Why is everyone rushing into sex I’m in no rush at all?

[baseball_del_tuono]

Everyone is rushing into the bedroom someone asked his many dates till sex. The most popular answer was 3! That’s nasty that’s like a week or 2 after meeting the person! Im a virgin and in no rush at all

[Anonymous]

The perception that "everyone is rushing into sex nowadays" can vary based on personal experiences, cultural factors, and individual perspectives. It's important to approach this topic with sensitivity and recognize that sexual behaviors and attitudes can differ widely among individuals and communities.

That being said, there are a few factors that can contribute to the perception of increased sexual activity:

1. Cultural shifts: Over time, cultural attitudes and societal norms around sexuality have evolved. Increased openness, discussions about sex, and the availability of information through the internet and media have contributed to a greater awareness and discussion of sexual topics.

2. Peer pressure and social influence: In some social circles or among certain age groups, there may be a perceived pressure to engage in sexual activities due to the influence of peers or media portrayals. However, it's important to note that this pressure does not apply universally to all individuals or communities.

3. Technology and dating apps: The advent of dating apps and social media platforms has made it easier for people to connect with others and explore potential sexual relationships. This increased accessibility to potential partners may contribute to the perception of increased sexual activity.

It's crucial to remember that individual choices and preferences around sex are diverse, and not everyone engages in or feels pressured to engage in sexual activities. It's essential to respect personal boundaries and choices and engage in open and consensual communication with partners when it comes to matters of sex.

[clampfan101]

Same. I’m extremely exited about the idea of it, but am also determined to wait until marriage.

[Anonymous]

Be careful or you'll end up like the 28 year old guy on here who keeps telling us he's 28 and has never had sex.

[baseball_del_tuono]

So what?

[Nikki1989]

Seriously, how is 3 dates rushing into it? You must have lived a very sheltered life.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I think he’s right I waited till marriage 3 dates is gross to me

[baseball_del_tuono]

That’s nasty you just met the person why rush onto sex? Like what’s the upside in having sec with every guy who takes you on a couple dates?

[Lliam]

What's the up side? asks the virgin. He may never find out. ROFL

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Lliam what’s the upside? I waited till marriage been married 20 years abs have sex everyday sometimes 2x a day

[Lliam]

@AnnacarsiMama2. You didn't wait long if you got married when you were 19. LOL But I'm glad it worked out.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Lliam I waited till Marriage we were high school sweethearts he was in the military once 9/11 happened he proposed but we couldn’t get a wedding together for another year or so. My parents helped but he was busy and not making much money so saving was hard

[Lliam]

@AnnacarsiMama2. It still doesn't prove that waiting until marriage will guarantee good sex with a life-long partner. So I don't see any particular advantage.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Lliam there’s no guarantees in life. You really can’t give me any reason to rush into sex I can give you a laundry list of reasons why waiting is best

[Lliam]

@AnnacarsiMama2. And I could give you a laundry list of why getting into relationships is healthy and normal. I see no reason in the world to marry the first partner you ever had and taking a chance that you are sexually compatible. Holding out on sex is like staying indoors and holding off until the right moment to go out and experience life. The only reason I can think of for such asceticism is some kind of religious belief. I never saw any value at all in virginity and I would never marry anyone who was holding out to get married before having sex. By the way, my wife and I have been happily married now for almost 26 years. We both had full lives before we met.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Lliam no you’re misrepresenting what I’m saying you should have zero sexual partners when you get married. That would be ideal. No it’s nothing like that at all. If you want to risk getting pregnant outside of marriage creating a broken home, decrease overall sexual gratification, decrease marriage happiness, spread STDs, increase your odds of getting divorced decrease your odds of getting married destroy your ability to pair bond then feel free to have sex outside of marriage with a ton of partners. Just don’t ever say you love that woman when you put her at all of those statistical risks. I’ve been married 20 years and have the most incredible sex life people are shocked when they hear how often my hubby and I have sex (2x a day many days) we still try new positions today on his way home from work he texted me and asked me our sim was home I said yea. He said have him go study in his room with his foot close out something super sexy on crack me open a beer and meet me in the game room I want a lap dance lol I was like woohoo let’s go!! We still have that kinda passion because we saved ourselves for each other and only pair bonded with each other. Not worried about getting experience whatever that means. You would want a woman with 500+ partners and multiple baby daddies because she’s sexually impure?

[baseball_del_tuono]

@Lliam no value in virginity? Outstay, no std’s, self respect, deferred gratification, you know who the father is, better ability to pair bond and have general martial happiness ! Are you even being serious?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Exactly JJ

[Lliam]

@extraterrestrial1999. Every one of your points is bullshit. Are you speaking out of experience or some kind of fetish? Not everyone wants to have kids when they are young.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

I'm in agreement, with you

[najekim]

A 18 year old guy not in a rush to have sex? You're the exception, not the norm. :)

[baseball_del_tuono]

🤷‍♂️ why rush