Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
My experience
I've recently came to terms that I'm also attracted to woman it's something I've struggle with since I was a child but never told anyone. I was always confused and thought because I'd never seen it before as a child "why can't girls be with girls" I just thought it wasn't a thing.
As I got older I started getting attracted to girls as well as boys but never acted on it and just admired them in my head. I remember a couple times I'd go in to hug a girl friend and I'd have the instinct to kiss her one time I nearly did and the girl didn't react to it well and called me a freak and other cruel words.
It's no one's business but mine.
There's always been rumors about my sexuality but I don't feel it's anyone's business but mine, I've never heard a straight person go around telling everyone they're straight because no one cares so why should anyone care what I prefer in my bed?
My worries
I've never dated anyone but right now I have a crush on a guy and I worry he'll judge me and so will my family as I've grown up with all woman and I don't want to be seen as different from who I was before if I came out, I want people to like me for me also I feel my relationships with female friends will feel uncomfortable if I did because they'll feel weird around me and think I fancy them or something.
What made me realise I like women as well as men
Strange one I know but one day I was on instagram and a porn video came up by accident, I'd never seen lesbian porn before let alone porn, I used to be very innocent and prudish before I found porn but I instantly got extremely aroused and it felt right and I wanted it for myself. Also last year I was watching I'm a celebrity get me out of her (a British reality program) and I started to have a massive crush on Vanessa White from the girl band, The Saturdays ⬇⬇⬇⬇⬇⬇⬇⬇ I just think she a gorgeous goddess. Honestly, I don't even like her music but just WOW.
I don't want the stigma put on me and I don't get labels
I've noticed a lot of people assume bisexual people just like to sleep around or just want to be different and special when in truth I'm a shy, virgin, who votes conservative. If I end up with a guy I don't want people saying "oh so you are straight you were just going through a phase" no I still like women I just happened to fall for a man. That's what being bisexual is, I'm not a lesbian, there's a difference but at the same time I hate labels and I don't understand why people identity and express themselves though their sexual preferences. No one's cares, it's 2018. You're nothing out of the ordinary, you're not special, you're just another person going through the same shit as everyone else.
P.s. This is my first myTake so sorry if it's bad and sorry as well if there's any grammar or spelling mistakes, I have disylexia #boxticker
What Girls & Guys Said
23 51No one cares anymore. Maybe 20 years ago.
So much easier on a woman who comes out as bi, versus a man. You might not want to believe me, but when a guy tells a woman he's bi, she's hearing "gay". To most women (in my experience) there is no such thing as a bi guy - if a guy has been with a man, he's gay. Conversely, most women see it as ok for a woman to be bi, and they don't stigmatize her as gay. So, for me, it's a tough decision as to whether I'm coming out as bi.
you can do it if you want to, bi guy means bi guy dont worry about what those punks think :'( <3
@N0-On3 Easy to say - tough to live through. Don't get me wrong, I've had bi GF's who didn't see me as gay. They understood. So, that's one reason I'd like a bi girlfriend again. "Straight" girls are too judgmental (and horribly unfair) on this issue (in my experience).
Yeah i understand.. I've seen things where they say that sometimes lesbian gfs judge their bi gfs bc theyre not "gay enough" bc the like guys too and i think thats similar (in a paradox complete opposite kind of way) to what you're saying bc they dont understand bc they have only ever been with one gender? Do you think a gay guy would be too judgmental too about you liking girls? Just wondering :)
@N0-On3 I think a total gay guy would definitely be judgmental concerning his bi boyfriend liking girls.
Oh gotcha
hey, i discover that im "pansexual" today too. By posting a poll. now i see any hole i put my peepee in. thanks for the advice guys. appreciate it. NOw i know what to do next
Same.
I don't think I ever will. My wife would not understand at all. I am not so much attracted to men as much as I love getting blowjobs and to be honest some of the best ones I've had have been from younger gay men.
Mine wouldn't either. A couple times she almost caught some material on my computer/phone. I wss able to completely disagree the suspicion, but shit, her jokes were almost cruel.
Very interesting
Because of Christians and Muslims and they bigotry towards homosexuals.
No body is bisexual because if a man has sex with a woman, his seed is going to desire to find the egg of a woman and that woman's egg is going to welcome the seed of a man.
It's a paradox to think homosexuality is legit because our body would be designed to be able to accept the homosexuality and it's not.
For you folks who want to argue: I said no body, not nobody.
"It's no one's business but mine."
Exactly.
Who cares. I've heard people saying that I look gay but is not something I am gonna discuss about. People will always judge you one way or another. For some of us is gay, for others is drogatic, or alcoholic. At the end none of them cares to know who you are, so why botter to hear them?
I get the opposite. I get told I don't look like a lesbian.
@RachelleDraws people guide their self by stereotypes.
Any disrespectful opinion should simply be ignored. “Simply” and “easily” are sadly not the same thing, but if decide to have a relationship with a woman you’ll be judged the same way as lesbians no matter how you feel about men. Unless you go straight, it’s only a matter of time. (Please note that everything I said was done so with perfect respect.)
Like you said, strait people dont go around saying to everyone, hey I'm strait. Keep to you self, and share only with somebody you trust. Really trust..
You just anonymously came out of the closet.
Yes... yes I did
I've seen you around before and I think you'd be shocked if you knew who I was.
Doubtful. I keep my distance from everyyone here, I don't even know you.
Of course you don't know me but you've answered some of my questions on here in the past when I'm not anonymous
Orientation doesn't really surprise me anymore, especially with how many women are having relationships with other women. It's pretty commonplace and I've grown up in the Bay Area so seeing lgbt is normal for me, albeit more normalized now than ever.
How old are you?
20 but I was 19 when I wrote this
I can totally agree my problem is being transgender , what I want I cannot achieve so I try and bury my turmoil of feelings. Keep taking the antidepressants and hope I don't kill myself !!!
*Reads title*
And yet, you did...
Third time I've had to explain this but here goes. I made it anonymous and I wanted to here other's opinions and thoughts on the topic and hear others experiences
If it's no one's business, then why did you make a mytake about it, on a website where thousands of people will see it?
I know people would think this but I wanted to hear others opinions on it and see if they agreed
Bisexual girls like balls squeezing & punching? Is it turn on if I let my balls?
Everyone knows anyway most women are bisexual
Be happy for who you are and comfortable with yourself.
You be you and don't change a thing.