Why is he holding onto me if he does not want me? For sex?

I’ve been just in a situation ship with this guy for 9 months. We have sex and the sex is very good and he always speaks on how good it is. He’s 30 though and I’m 21 and he has 2 kids so I feel on a different path. I recently found out that his baby mom has been living there for the past 2 weeks since. It kind of makes sense since the past 2 weeks he’s been distant and only logging into Snapchat once a day and is logging out since his location is on and he literally logs in once.

He also keeps saying to me I’ll come to you, I’ll come to you like you can’t come to mine when I usually always stay at his the past 9 months? I keep saying to him lool if you don’t wanna talk let me know, he keeps saying no that’s not the case I do and he won’t let me go but he is saying he dosent want a relationship either. Why is he keeping me around like this? It’s unfair on me as a person?
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Superb Opinion

  • Sounds like ur wasting your energy. U might have some emotional attachments after 9 mo. But he is not in a position to give u what u need. Cut your losses and tell him hey wish we were on the same path but I gotta move on. He wants something in his back pocket and most likely back w BM if they are living together again.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I feel like he only wants this for the sex yeah. Ik its easier said than done, but if i were you id walk away from this & let him figure his life out while i sort mine out. Its so unfair towards you & you might potentially even be missing out on some amazing guys because you're caught up with someone whose using your for self gratification.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sure seems like that to me, why are you even hanging around?

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  • Yes. Obviously.

  • I think he only uses you for sex