Why in many cases, the sex is over when the guy cums?

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every time i have done a woman, right after i came, she was happy too (in most cases) or at least acted like it... So how is the woman satisfied sexually then?
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  • A lot of times women don't communicate what they'd like or what they enjoy sexually. So if a man cums too soon or if the woman hasn't cum but wants too she won't communicate that to him, she will just bury it down deep tell herself that he's bad in bed and resent him then maybe start cheating.

    I went through a long series of dating women like this through high school and college and the sex was kinda vanilla, I thought I was a stud and they were enjoying the sex and when I asked them they would say they loved it but some of them cheated and others I think were telling me what I wanted to hear because they had tunnel vision in regards to marraige and feared upsetting the apple cart.

    It was only when I met my wife. She was 18 just started college and I was 28. So we dated for about 6 months before having sex. We had been making out all the way to her place in the taxi, id been to her place before but we'd never done it yet, never even got to third base. So she goes to the bathroom and is in their a while and comes out completely nude and I feel a jolt of electric run through my body and she's the most gorgeouslittle tight body, she leads me to the bedroom, undresses me and by this this stage I'm hard as diamond, I'm ready for it, I've been waiting six months for this. I dont even give her foreplay I just stuck it in there and she's wet for it, I give her two pumps and it's over. She asks did I cum and laughs while I'm still inside her but not in a mean way, she says that's OK and kisses me and to my surprise reaches into a drawer and pulls out a rabbit dildo vibrator and proceeds to masturbate with it in front of me until she orgasms, by this stage I'm hard again and I have to bend her over and nail her from behind, I last a lot longer and she rubs her clit to orgasm while I'm doing this. So as the relationship continues she tells me what she likes sexually, what feels good, she tells me if she wants an orgasm or multiple orgasms or if she doesn't feel like cumming tonight and wants just to cuddle and go to sleep. Or if she's on her period she will give me a blowjob or let me jerk off to her tits. I thought porn had given me unreasonable expectations but a little bit of communication from her about sex made it the best sex I'd ever had. Pregnancy sex was also awesome.

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  • You are SO enamored with the immediate physical sensation of pleasure that in your physical addiction TO this immediate neurochemical 'high' ... that you've FORGOTTEN Nature's evolutionary PURPOSE BEHIND PROVIDING this chemical inducement.

    'Species survival' IS the foremost baseline!
    Once sperm fuses with Ovum secondary chemistry is triggered which 'satiates' Lust. Science terms this "the Coolidge Effect".

    In Humans the male 'refractory period' to recuperate 'desire' for a SECOND ejaculation is SUBSTANTIALLY shortened if intuitive opportunity arises to potentially fertilize an ALTERNATE fertile female's Ovum. A less-publicized 'sinful' ancillary phenomena is linked to the intuitive 'desire' to fertilize newly-maturing pre-adolescents.

    Known history confirms successful Peruvian conception carried to term, implanted as young as 4 years 7 months. This however robs the juvenile 'mother' of many nutrients necessary for the juvenile parent's own physical maturation.

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  • Most guys lose their erection after they cum. Some guys will go to foreplay during their refractory period. Once they get another erection, they can continue having sex.

    • How are women sexually satisfied? If he can't get another erection, then give her oral. Most women don't orgasm from PIV sex, but from clitoris stimulation.

  • Because if he is handling his business right she has already gotten off multiple times.

  • Because his interest in continuing plummets.

    But you can keep going. Just maybe not immediately using his penis so move to other activities.

    • LOL LOL LOL i am 100% straight Wasn't referring to myself LOL Please read my update thanks

    • Sorry man, I knew what you meant. I didn't mean "you" as in you. Or gay sex. :) I just meant that after I cum, my wife and I will continue with other stuff (oral, fingering, kissing, etc.) until we can have sex again. As for your update, there are times when they are satisfied. But especially so if she's had an orgasm before penetration began.

  • that might be a one-trick-pony...

  • How about this as a suggestion. You know you will be able to get off, no matter. So why not ensure that the one you had sex with want to come back for more so that you can do it more. And to get to get her to that point then this is my tip to you. Figure out what turns her on and use that. Warm up, learn what body parts she enjoys being played with and how. Always try to be better and better at it. Finger her play with her. Make her come a few times. After making her come then you get to come. What happens is she will be happy, she would want more of that, and you will get more.

  • Cause we can't recover from a orgasm as fast as the girl. We can't keep going they can. We go soft and takes us a while to get hard. Also it doesn't mean the sex is really over maybe for the guy but you can still pleasure the girl in different ways and maybe the guy can get hard again.

  • Because he is selfish.

  • That's just a pause before we start again

  • He's worn out. Time for a break.