Why is he giving me so much oral?

It's my new boyfriend. We were in bed watching a movie. He just hugged me innocently (We'd never even kissed before). I told him this movie is boring, I'm falling asleep. Then he put his head on my butt and from his huge back I couldn't see anything lol and I said Move and then he went down on me. It was sooo good. I was moaning and almost started crying. Then we kissed and I gave him a blowjob and he finished in my mouth. But he didn't really ask for anything. Every time we did anything sexual he gave me like an hour of best oral. So I wonder why. Other guys would do it for 5 mins lol then stick the dick in. We only had vaginal sex once and I was on top.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe he's an oral guy, he needs oral sex, the fucking doesn't really do anything for him and he just does it for you under the assumption that you like that sort of thing.

    I remember when my husband (boyfriend at the time) told me that fucking does nothing for him, he needed oral. He said he'd be happy to do the fucking sex for me if I needed it otherwise we could just not do it if I didn't want to. I was ecstatic because I don't do fucking at all ever! I'm an oral girl. I has finally found a guy who would give me all the oral I wanted and not demand any fucking. Turns out he was an oral guy. Yeah! Perfect match. What are the odds. :)

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    So you question if someone takes 3 seconds and you question if it's 3 minutes.

    Why does it have to be analysed? Maybe he likes you. Maybe you taste of pineapple. Maybe he was bored. Maybe he was high on meth.

    You liked it. He liked it. Why over thinking, really? Are you gonna sit down with him and say "I loved it but you spent too long down there" ?

    Doubtful.

    • I think she was just curious because she's not used to guys going down that long... Chill

  • 1. Maybe he wants to (to show you how much he loves you and wants you to enjoy how he makes love to you, he wants to because he gets turned on like that, or he just wants to... awkward.)
    2. It is hard to find someone who is willing to do it longer.
    3. He maybe likes it and enjoys it. (Taste good... lol, sorry just from my experience)
    4. Just enjoy it and as long as you both truly love one another then y'all good!

    • 3. Taste good... did you go down on a woman?

  • Could just be into it. I think the vagina is so awful I'd never expect anyone to mess around down there with their face, but my s. o. is always wanting to go down and even asks me to sit on his face! He holds me there too... Some guys like it. He probably likes making you moan and be excited, my boyfriend loves how excited it makes me even if I don't want it to. -___-;

    • Lol yeah he made me sit on his face and I was like okk isn't this too much. I mean I get so much pleasure but it's also kind of embarrassing...

    • Yeah it really embarrasssed me I've only let him to it once but he's always asking >////>

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some guys will perform oral to see if a girl is cheating. I read a recent article about this. However, paranoia aside, some guys thoroughly enjoy performing oral on a woman. The guys that are only doing it for a few minutes, either don't enjoy it and do just enough to have oral reciprocated or they are overly anxious to move onto other sexual activities. Oh.. Something of interest, he might have performance anxiety? A buddy of mine had issues with performance anxiety. He would have issues getting it up, so he would resort to fingering or oral on the chick he was with. You could always ask your new boyfriend.

    • Why would he do that to she if his girl is cheating I don't get it?

    • @Carley99 according to the article, it's a primative thing. Smelling and tasting to see if there exists the presence of another male. On a more modern note, males will be more likely to perform oral on a female if they suspect her of cheating, for the aforementioned and to also keep her interested. Weird, I know, but I didn't write the article.

    • Wow that is so weird and stupid

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  • Lol he kissed your vagina before your lips? Well that's new xD

    Many of use love going down on a girl. In a relationship, not everything is an exchange, you can just go down on your girl without expecting anything, simply because you want her to feel good... and it's also fun for us.

    • Lol yes he did Good to know :)

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  • how is this even a question?
    marry him, girl. like, yesterday.

  • This is kinda corny like why is this such a big deal to you let alone if he's always down there why don't you be a big girl and initiate sex no one wants to have to ask catch up.

  • Omg, lucky you! Lol he sounds like a catch.
    Some guys genuinely enjoy it

  • It sounds like he enjoys giving you oral as much if not more than you like receiving it.

  • Honestly, if neither myself nor whatever girl I'm with had jobs or needed to eat or pee or anything, I could do taking turns or 69ing all day in between falling asleep drained. Never leave bed, and not even getting to actual sex.

  • He sounds pretty perfect. Might wanna keep him.

  • Share the wealth! Jk. I prefer intercourse more but it is nice, never cried before.

  • Some of us really (really) love giving oral sex.

  • Could be his thing.

  • Gee. I don't know. Because he LOVES eating you maybe? My ex, I couldn't walk past her without wanting a taste.

  • some guys just have a licking fetish and have a real urge to lick :) I think he is in heaven too! Maybe he enjoys it even more then you do :D

  • Some guys like to please their lady and get satisfaction from her own enjoyment.

  • He either is really into it, he either is really into you or he is very insecure about his sexual performance.

  • Now thats awesome. Enjoy it like he does

  • Surprise surprise some guys actually like giving oral it is satisfying and super super hot

  • he got herpe on the mouth and tryna give you herpe on the genital LOLOL

  • He's a pleaser. I am too. I LOVE watching a woman's face and hearing her moan and hearing her tell me she's going to cum.

  • because maybe he loves giving you pleasure

  • Maybe because he enjoys ur reaction. Some people like when their partner is happy.

  • a man that really likes you and wants to give you incredible orgasms will always feast on your pussy. he'll love it when you soak him with your juices, and he'll want to lick you clean

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