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Why is a woman considered a slut when she has a active sex life with many partners but a guy isn‘t?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • This has been answered numerous times before.

    Because it's extremely easy for a woman to get laid at any given time, whenever she wants, and extremely hard for most men who aren't 9 out of 10 Chads to get laid, no matter what.

    Women also get pregnant and unwanted children become a burden on the state/community (assuming she doesn't get an abortion, and abortions in themselves are also seen as unpopular to many people). While men get STD's much easier, usually from women.

    Also, many women see their sexuality as their strongest source of power, and so when another women dilutes the power of the first woman's sexuality (being a slut makes the first woman less valuable towards horny men), then that woman gets mad at the slut in the same way a Mom and Pop store gets mad when a Walmart opens up across the street. It's actually women who "slut shame" the most, especially religious women.

    The only downside to men who sleep around a lot are the risk of getting women pregnant and even so, it's almost always the man who has to pay for that. And as mentioned, it's very rare to have a Ladies Man, player, or Casanova in society, especially in the modern day. So men who sleep around are far less common and have less potential consequences to them.

    So yeah, if one gender can VERY EASILY spread STD's easily, create unwanted pregnancies and children, and foster hostility among others, and the other gender only has 1 out of a 100 who can even get laid without massive effort applied towards it, then you can see why sluts are seen as a negative more often than f*ckbois.

  • Because our society has ridiculous double standards where women are expected to be chaste, modesty and pure and men are expected to be virulent and 'spread they're seed'. As mentioned above I find this ridiculous and think a woman should have the absolute freedom to do what they want with who they want with no judgement

Most Helpful Girls

  • Personal expectations. Some people prefer women not having multiple sexual partners. Makes no sense to me. As long as they're being safe and making good decisions.

    • Yes please be a ho girls. It feels so good for a reason

    • Thats because she can get pregnant and if you say "she's being safe " then i can make a similar argument for fucking incest. Also i dont condone womanizing but its admittedly different

  • The question of the century. Because our society is hypocritical and sexist.

    • Yep exactly

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  • A man whore is a slut, too.

  • On a DEEP subliminal level, it involves the paradox of WANTING an insatiably aggressive female yet fearing that as her CHOSEN Companion of the occasion, his OWN Libido & sexual stamina proves insufficient or not measuring up to her previous Companions. Human males are hereditarily innately competitive by nature. Ergo... prolific male libidos are lauded as 'stud-ly' whereas the SAME predisposition to 'audition' life mates is viewed as 'indecisive' and in females as manipulatively 'opportune' because possible conception's heritage becomes nebulous. Few cultures favor a broad nebulous influx of DNA diversity over a 'possessive' tracible lineage. Polyamory is NOT equivalent to Polyandry.

    It MAY "TAKE A VILLAGE to raise a child", but known 'paternity' defines ascendancy, leadership and inheritance... which is NOT conducive with lax nebulous governance of WHOM has reproductive access to any given Female's ovum.

  • Because guys make the rules.

    by the way depending on your mates, guys can also get called slut and tart etc.

    • Never heard a guy being called slut

    • You don’t have my girl mates lmao

  • Yeah, why is this?

  • Because of millennia of tradition, established culture, and popular opinion. "Slut" is an imaginary concept. It's true if a lot of people say it is. It's not if a lot of people say it isn't. The rules aren't determined by an action. They are determined by popular belief.

  • this

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/TqbI-gTwqyA

  • I agree with you. It is not fair!

  • Nothing of what I've read in here about someone has made me think or consider someone to "be" any of that, there's people and there's choices, that's all for me, theirs and my own, a free world, for the most part.

  • Yes... the guys are sluts too.

  • Search me ! That is the world we live in. Men can fuck a lot of women ( or so they brag- who knows?) and they are studs. If a woman fucks a lot of men, She is labeled a 'slut'. I just recommend that women just fuck and 'don't tell" Enjoy your sex life and tell those assholes to fuck off !

  • Because women are the gatekeepers and men are the gatecrashers.

  • Hasn't this question been asked like half a million times already?

    • Yeah Groundhog Day

  • Who said that? It goes both ways for me 💕✨

    • I mean look at the answers below lol

  • Because we live in a society where double standards are alive and thriving

  • There is a double standard and why it's best to keep the details of your sex life to yourself.

  • A guy is too. Some women who are sluts don't like to be thought of as a slut while others love it. An ex of mine had a kink where she would have me call her a dirty little slut during sex.

  • Who says a guy isn't? I certainly don't praise men for sleeping with many women. Fathers, brothers, friends, etc. hate to see women they care about date these men because they "deserve better". The only ones that praise these men or the men like them. Women do the same exact thing. Maybe men do it more. Not arguing that, but it goes both ways.

    Also, it's much harder for a man than it is for a woman, so it's a far greater accomplishment for a man to get laid than it is for a woman, because there are always men waiting.

  • Why is a guy considered a loser when he is still a virgin in his twenties but a girl isn‘t?

    • In my opinion, both have not only social reasons but also biological ones.

  • Don't tell anyone. I don't

  • Gender roles. Don't like it stop being a woman. The roles aren't likely to change anytime soon. You think we as guys like all the gender roles assigned to us?

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