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Hey guys! With the results of poll here is the take as promised. I got so close to equal response for two takes I decided to do something different. This take was most requested by men. I will be writing the one most girls chose later today.
First things first I have to make obligatory credits for the voters:
@LouisvilleGirl826 (Huh I wonder if she actually lives in Kentucky. Maybe she knows my ex-fiance :P ) @Fathoms77 @Spiorad_Aisce The rest are anons or didn't comment so I don't know they're usernames. I'm sure they'll find their way here.
So let's look at why I find women who dress conservatively attractive shall we?
First we need to determine what a woman who dresses conservatively even looks like.
Jeans + shoes + T-Shirt = conservative.
Women, when men say they want conservative they mean that. Not this...
That's Amish for those wondering. That isn't attractive girls. You know that, I know that. That's not what men want you to look like when they say "Dress conservatively"
The want you to look like this...
That's what we mean by conservative. It's really not that hard to accomplish. If you look like this...
...You may attract more attention but then you can't complain about only being seen as a sex object. That's why I say "If you dress like a slut prepare to get treated like one" this particular model isn't going to be seen as a person. She's advertising her body as something to be desired. Therefore people are going to desire it. They aren't going to enjoy her body and personality equally because to me dressing like this screams "I slept with every boy over the age of 14 in a 10 mile radius!"
Now don't get me wrong, I like to look at women but I find the conservative more attractive. Some of you who came here for an opinion from me instead of a brief lesson in social misconceptions this is the part you're here for!
So why do I find women who dress conservatively more attractive?
1: It shows self respect and confidence
There's nothing more sexy to me than self respect. Enough said really. I can't honestly see Girl 2 having high self esteem and I wouldn't believe she would remain faithful. I can see Girl 1 being confident, successful, loyal, mature, and parent material. Girl 2? Not so much.
2: It gives an air of mystery
Let's face it girls. When someone sees you or you see someone else you judge them by appearance. It's not demeaning. It's not sexist. It's just how people work. When the girls are hanging out of your top and your shorts are so short they should be considered underwear it's not as exciting. You can already basically see everything. When she's standing in Wranglers or Silvers and a blouse or T-Shirt on with a beer in her hand? I know what I want to see but she's dressed conservatively so I go nuts. Mentally undressing her then dressing her back up before I go talk to her.
3: She immediately looks like you can bring her home
Get your mind out of the gutter! I mean bring her home to meet the parents. Contrary to popular belief men care about family a LOT more than we let on. Usually more than women. Having your Mother and Father approve of your girlfriend is make or break for most men. A woman who doesn't walk around half naked with her ass and tits shaking looks like a more viable candidate for passing mum and dads testing.
So how do YOU dress Jarhead? Can you live up to your own expectation?
Some of you might be thinking "He's throwing a lot of things out there and he seems to expect a lot. Can he meet his own standard?" The short answer?
You tell me :P
(Yes, yes I can meet my own standard. That's me in the picture if you couldn't tell)
Anyways guys, this is me stating my preference. I'm not trying to speak for all men or start some kind of flame war over this. Just stating my preferences and giving my reasons for having them.
Cheers!
~Jarhead
Mods: This keeps getting put in Sexual Behavior. Please put it in Guy's Behavior or Relationships when you can, thanks! ~Jarhead
What Girls & Guys Said
51 35this my man. this is pure gold. i appreciate a classy woman as well. cheers!
I heard that you can opt out of receiving opinions on a myTake. Next time you might want to do that. It's clear that you just wanted to post your point and not get any others since you keep copying and pasting the same shit on every comment.
I'll dress how I want and really don't care who has what to say about it. If people want to judge based off that, let them.
See you get the point. I'm not trying to dictate what people wear. I'm merely stating my preference and I'll look into the whole no opinions thing. Thanks for the tip! :)
100% attracted to women who dress more conservatively, showing less skin. Women who wear skimpy or tight-fitted clothes only want the attention of men who cat-call, over-complement, overly flirt, grovel before and ultimately worship them.
Women DO NOT dress for themselves. If I see a women like that I immediately know she wants the attention of brown and black guys who slavishly grovel before women and worship them. I avoid these women like the plague.
I am more for conservative style myself but women don't dress for men, honestly. We just find a hobby in matching different styles and it's a way to express ourselves with creativity. Yes, a woman wearing more revealing clothes is usually more insecure than the others but it doesn't mean she's doing it for men
is just like saying that men go to the gym or practice sports only for women
@Heera hat's actually a fair statement. If a man is playing sports or goes to the gym to look better for women (or men depending) that or money in the case of sports. Like it or not everyone is trying to impress someone. Whether that would be another person or not is irrelevant. You don't look nice to look in the mirror and say "Damn I look good" if you do that you're only self absorbed and narcissistic.
Sure thing everyone wants to look good for other people, but is not only for the opposite sex. Mostly, hobbies are just hobbies. Again, most women put makeup on because it's fun
@Heera I can't argue that it's fun. I had a girlfriend ask to put makeup on me at one point. I was skeptical obviously but it was fun to see her freak out about how much of a girl I looked like and it was quite shocking to see how different I looked. Personally though I prefer women who don't wear makeup or at least very little of it. Call me minimalist I guess lol
It's okay to have preferences :)
@Heera that's just it though. It's a preference. That's not to say I wouldn't date a girl who wears a lot of make up. So long as she doesn't make herself look like a completely different person. I want to wake up next to the person I went to bed with not a gremlin who ate after midnight or got too wet.
Definition of conservative = your own eye/opinion
100 years ago a woman would have been considered a slut for exposing her ankle. Now women go half naked to the beach and nobody bats an eye.
Dress modestly but fashionably.. that's my motto and my wardrobe. Good Take btw!
exactly girl! (y)
don't be mislead by clothing. I have personally found out that conservative looking girls are the most promiscuous ones. What they are trying to achieve is to cover up their sexual madness with misleading appearance, but in reality they're just undercover whores.
Bro... You sick. How can simple do not get attracted by chicks who wear mini skirts and shi? :/
Lmao I am not American, and I didn't even say anything about America lmao :D
I'm not attracted to girls who wear mini skirts no. There's not reason I should be. Congrats you're showing off your body. I feel like I should give you $50 not a heartfelt good morning.
Ye thanks fat boi :D
I agree. This look is a look I would want to get to know her. A similar look is a country women look as well.
MUCH more respect is deserved of these women for not flaunting what we already know they got!
@polocrew 😂😂😂
i like to dress casually
I depends on the the weather though. In summer, in a hot country, whos gunna wear jeans and boots?
It's not something you're supposed to agree with. You aren't supposed to take it as advice. My word it not law. Don't demonize my preference. Besides I couldn't give a fuck what Americans look like. I'm Canadian. I don't care what Americans look like or what their women prefer to wear. My preference is my own. No need to get offended.
Oh im not offended. I just think there are practical reasons for dressing 'unconservatively'.
Then point out your reasons.
If its hot jeans are uncomfortable to wear.
I didn't read whole article. But I respect the idea of conservative girls that you want.
This dude is not telling you what to do, he just expressed his ideal girls that he's attracted to.
I love this and agree 100%
I wish more girls had self respect
And didn't dress like hoes
Notice how many girls disliked this...
Maybe because girls and women don't like to repeatedly be told they don't respect themselves unless they button that shirt up so tight they almost get decapitated.
@ShaeNielson lmao if your ass and boobs are hanging out, you're a HOE
omg same! Im attracted to girls who dress conservatively. When i see girls in low cut shorts etc... i get turned off instantly because they look slutty.
Huh. A man my age actually agrees with me? Odd.
I live in a very conservative part of the Lone Star state so I get to rarely see girls dressed in revealing clothing, and I don't club or hit the bars so it's harder.
I like when she dresses up and leaves a lot to the imagination.
www.seriousfiver.com/.../...rts-booty-13oct-12.jpg
HAWTTTTT
I respectfully disagree
And that's perfectly fine. At this point I care so little about the offended little girls I've started copy pasting the same response.
I agree with your saying, "If you dress like a slut be prepared to get treated like one." I think people should be able to wear whatever they want, but I think that t shirt and jeans look is really attractive. I agree with you Owner. If girls dress provacatively and claim it's not for sex, then it's not my fault that I interpret it that way. It's just distracting at school to be honest.