Why is he cheating on me?

[Anonymous]

My guy has cheated on me with the same hoe for 1.5 years. I just found out.

I don't understand this because I cook good, clean, I have money and good credit. I come from a great family. Plus I've got good pussy. I'm also attractive light skinned, and smart. I'm a preschool director and have a kid of my own. I consider myself nurturing too.

So, why cheat on me after asking me to get married? Aren't I enough?

[Twalli]

A cheater can still love you. The girl he is cheating with provides something you don't. It may be her pussyvis different, which you can't help. Most cheaters do it so they can get everything they want in a relationship without forcing it all on one woman. If you really want to make a relationship with him work then sit down and calmly discuss what she gives him that you don't and discover whether or not you can provide that. It's hard, but I have mediated several discussions like this. Most of the time a mediator will help because it is a person with no personal stake in the matter. He can keep it from being an argument. If we weren't on lockdown and you wanted me to mediate I need to talk to both of you in person separately and have a clearer understanding of both sides.

[kindheartsydney]

I think you should try and find out what the other girl has given your partner that you didn’t. Most men cheat because they find something in someone that they couldn’t find in their partners. I understand that you are perfect as you say but you have to remember that there might be something you’re missing out on. It could be very small and silly in your opinion but unfortunately it is what’s making him seek it somewhere else. Don’t let it get to you. Be smart and find out what it is in your way. Best of luck.

[Paris13]

He obviously Wants his Cake and To Take---It To Two with Her and You. You seem as Though you have it What it Takes and I think if you Use those Brains you do Have---UNLOAD HIM. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks, gag. xx

[AzureGirl]

He’s just a scumbag. Find someone who doesn’t take advantage of you and your relationship.

[potatoiswhoiam]

When someone cheats that's not on the other partner. It's a flawed personality of your partner. So don't try to look for problems in yourself, the problem is not you. The problem is him and his lack of respect and decency.

[SuckMyJammy]

na, a partner only cheats when u dont have all the quality they need and desire, so they look to other sources for someone who can fufil what they need...

[potatoiswhoiam]

Some people can have everything they want but it's their ego that makes them want more. This is about greed. It's not about someone not being enough. It's about lack of gratitude, lack of respect and lack of decency. As simple as that.

[SuckMyJammy]

oh, well i only cheated with anoter girl becuase my current 1 wouldn't let me **** her lol

[potatoiswhoiam]

Well if you think that's a good reason then shame on you, but what I have to say is that not all people cheat for the same reason. I know people who have given their all to their partner, still got cheated on.. because some people just see it as them having power, and cheating with someone makes them feel better and more powerful and more excited of having something to hide. It's ugly, in all cases and all reasons it's ugly, but that's how some cheaters think. Even in your case, if you cheated on someone cuz she hasn't let you have sex with her, that's still an ugly thing to do, because you're basically going behind her back and breaking her trust and breaking that respect, both of which are pillars to any relationship, and on top of that making it seem like it's her fault, when in reality she ain't your sex toy. If you saw that you really can't live without having sex and you can't wait until she's ready, then you should have broken up and been honest about it, so yeah.. my point stands.

[SuckMyJammy]

its not shame on me, i think thats a perfectly good reason to cheat on someone, if they will not let u fuck them they deserved to be cheated on, what do u think a relationship is for? jus talking? nope lol, its jus logical to make a switch to someone who can give u what u want anyway, if she finds out about ur cheating and dumps u.. then it doesn't matter cos u still have the better girl... the 1 who has all the quality needs plus gives u sex... its jus logical to cheat and go with the better girl... only an idiot would stay with the less good girl who won't let u smash

[potatoiswhoiam]

I feel bad for your girlfriend. That's all I have to say

[SuckMyJammy]

and it is her fault lol, ok maybe not cheating on her isn't the right thing to do, but i can dump her and go for the better girl and im completely allowed to do that and acceptable thing, i dont have to stick with someone who doesn't put out lol

[potatoiswhoiam]

So, asker, if you're reading this comment, you can be convinced now from this little thread what type of personality someone should have to cheat on their partner :) so I hope this shows you a little glimpse of just what an awful mentality cheaters have.

[potatoiswhoiam]

@suckmyjammy exactly, breaking up is the way to go. Not cheating. But I'm too repulsed to talk to you so that's the last thing I'm gonna say :) have a nice day

[SuckMyJammy]

if she doesn't wanna be a sex doll i dont wanna be with her anyway, too stuck up, if u see consentual sex as being used as a sex doll then u think too highly of urself

[Twalli]

It's actually true that cheaters who do it with one other person typically do it to get something their current partner isn't providing. A better way would be to discuss what you want that you aren't getting, but I never accuse people of being smart or logical

[tellmeeverythingplz]

People don't cheat because of their partner. They cheat because they want to. I suggest breaking up and finding someone new.

[SuckMyJammy]

cos ur not good enuff or satisfying his needs

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Because he is a fucking pig who need a hit in the fucking balls so you can make some omlet.

[douride2]

It is simple he is an asshole. Most cheaters never change. Either move on or be prepared to put up with it for the rest of your life.

[Kinky_Daddy_Henry]

You say you have good pussy. That doesn't mean the rest of us, or that he, agrees. Plus, how often can he take that "good pussy?" Plus, he may just not be as attracted to you as he is the other chick.

[7771999]

You're probably black

[OpenNudist]

Can I seriously ask you a question? Why on God's earth are you even still involved in this relationship?

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

Her boobs sag less? Ask him.. No one here knows.

[Anonymous]

Leave his ass he doesn't deserve you