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Disclaimer: I am NOT saying women should feel OBLIGATED to swallow after a blowjob, nor am I saying she is LESS THAN for not doing so.
I am exercising an opinion and I will not be apologetic for what I say and nor will I entertain you if you complain in the comments accusing me of doing either of the above. If you do, boo wah to you, I warned you already.
Okay, now that I put up a disclaimer for the internet’s sensitive ones, let me explain myself.
I think it’s kinda shitty and rude to spit out your man’s load after sex, provided you’re a not new to oral sex or a teenager. I get it in those cases since you aren’t exactly used to having sex and you’re likely to be more squeamish.
I haven’t always swallowed, when I first began having sex I swallowed the first time but didn’t continue to after. My boyfriend at the time explained he preferred it because it optimized his orgasm, and after realizing spitting just made a mess and kept his splooge in my mouth longer, I agreed it was better.
I noticed, however, a lot of women don’t like it and even go so far as to say it’s gross.
Some of my friends feel this way, and I see a lot of women online see it this way. But what I find ironic about this is I’ve seen these same female users say they don’t like swallowing because it’s gross, but then complain about guys should go down on his woman if he cares about her pleasure.
So, a guy should go down on you, and please you, but if you’re doing oral, it’s okay for you to act like his climax is so gross that you stop as he’s finishing and spit it out? I mean, maybe it’s just me, but if I was being pleasured and my man stopped as I was riding out my climax to spit out my "gross" feminine fluids, I would feel like shit.
My orgasm would not only be as good, but I would feel hurt by him being disgusted by a part of me that is a natural and a positive sign for me enjoying my sexual experience. I would be even more hurt if he pulled a move I've heard of girls doing where they run to the bathroom to wash their mouths out.
Women would be DEVASTED if a man did this and complained that her wetness was “gross.” I get that women don’t typically have fat loads like guys, but you do have feminine wetness and some women squirt. How would you feel if your man was repulsed by that so much so that every time you’d cum, he’d stop, spit or wash his mouth out?
Yes, cum isn't delicious, but I personally think cough syrup and vodka is worse, but most of us can still stomach them.
I don’t know, I know a lot of guys don’t care and at the end of the day, it’s you and your sex life, not mine. This is just a thought I’ve had and I wanted to put it out there just for the sake of perspective.
But for fun, if you somehow feel inspired to try swallowing but are squeamish, here are some tips to make the experience a little nicer for you.
1) Encourage a healthy diet: If his diet is healthy, his baby gravy is less likely to be foul. Have him eat lots of fruits and vegetables if he's willing.
2) Utilize the back of your throat: You don't necessarily have to fully deepthroat if you're not capable of it, but put his head as far back as you can and just swallow. My fiance reports this is actually a pleasant feeling and often asks me to do it when he climaxes.
3) Keep a drink on the nightstand: If you really, REALLY can't stomach the taste of semen, keep a drink next to the bed. Just take a casual drink afterward, and if he asks why, you can simply say sex is tiring and you need to hydrate. It isn't a lie, if you fuck proper, you'll likely need a long break and a glass of water.
Love Jane. <3
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