Why is a woman easy for having sex on the first date but a man whore is not?

This pissed me off. If you a man whore and have sex with her on the first date, then you are "easy" too. Why do so men think they can play childish games? Why does she has to take responsibility for this behaviour but he does not have to. You can't call her easy, if you also have sex with her on the first date.
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Both men and women, who have sex on the first date, are easy
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None of them is easy for having sex on the first date
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Fuck the hypocritical man whores
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I personally prefere virgin men and I believe in arranged marriages. So I would not date, I marry straight forward and have sex with him after marriage without waiting.
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I am sorry for using swear words. I believe thst the majority of men are nice and are not hypocritical. I only critizise the mentality of small groups. So if you are a man and choose the first option just because I insult some men, leave a comment a please.
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  • (The majority of) men are "easy" by virtue of being men.

    Both men and women fall in love at about the same rate, so we're close enough in that aspect, but while most women can't separate sex and love, and thus don't want casual sex, most men absolutely can separate sex and love, and most men strongly desire casual sex as well - mostly when they aren't in love/in a relationship, but still.

    As such, men are assumed to be willing to have casual sex, and women are assumed not to be willing - with those assumptions being true most of the time. Women are also the gatekeepers of sex - they get to decide if sex is going to happen, because there will virtually always be men willing to have sex with her.

    Is this a double-standard? Yes, absolutely, but it's one based in biology, no different than the vulnerability of testicles or the burdens of periods. Men have plenty of burdensome expectations placed upon them just as women do, they're just different for men compared to women.

    • How does some women choosing to not have casual sex , be one a societal expectation placed upon all or any women? You say women choose when.. I don’t see that from what you have written, it looks like What you are saying is everyone other then the individual women, is suppose to choose when women have sex. If women had actual power to choose, they would be in control If they were in control, they wouldn’t be hanging to ask questions like this where 75% of people Shame them for having sex. It’s more like carrying out orders. Not choosing.

    • And I still see no connection between some women choosing to wait and everyone else getting in the business of those who don’t. Not how it becomes an adult women’s responsibility to ensure an adult male isn’t a slut. Sex is a personal decision. All these rationalizations for or against promiscuity, make it public. It isn’t public. It’s between two people. The fact everyone thinks they need to weigh in perverse. I’m curious what expectations do you think are placed on men alone that involve Policing his most private intimate activities?

    • You are discussing a very different question. I agree with you that it's no one else's business when she has sex or doesn't, and I don't look down on women for having casual sex. The original question was: why are women categorized one way and men aren't, and that's what my answer was about.

  • I have no issues, I don't sleep with anyone on the first date, but that is me.

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  • I think most people think most guys already are easy

    I e if given a chance, they will have sex with whoever is offering

    they just do not seem to care or judge them the way they judge women

    Personally I am not interested in random sex and If given the choice, I would rather not sleep with a guy who will stick it in whoever offers, but I won’t judge him for it

    Wheras I will not date a guy who will sleep with anyone then turn around and judge them for it.

    • You will get a mho?

    • You will get a MHO***

    • Cheers 🥂

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  • I’d consider them both to be easy little hoes. Ion fuck with those

    • THANks for mho

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  • I think whatever goes on between two consenting adults is their business and no one else's. If a guy wants to be sour about getting laid, he's a moron, the end. If a woman doesn't like that she put out, well, that's just confusing, and she's probably a moron too.

    Those are personal problems in my book, beyond and beneath me to judge.

  • Firstly whores by definition are paid for sex man woman or child period not that I am advocating the act in any way so by default the question is invalid considering the very base logic is flawed I. A way it can't be properly answered so as far as someone being easy I would think is also not very good for the concern at hand since depending on who it is your on a date with under the right condition everyone will become easy ie your biggest crush man or woman comes up to you wants to date and then half way through the night starts getting frisky almost everyone is easy now that is one thing and I think is perfectly ok then there's sluts they are like free whores man or woman dosnt matter they give it to anyone willing and don't even seem to like it usualy and have no ability to decide otherwise they just fuck anyone even if they don't find them attractive or seem to think anything is wrong with that whatsoever and are usually the products of abuse and being child prostitutes that are broken some are just really horny people without any class most however are victims and grow up to be flawed in a way that hurts all thier relationships with having no proper constraint and I don't think a man whore is any better then an easy woman at least any one who's easy has self control to not be a slut just because they were easy for one dosnt exactly mean that's the case for all and man whores are neither nor is any whore since there paid in return for there sex so please try to make logically sound inquiries so you can get a proper answer instead of the breakdown on what's flawed I. Your query thanks

    • A whore is an insult. A person who get paid for sex is a prostitute

  • Its B, but this is why you dont LIKE I SAY YET AGAIN!!!, you don't have sex before marriage!!! STOP COMPLAINING!!! UGH!

    • But still.

    • There is no, but still. I can't even count the amount of people who complain about such things and if its not the couple, its their kids who potentially years later never even realize that his daddy or mommy isn't really his dad or mom because the actual parent broke up and dumped their own kid.

      I'm just tired of this irrational immoral crap! When will people WAKE UP!! Why is a woman easy for having sex on the first date but a man whore is not?

    • ... and believe in Jesus and actually read the bible instead of some fraudulent preacher.

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  • Men are rumored and king of expected to aways want sex all the time (older generation may even think their son are gay if he doesn't show any sexual interest in women). I heard about it quite a lot.
    Women are expected to be "pure" reasonable, elegant, classy, etc... She should play hard to get only "slut' give sex on the first date. girlfriend and wife material should be respectable so respectable = not give sex directly.

    This is just traditional ways of thinking. (in my country and it still exist).
    Men are expected to be easy (always wanting sex this is consider as the normal behavior for them).
    While for women normal behavior of a girlfriend / wife material is to be respectable (not easy) surely as a way for the man to be sure he won't get cheated on and that when the woman get pregnant it would be really his son (this is the old way of thinking because before they had no way to really know if they were truly the father, also men were expected to "control" their wife if not they would look like pussy in front of the other men and if their wife were know to be easy it would look bad on him, for his reputation and all).
    This is all the old tradition and I think we have just kept the same old thinking by "tradition".

  • People like to have sex, doing so after just meeting is fine, especially if you hit it off right.

  • Did you just call me a "man whore?" Lol. I don't care what anyone else thinks about my sexual habbits. Not doing them, and obviously don't plan to.

  • Go on any dating site, create an account as an average looking guy, write up ~30 similar average looking women and see how it goes.

    Chances are you will not get much feedback. Why? Because me have the demand and women the supply. Aka men have to chase and prove themselves while women just need to be willing to have sex.

    • Does not change anything

    • It does change everything. If a person can have easily sex it and they give it away easily, then they are in fact easy. If a person has to work to get sex and then gets it - it wasn't easy for that person to begin with. So stop being butthurt. Women have advantages and disadvantages in life. This here is one of those instances.

    • You have to prove yourself not mske yourself easy

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  • because women are held to a higher standard. that's just how it is

  • I have for sure as a man been called a slut lol

  • I'd say both are whores. Just it's usually the man who wants sex ok first date and not the woman so the general idea is that you are easy because you want it as well. No matter what tho, you are both whores, period

  • Double standards and hypocrisy! This society is riddled with it.

  • Because a woman on a dating sites gets easily a few 100 guys chasing her a guy does not. So when you choose to have sex with the first guy you meet given 100 choices unlike us who do it because of a shortage of course.

    • So you are jealous and that is why you like blaming women?

    • Because if we were in your position we would rarely ever have sex on the first date because we have standards despite have 100's of options.

    • Even if you have 0 option, you should not have sex on first date, otherwise you are easy too

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  • Women are the ones who have to resist sex.
    Men have always been known to be the pursuers and this behavior is expected of men.

    • And do you think that is fair? Why can't he wait and let her make the first step instead of being easy?

    • This might sound cliche’ but life is not fair, this behavior of females being the sexual gatekeepers exist in the animal kingdom as well society will not judge a man harshly for being sexually motivated it is up to the woman to decide if the sex is appropriate.

    • Female animals Persue sex. if you Work with animals you will see this.

  • Only women can be easy because only women are the gatekeepers of sex. Disengage feminist propaganda, please

    • Each adult individual is the gatekeeper to anything involving their own body. Stop people noting mind thee, please.

    • @VIVANT That's a lovely overall truth, I very much agree, but in the absence of rape, it is always the woman who decides whether or not sex happens, it's been this way in western society for a lonnnnnng long time. There is significant biological incentive for women to be picky about who they have sex with and there is not for men, which is why civilization was designed this way We need to repair the broken mechanism, not make new and more difficult ones. Girls must resume their duty as gatekeepers of sex

  • Because our society is biased, if man has sexual relations with multiple women is called a Playboy while on other hand if a girl does the same she is called a slut i dont understand it at all

    • So you are a whore by nature?

    • You said it i didn't. Biology is only saying men are hornier not men are whore by nature

    • Also you probably don't hear men being virgin shamed. Girls don't.

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  • I don’t think either one is easy. Many people just love to fuck.

  • Only women can be easy

  • Society places a different set of expectation between men and women.

  • It's hypocritical.

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