having actual sex. So virginity doesn't stop a virgin from having kinky mind as well as losing virginity doesn't necessarily arouse interest in kinkiness.

7. Virgins don't go on top

Actually I have heard many women losing their virginity on top of the guy where they control the depth and speed for they don't feel pain.

If I am wrong then enlighten me. 💖 I am always eager to learn. 👍

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  • I mean this in the best non douchy way possible in response to this take...

    um... so what?

    Sex is an experience had between two people (or more, no judgments), and it's what you experience together that matters. People are going to say whatever about virgins or about sluts or about people who have just had sex, but it's just talk until you're in the room with someone else. It doesn't help to try to convince the masses of whether or not something does or doesn't happen in the bedroom with a virgin or someone more experienced because if someone else experiencing the very things you say can or don't happen, that's their experience just like your own will be your experience.

    There really isn't this barometer of good sexual experience that everyone can have equally because our bodies and partners and backgrounds and what we like/don't like are all very very different. You also can't really speak to the virginal experience in sexually experienced terms because you haven't had sex so you don't know what you will or won't do or what others will or won't do until they're in that room with a partner. At this point it's guesses and theories and hearsay.

    I think the best way to put it is---focus not so much on the broad picture and what people out there somewhere in the world allegedly think and feel about what sex is like with whom, and more on yourself, your own body, and whatever comes of that, will be your truth and your truth alone.

  • Virgins both men and women aren't better or worse just because they haven't had sex yet. Sex changes a lot from partner to partner anyway so just having had sex before doesn't mean your any better at it.

    However guys usually masturbate and watch porn and thus have a pretty good idea what they want so masturbating so that you know how you work and can instruct him will probably be helpful to yous both.

    Virgin or not in the end it doesn't matter, just do what is best for you and yours :D

  • That's true, some virgins prefer to be on top when losing virginity, it gives them confidence... and I like it too ;)

  • There is nothing wrong with being Virgin. I myself am still virgin. We value Virginity. your point of view is good.

    • That why we have the gift of masturbation when we need to release stress and anxiety.