Why is he being so crazy?

So it was my birthday weekend. My boyfriend took me on a trip. He rented a boat. It was just awesome we had a great weekend!!! One of his fantasies was always to have a 3some with another woman. So one of my good friends and I did it with him. It was so much fun! The vibe was great. Everything about it was great. One of the nights my boyfriends friend got a little drunk and started hanging on me. Like had his arm around me. My boyfriend saw it. So I pulled him to the side and let him no what happened. He said it was fine he saw what his friend was doing. Then we get back home. He starts hinting at another 3some and I tell him it was a one time thing. He gets upset. Then he started saying I was way to friendly with his friend (which I wasn’t). He was just picking these random fights. And I finally had enough of his crap and broke up with him. He has been blowing up my phone and I’m not responding. his friends all tell me he loves me a lot. But I just don’t feel it at the moment. I don’t understand his explosive behavior after we just had an amazing weekend!!! Anyway. I’m debating if I should never speak to him again or wait for an apology.
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  • I think you should talk to him, calmly. Of course, he needs to do the same.
    He might have thought because he got another woman, you want another man or something. That's one reason I don't do threesomes. If my woman wants a MMF, she might as well ask me if she can have sex with another man, because it's the same to me.

    • I did ask him just to see what he said lol then I told him I was just kidding. I don’t want another man. I honestly did it to make him happy because I love him. But if I would have known how crazy it was going be afterwards I would have never done it!!

    • Yup lol That probably messed with his head, and that's hard to get over. No way I'd just forget a woman asking for a three some.

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  • He's mad he couldn't get what he wanted so he's picking little fight to piss you off plus he's to jealous and controlling. If he felt so strongly about it why didn't he say anything to his friend why did he wait until you was home alone to start shit with you

    • Thanks for the MHO

    • Are you okay

Most Helpful Girl

  • he's jealous and controlling. He wants to dictate what is and isn't acceptable in the relationship, and anything that is allowed is for his benefit.

    • He is very jealous!! He’s acting like a psychopath. He was naming all of the gifts he got. Saying I got you a boat. I hate the way you act. I told him he’s selfish and ungrateful. That I don’t give a crap what he got me because the way he’s treating me is speaking louder than gifts. I just decided to walk away. He won’t stop calling. What offended me the most was him accusing me of flirting with his friend. Which is insane because I would NEVER. It was his friend who crossed the line. Anyway I’m just so irritated.

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  • Sounds like he’s just using anything he can as leverage to get another 3some, he’s more then likely going to do it anyways, the line has been crossed

    • It’s crazy you say that because that was my fear before even doing it. He’s not getting it. I told him he’s being very selfish because I didn’t even have to do it in the first place. He can kiss my ass. If he wants another he better go find another woman.

    • Yea I hate saying it but usually that’s a sign the guy wants more then what he has with one girl, some people are find with that open relationship thing but I couldn’t do it and it doesn’t seem like you’re ok with that either? You just wanted to make your man happy. Either way he sounds like a real douchebag tbh

    • I wanted to give him the experience. I trust my friend more than anything. And her and I are just laughing. Like dang we unleashed a beast. But I told him I can't and won’t ever be able to please him. I thought that would be a great surprise and it backfired. But it’s okay. A man who really loves me wouldn’t act this way. So lesson learned.

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  • I'd wait for an apology before speaking with him. If he doesn't apologize, move on.

  • Well he wanted it then he got mad you dint want more of them you had right to break up an im a new follower hope to see you on 1 of my post

  • He seems to be a little kid in a big man's body... He doesn't get his way..➡️ temper tantrum!!!

  • i think you should move on

  • Did your boyfriend fuck other girl in Ffm?

  • Question.. if u wanted the same thing.. with him n another guy. Will he agree

    • I actually asked him that. I don’t want to do that. I just wanted to see his reaction and he said if he’s in the right mood then maybe. In other words no. He’s super insecure so I can’t see him following through with it.

    • And u asked him this after u gave him the gift

    • Yes the day after

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  • He sounds like a total douche. He should apologize to you.

  • My guess is, he had to hit on you first