Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
1. I love having my self control and him losing his
Orgasms can be amazing. But they can also put a lot of strain on my body. I'll be more than willing to let guys go down on me and do foreplay. But a lot of the time I'd also tell them to stop early so we can get to sex. I love the whole experience, but I also like to orgasm when I choose to instead of it always being a part of sex.
And I love how he loses all of his self control for me. Even if I get on top, when he cums he's showing me how much he wants me. And if he's on top he's putting all of this effort in...it's really sexy either way. I feel like I'm the one that has power. I can make him lose control whenever I want.
2. Sex can feel good, but it was not like how the rumors said which was very relieving to me
Sex can feel great! But the sensation isn't what it's been said to be. Even jackhammering/hard penetration doesn't feel that different from regular sex. It can hurt my cervix or be felt too deeply inside of me. But the sensation of sex, is like 90% the same as it is for regular sex. I can see now how lots of women can say that they can have sex and be thinking of other things or be totally relaxed.
I used to be so worried because people would say things like 'she has to take it' and 'pounding' and just all the dirty talk. I'm very happy now that I had nothing to be worried about. Sex isn't stressful for me to have at all. I swear it's the easiest thing for me to do and handle physically in bed.
3. I was so surprised, but short sex is one of my favorites
I love short sex. Long sex is really good sometimes, but short sex, it's just really easy. There's no soreness after a long time or me asking him to stop or waiting a long time. I was completely shocked, but I don't feel dissatisfied at all.
I wanted to give a different perspective. I love orgasming from foreplay and would also love to orgasm from sex one day, but for now I like things this way. Orgasms for women always seem to be a huge debate, so I wanted to say it's not the end all be all if you don't cum, not in my eyes. It can even be preferable. It could be that a few years from now, I could be sick of things being this way.
For now I honestly feel satisfied.
What Girls & Guys Said
18 21A great piece of writing :)
agree with you fully
Men like this as well ( when a woman loses all control of her emotions and composure while climaxing ) your cheating yourself out of the experience he get from you by not totally enjoying it as it comes ( no pun intended ) .
I ask for orgasms sometimes from foreplay... but self control is really nice to me also.
Thanks for this. My wife says much the same, And i am one of those guys that feels crappy if i dont make her cum..
But what if your woman is different from you? What if she wants to orgasm but is too nice because she knows Im doing my best? What if she finds someone who does make her orgasm?
I over think girls, but seriously, I won't rest until I'm the very best in the world at pleasing ladies. I won't let her out of bed until she cums. Your take is nice to read but I don't think it applies to all girls and I don't think my future girl deserves the excuse "it's OK, orgasm isn't always needed"
Cheating? If she really like you she won't whether she regularly orgasms or not. Look how many guys cheat and they orgasm just fine.
What about extremely submissive sex, though? Ever dabbled in that? Regardless, nice take.
sometimes i dont like orgasming either, but thats due to different reasons.
The guy should still try to get the girl there.
I agree!
I agree honestly... Let's you know that he really enjoys you
This is all reddit talks about is hoes fucking having sex and whatever dumb ass society.
This is interesting. So how do you know a woman likes you and loves the sex?
I like this take a lot.
Can you help me on my take then please? There are two guys who gave different experiences to this woman? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30669-do-women-have-dirtier-sex-with-guys-who-don-t-care-about-them-what
If I'm not in a relationship with him, and he doesn't give me an orgasm, then yes I feel used because the whole point of having sex with him is getting off.
My wife says some of the same things as you when I tell her I want to make her come. She thinks it's an ego thing for me, but it's really not. Seeing her lose herself to pleasure is the absolute best thing about sex. I think I totally get what you're saying in point #1.
Now granted, it's extremely rare for a guy to say "I'm satisfied; I don't even need to come"—it's happened to me maybe 3 times in all the years we've been together. So when a guy says it's important to him for you to come, he's putting himself in your shoes. It's a golden rule thing.
Even better than treating someone how you want to be treated is treating someone how *they* want to be treated, so communication is paramount. But at least you're not with jerks who only care about themselves!
I know guys can enjoy it! I make sure to act romantic and interested during sex ofc. But yes I've been lucky lol
I feel used.
If that's the way you feel then talk to your partner. You can do foreplay or even orgasm after sex.
Sex without an orgasm is a complete waste of time. Just saying.
You are a guy with a pink account, just sayin
Don't know anything about you, but that's what it looks like. Why does someone's personal preference bother you so much? lol
@Shiiz or here's a better answer... You just don't know anything about women.
@LadyTerror Lol, I am a woman. And yes, I own a vagina.
I know. I was defending you here
@LadyTerror my apologies
I think this is true for some women not all because my girlfriend said she never really cums but loves to make me cum
i wouldn't be happy at all.. i would probably masturbate and watch porn or something since he won't get me off that's pretty shitty