Why is everyone obsessed being sub/dom? Why can’t you just have sex?

Seems everyone needs to determine submissive or dominant types.

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  • Because they feel a need to categorize people, conflating "what you do" with "what you are". That's not always a bad thing; much of the willingness to stop committing atrocities against gay guys came from realizing it's not something they had a choice in, but it's not the be-all end-all of the human experience.

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  • Yeah, it isn't very pleasant. And most of the women that want to date me are Dom types. I am vanilla and don't have any weird fetishes and want normal sex, and then I run into weirdo women who want to do weird stuff to me, and I have to reject them. I just don't even want to date anymore women are becoming more degenerate by the day.

    It used to be only guys that acted like degenerates and saying hateful stuff against women. But it's the women acting like hateful degenerates.

    • What do u call weird? Everyone has different boundries. And calling people degenerates because they're more adventurous than you isn't cool.

    • Then why don't you date the weirdo guys that are into that? Oh, that's right, because they are loser incels who act like degenerate weirdos. So those "adventurous" women try to go after normal, mentally stable men who don't want that in their lives. I am a normal guy with good money, and I want a normal woman. I am able to reject them, and I am desperate for them.

    • I'll ask you again... what do you call weird? And what the hell is normal? It is possible to be a "normal" stable person, with a good job, a house, car etc that is also kinky in the bedroom. Sorry but you sound like you're the unstable one.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Cause it is a website advertising using this website to get attention!

    It's a new dating app that is trash like always trying to get the horny people here to sign up and try it out.

    It's not new people or a craze it's just advertising using the same method the single sad trolls use on here of making 4 accounts and talking to themselves on Thier own questions!

  • Like its only important if you want to have that kind of sex

    • That’s what I thought too

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • When you "just have sex" there's usually someone that is more dominant. Someone that suggests a different position etc.

  • I agree with you

  • Because everyone is different, if you are happy being vanilla, then be vanilla, just do not judge others.

  • I don't get it either. Just have sex and have fun. Why make it more complicated?

  • because 1 gender is dominant and the other submissive they either acts like their nature demands or gets fetishes from things that opposes their nature.

  • I honestly don't know I know a bunch of us in school we're bored one day and took the quiz there was some interesting answers

  • Who's everyone? Name 43 people who are obsessed. 😅

    • LMAO. Sorry I can only name 42

  • That’s what a wuss femboi tells

    • Elaborate?

  • sub/dom is not just in the bedroom

  • It's because as you advance w/ sexual experiences you look for new and exciting things, remember women crave variety.

  • My girlfriend and I don't have a sub-dom relationship.

  • Because for some it's not exciting enough.

  • I always wonder this. None of the guys I've had sex with have ever mentioned sub/dom, not even once.