Sexual Relationships 
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Let me start off by saying that most porn is overrated bullsh*t. Yeah pardon my French but I absolutely abhor it with a passion. Why do I despise most porn so much? Well mostly because it’s super cheesy nonsense and it doesn’t arouse me in the slightest. It’s all the same BS that caters to what most people are into. All while it neglects those of us with less common interests.
My first encounter with porn: Even when I first became sexually aware(entered puberty) I accidentally stumbled upon it and was immediately horrified by it. I had no idea what I was looking at but it disturbed me so much seeing random naked people “doing it”.
I find it funny: During my teens I went from being disturbed by it, to finding comical because of all the funny noises and “toys” they use in those videos. I still couldn’t understand why people(mostly my fellow dudes) actually wank to this nonsense. The acting is so bad and it’s all the same. It’s either bondage, bdsm, dress up, spanking etc. All boring stuff that I’m not into. I think I despise bondage the most because it looks uncomfortable.
Most of those sites are full of viruses and fake ads: Even the more “legit” porn sites have fake ads that can infect your device with a virus. Which makes me think that all porn sites are nothing more than shams to acquire people’s personal information.
It brainwashes you: Porn is nothing more than fantasy, it’s not real. Porn will have you think that women are just as into men as men are into women but in reality most women aren’t that into men’s bodies. In porn, women are kissing, feeling and licking men all over but in reality a lot of women will admit that men’s bodies do nothing for them. There are even “straight” women who will blatantly say that men’s bodies are gross.
Where is all of the stuff I’m interested in? The stuff I’m interested in isn’t even available on porn sites. Ironically it’s only available on non porn sites like Deviantart. Specifically female versions of the Matrix navel bugging scene. And I should mention that I also have a thing for corduroy pants. Unfortunately there isn’t much corduroy pants fetish content on the web, so I have to create my own using AI art generators.
It gives me anxiety: I have recently been gradually decreasing my consumption of Deviantart matrix bugging content because yes that’s my type of “porn” even though it’s not classified as porn. But nonetheless it’s porn for me and as such I find that the more I view it, the more my anxiety levels increase. I guess that’s lords way of telling me that I need to stop watching naughty stuff.
Not a fan of nudity: I have never found nudity to be erotic at all. I actually feel uncomfortable seeing random naked women on the internet. Now if she’s topless and is wearing corduroy pants then yes that turns me on but completely nudity is a no no.
So yeah that’s why I don’t like porn. In my opinion the only sexual activity should be between you and your partner and nobody else needs to see it. Sex should be a private matter.
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