Why I Want To Do Oral Only Hookups

I've really been thinking about trying this out. It sounds awkward, which is why I've been on the fence about it. People can act like you should only do this when you're in highschool, or that it's just a silly idea. But oral is a sex act, so if you're being pleased or pleasing someone, what's wrong with that? I feel like a sex act can't be immature, it's just whatever you choose to do with your partner.

Only doing oral would be so fun, and there's less pressure. The less STD risk is cool too. I like how it's just fun, as in I don't have to worry about possibly getting pregnant. I like how we wouldn't be with our bodies pressed together or even face to face, so I'd feel more comfortable. I think oral can be underrated, srsly.

Why I Want To Do Oral Only Hookups

I did hear from other women that it's easy to get guys to agree with this for hookups. I was really surprised, but they all told me they just straight up told him that's what they wanted, and that no, they didn't want sex. A few, actually told me they did pussy licking only hookups with guys. I was surprised that lots of guys were willing to, but they said it was common and guys can love it.

I had thought, that the guys who were into that were mostly online or had fetishes, but they said they were just average guys. I love that it's more common than I had thought, IRL. In my case...

I think I would start off with him only licking me, for no pressure. It still seems like it'd be awkward, but if he's willing why not. I'd want to give him BJs, but not having to worry about it would be really cool. Just zero pressure for me, and...I didn't ask them how the guys get off when she doesn't do a BJ. I guess they jack off, or she even gave him a handjob. I know some guys can cum just from licking pussy...

I do think, that as long as you timed it right, you could touch his dick while he was going down and get him to cum pretty fast. I would want to try that myself. But I like the options. I could do oral on him, or not, or whatever. I'd be upfront, just like how my friends were. I can't stand miscommunication.

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  • Sound pretty fun to me. Sex shouldn't really be inhibited. Also, oral can really be better than "cock in puss". You can touch in so many more different ways and stimulate areas that can never be stimulated by a cock or the inside of a vag even. I love how intense it can get eating a pussy and watching the woman quiver and grabbing my hair and squeezing my head with her legs all the while those beautiful moans and swearing and gasps. I love eating pussy and it's all encompassing. I can eat pussy and not get anything in return sometimes and be happy and turned on. Also, I've noticed sometimes that if a woman orgasms really hard, it's hard for her to concentrate on anything else after and would be hard to concentrate on giving a really good bj. And sometimes it's hard for me to give good oral after having a mind blowing orgasm, myself. During is probably the most ideal time for mutual oral to happen, rather than taking turns. The passion and intensity of getting oral, to me, just encourages the passion and intensity in giving. So fucking hot. Anyhow, I would love an oral hookup myself. It wouldn't be as bad, even, if it were multiples of this type because it's not like you're entering different people.

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  • TBH oral is the only way I think women are *guaranteed* a good time during a one night stand. Since many don't really enjoy PIV sex in general (I said in general- not all lol)

    • I made that experiance, too. I dont do PIV at all anymore, just oral sex ;)

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  • Oral sex is the best sex, no doubt about that! I sincerely think you should first both get tested negative for STDs before having oral sex. Otherwise the risk is very high.

    • Totally agree except about the STDs. Very high risk for what?

    • You can catch almost all the same diseases orally as you can with PIV, although the transmission rate for aids is probably much lower.

    • @Intraluminal yup, take no chances, have him get tested negative first, then enjoy!

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  • Agree with pretty much everything your said. Oral only hookups are great, and not just for teens. Not so sure about only pussy-licking because giving blowjobs is also a turn on and fun, and I like guys I hook up with to get off.

  • Real men eat pussy.
    You can still get something funky just by doing oral.
    Oral sex is more intimate than regular D in V sex. It's your mouth. You kiss loved ones with your mouth, you don't kiss strangers. Sex is for both (at least if you do it right) wherein oral is one pleasing another. I don't go about my day trying to please people. I do a lot of things for myself. But if I care about someone or really dig them, I want to make them happy. I try to please them because making someone I like happy, makes me happy. So I will only go down on the girls I really like & care if they are happy or not. I want to make them happy. Otherwise if I don't really like them (& this may sound dickey but) I always think, What's in it for me?

  • I love doing blowjob only hookups! They're quick, easy, no mess and lets you get back out there quicker for another hookup. The worst case scenario is I have to touch up my makeup. I can have some pretty fantastic orgasms sucking cock too!

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  • Why not do 69? That is even more arousing for most people.

    • That'd be cool too.

  • I only do 69 only on hookups. It saves a lot of time.

  • sounds too shallow for my taste.

    • How?

    • Hooking up. Even just orally. If you mean only having oral sex with your partner, still wouldn't want that. But girl you do you. Just know, no causually sex is safe sex

    • Yeah, it can be more dangerous. But it can be really easy to catch STDs in relationships too.

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  • Each their own, really. I love doing oral and I love seeing that the guy is satisfied; I met a lot of guys who only wanted oral sex only, they would get off and aah no time for actual penetration and yeaah, that usually made me quite sad. Oral is great, always there, penetration or not, as long as the partner wants it

    Though, from my experience, I found that some guys with lower sexual confidence want to go down on girls rather than penetrating, or never penetrating at all. And that's fine. There should always be communication and no pressure :D

  • I am a hugely oral person. I would love for sex to always be at least 85% oral. But I think oral sex is WAY WAY more intimate then just intercourse. with intercourse you can just pound it out and be done. There is no up close and personal moments at all. It makes me laugh that women are so afraid of intercourse but will suck cock without thinking twice.
    You can't use an STD argument. if your putting your mouth on it your just as likely to get it. condoms? nope... I am fixed. I had the snip snip done 17 years ago. so I am going to eat her out, which I definitely am, then why would I wear a condom?

  • What if I am not particularly fond of receiving a blow job?

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    I grew a massive boner reading what you wrote.

    Well written.

  • Oral sex is the best!

  • as long as she doesn't mind her butt being licked as well, I guess I'd be fine with it.

  • Still exposed to a ton of STDs...

  • Oral is a lot of work. Hookups don't deserve long bjs only short or just intercourse.

  • I could have an oral sex only relationship and I'd be fine with it, even though I don't cum from oral. I can always take care of myself afterwards.

  • you know, I like cunnilingus only Hookups a lot haha

  • I'm inspired now...

    • They could be talking about HSV1. You can catch it on the genitals just like HSV2. The difference is that H1 is much more milder than H2 usually. H1 is usually the one that causes cold sores so almost everyone has it. Can't read the articles now but I'll skim later.

  • If I knew the girl well enough, liked her and was sure she she had no std's I would love a friends with benefits where I gave her head. It is was more satisfying and more fun for the guy than most girls have been led to believe

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