Why is everyone sexually attracted to me all the sudden?

I am a college student and 3 people have tried to bed me in the past week! They always ask to hang out and then when we do hang out they start groping.
The first two dudes were guys I knew. And I was upset with them but seeing this happened a third time I'm starting to think the problem is me. The third dude was a guy I literally met yesterday. He randomly sat across from me while I was studying. We weren't talking until a mutual friend joined both of us for a bit and then left. Afterwards we started talking and studied together at least 5 hours. At the end he asked to hang and then I ended up festering him off the entire night.
Are all of these guys careless or are they just really struggling to repress their sexual urges? What am I doing to even turn them on? Am I too friendly? Am I somehow promiscuous? I never said anything sexual.
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  • Guys your age are always looking to score, given an opportunity to be alone and hang out with you is the first sign to them that you might possibly be interested, whether you are or not, that's not how they see it.
    Then they will pick up on any tiny little piece of body language that makes them think, now is a good time to go in for the kill.
    Young male brains are not in control of this, and men's brains don't fully develop until about 25 years old, this is one of the major reasons why young guys do stupid things, that and their dicks have dibs on the blood supply.
    You need to make it clear when hanging out with a guy that you are hanging out with them as friends, I know it shouldn't need to be this way, but it is.

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  • I wouldn’t say that they are careless but they must be trying to initiate. One of the challenges we have as guys is that we often have to take a risk to escalate sexually based on a subtle hint that you would give off. Now certainly groping seems very aggressive but a touch on the hand or shoulder is a common way of escalating physically.


    You said it’s all of a sudden, did this not happen last year?

    • Definitely not it was never this bad. Something happened in the family last week and the first two guys I told about it and then we talked for a bit and then hung out and it happened which is why I was so upset because I thought they were taking advantage of my low point. But I didn’t even tell this guy about the family problem and this still happened.

    • It’s most likely the two guys did feel like you being vulnerable was a signal that you trusted them and they went with that to try things. The other guy most likely was attracted to you and aggressive since you spent lots of hours with him. Did you tell the two friends that they shouldn’t touch you like that?

    • The second guy has always tried groping, it’s just I thought since the family thing happened he would be less intended to do it - but I guess not. He is now blocked because I feel like this has happened numerous times and he got mad for me being upset about it. The first guy and the third guy both started groping and then after I showed signs of discomfort stopped and tried again later.

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  • I don't think it is your fault. As you know guys your age are horny all the time and they all masturbate frequently (but most will never admit it) Just be yourself and focus on your life. Are you hooking up or dating anyone?

    • I’m not! Completely single. Working on myself meanwhile

    • Hang in there!!!

  • They are just horny young men, and it seems you are an attractive young woman.

  • Im guessing they think you're hot.

  • What's "the sudden"?

  • You're attractive. You don't need to do anything to be attractive, you just are.

  • Guys your age are always looking for sex so you are going to have to be upfront
    with them if you are not into that. If they stick around anyway then maybe
    they are true friend material. It's just something women learn to deal with.

    • This exactly. Thank you for the advice, ima start saying I’m not looking for sex before we hang out

    • Just remember, they can't really help what their bodies are telling them. They find you attractive and as long as they respect your wishes, they are still ok to be friends with.

  • maybe you look easy to them

  • You're just lucky I guess!

  • Maybe your confidence or personality

  • Have you started wearing mini skirts? lol

  • Ya who knows.

  • Your giving off that sexual vibe.