And why do people say “women want men that have high body counts” and “men want women with low body counts”?
doesn't everyone prefer people with lower body counts? What woman actually thinks “damn that guy put his dick into 30 different women thats hot”? Dont women want to feel special too when it comes to sex and relationships?
It's a stupid double standard created by guys, and as per usual women come out on the short end of the stick.
When it comes down to it, most guys hold themselves to a very low standard and going out and tapping everything in sight, seems to be the norm. However, all it says, is I don't think highly of myself or women.
Women are ultimately in control of whether sex is gonna happen, or not, so guys go to great lengths to dupe women into giving it up.
Men think it a conquest to have bed many women, while the majority of women tend to not hand-out sex to every Tom, Dick and Hairy in an attempt to weed-out the good guys.
In the last 15-20 years though, women have started to come around and do the same thing to men. Especially, those women who have been abused by these so called "studs". They no use and abuse men, just like some men have been doing for ages. So if their body count matches a guys, they are deemed a slut or a ho, when really, they are just practicing what guys preach.
However, a guy that beds many women in his life, most often, is not going to be taken seriously by any decent women who have been careful over the years not to sleep with everyone they meet (low body count), bc he has earned "playa status" and it serves him right.
it's much easier for a woman to get laid than it is for a man to get laid. what comes easy does not build character or self-control.
for a man to get laid, there is usually something he's doing right to be able to bypass the principle of pre-selection. women don't like to sleep with creeps or predators or losers so if a guy can get laid, chances are he isn't a creep or a predator or a loser and therefore is seen as more attractive. it shouldn't come as a shock when there a small but select few men in the world with body counts far higher than any woman. attractive men are extremely rare and it's basic economics at this point. supply and demand.
for a woman to get laid, she just has to be herself but just because a guy has sex with a girl doesn't mean he loves or cares about her. guys would fuck a slut but not marry a slut. this is due to the biological fact that men can impregnate multiple women but women can only be impregnated by one man. so a man with multiple wives knows who the parents of his offspring are but a woman with multiple husbands does not know who the father is but only know she is the mother.
More is not Always better and I wouldn't prefer it, but neither do I prefer less. Maybe there is a "too much" with men but that would be more in the case of: I can expect to be with him for only one time because he isn't staying. Altough if I only want a sex partner I wouldn't care about that either. The important part though: More partners often means more experience so better chance of being good.
Note for me though: One partner can be more than enough and I speak about hypothetical situations.
Because there are societal rules, and they even have a rule book. And the person who wrote the rule book is, Fred. Does that clear things up? Sally Jo wrote a rule book, but it was banned from the library that Fred owned. I thought everyone knew this.
@SnowedIn
I thought that Sally Jo's book was available with every purchase over $150 on Love Honey. I might be mistaken. That might be blueprints of the Capitol Building.
@SnowedIn You can get it on Love Honey, but you have to review 14 of their products before you can buy the rule book.
@muskratlove... that's disappointing. I'm too busy using the products to write reviews. Perhaps I can dictate. 🤔
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Men won’t say it but they love the thought of a women fucking a lot of guys. They want to be the one to tame a wild girl! Lol
Tbh i dont like the idea of either gender having really high body counts.
A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, and some women do prefer an low body count.
But then i can also say that a man is a pencil and a woman is a sharpener in order to put men in a bad spotlight.
That's a poor feminist try, men fuck, women get fucked, and it women who get pregnant.
What does pregnancy have to do with this? People use condoms and pills to avoid that. How is comparing men to keys and women to keys fine then, if the thing i said is a feminist thing?
I don't care. Their body count is their body count. Not relevant to me as long as she's clean, of legal age, and consenting.
You're applying your values and standards to everyone ("Dont women want to feel special too"). Maybe that woman (or man) who enjoys sex and has a lot of it feels special.
As for men = studs and women = sluts... if you don't buy into it, the labels are irrelevant too. Just like body count.
Because for a guy to sleep around a lot he has to bring some type of value because it's incredibly hard for guys to get laid even once. Meanwhile a girl only has to exist and the options come to her. So since it's so easy for a woman to sleep around, she's gonna be shamed for it.
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