Why is hiring an escort looked down upon?

[Anonymous]

If all your looking for is a hookup or a quike lay why is it any worse then trying to pick up a girl at the club or casually date. I see it as a different alternative, why deal with the hassel of dating and constant flaking just to possibly get laid. it could be months before you even get lucky.

who knows how much money will be spent and how much of your time. Your paying for drinks and dates with the incentive of getting laid. your honestly paying for sex so how is it any better then getting an escort. If you hire someone you skip all the bullshit and you know your getting sex when you want, no ifs or buts! Best of all you could have sex with incredibly hot women you would never stand a chance with in real life.

[InfoBot]

It will allow you a shorcut to getting sex from a girl who may well be unachievable for you in any other circumstances. That much is true. It will not give you any real self esteem or self worth because you will always know that you had to pay for it. You make the equivalent of paying for drinks and dates and so on but that is not a true equivalent at all, largely because you don't even have to pay much at all to get a genuine relationship. If you feel like you do then you clearly have nothing much to offer except money.

When you pay for sex with an escort you'll get someone who allows you to use their body but may well be disgusted by you. They'll fake what they need to in order to get the job done and they'll spend your money while you go home alone and sexless as usual. You'll wake up still single and sexless, except for the sex that cost you money. Your phone will still be empty of messages, you'll still be that same guy who has fuck all. It's hardly fixed much has it?

[Asker]

When you want to get laid regardless of how you get it your not looking for self esteem you just want to fuck. When you hookup or have a 1night stand you still go home alone and sexless

[FashGordon]

Because whores will actually have sex with men that they not only arn't attracted to but are even strongly repulsed by. They're selling something that would normally be an intimate connection between people. What they're doing is weird and ghoulish to say the least.

[Asker]

But lots of people aren't looking for an intimate connection when your horny you just want to fuck

[FashGordon]

Except the whore may not even want to, she's there for the money, may even find you disgusting. There is no natural sexual act like that , it's just bizarre and macabre. Should make anyone sick to their stomach.

[FutureTrunks]

I don't know why men always think that they have to pay for a woman to want to have sex with them. You take a woman out for drinks or meet someone at the bar... she has her own money. Lot of men spend so much time and money trying to court and play the good guy role towards woman they have no intentions on being with all for the slightest possibility that she’d f*ck him. With all these dating apps that people mostly use to find friends with benefits and one night stands... you shouldn’t have a problem finding someone willing to come around when they’re needed.

Paying for escorts is pathetic for the simple fact that you payed for it. Don’t ever EVER pay for something you can get for free ESPECIALLY something as easy and accessible as sex.

[Asker]

You ever see "who pays on dates guys or girls" question on here. It's asked all the time and the vast majority of girls say guys should pay or you ruin any chance of getting lucky. You obviously don't realise the difference between a guy and girl wanting to get laid. Online dating is cathered to women all they have to say is I want dick and open your legs. You'll have dozens of guys to choose from with in hours.

[Asker]

There's so much competition online dating for guys. Unless your exceptionally good looking your odds are against you. Only the top 20 percent have success and regular lays online dating. The slightly above average could get laid to but it could take months. The below average guys have no chance. To reiterate yes online dating works really well if you want to get laid for WOMEN.

[FutureTrunks]

No I’m well aware. There’s several issues with dating and mindsets and a lot of females do feel entitled to being payed for and catered to. I’ve seen those “who pays on dates” questions and I’ve also seen guys complaining that when they do pay... sometimes they still don’t get anything in return. That’s the “game” of dating these days. I also aware of how much easier it is for a girl to get sex than guys and if you’re not the average good looking guy... it’s probably harder. That still doesn’t change my opinion when it comes to paying for an escort. That’s $$ that could go towards something more productive. Maybe you should try being a little disrespectful towards some females. Cuz you know woman love assholes

[Asker]

Lol I guess I'll be a douchbags from now on. If your doing well finacially and only do it a couple times a year it's really no big deal money wise

[justmeme]

I don't personally look down on it, each to their own. I can understand how it can be convenient and a viable option.
As long as you are practising safe sex whose business is it of anyone else's it could potentially be safer as sex workers generally are more up to date with how their sexual health is.

[KDria]

I don’t look down on t but I can understand why others do. If you have to pay someone for sex then it comes off a little desperate to most people. To me, I can understand the benefits. Convenience and no strings attached. As long as protection was used.

[Amethyst5]

I don't look down on it; I actually think prostitution should be legalized.
As long as you protect yourself, it's fine. But don't go around putting your Ol' Fella in random people without protection. Now that's just not safe.

[dinhuhisserved]

Aside from potential diseases it is a great way to pass the bs and get straight to the biznezz

[Asker]

A lot of people bring up stds but honestly I think you have just a high of a chance if not more catching something from a girl who hookups up with lots of guys at clubs/bars. High class escorts always use condoms a lot of non worker's don't practice safe sex.

[karahiri]

everything you discussed above is kind of sad. think about it. you're literally just purchasing temporary rights to a person's body so that you can use their holes to get off with. doesn't it sound unpalatable?

[Asker]

Ok but your still paying on dates with the inventive to possibly get laid so what's the difference.

[karahiri]

there's no difference- the behavior and intent is disgusting regardless.

[Prof_Don]

Because that is cheating shortcut.

Using a paid service to get sexual play takes no skill, and has no spiritual satisfaction whatsoever

[momo770]

Do U man

[Asker]

A couple times a year yes, sometimes you don't want to play the long haul and go for the shortcut instead. For some of the reasons i stated above

[momo770]

Ok tc

[Asker]

Your opinion?

[momo770]

Read my response the first time and that's my opinion

[genericname85]

you can't pay for real affection. a date without real affection isn't worth shit to me. i don't understand what you like about it but i don't "look down" on it. it just doesn't float my boat.

[Asker]

Well most people who get escorts aren't looking for real affection. Some may act like they're intrested in you but I'm not that naive I know what it is

[genericname85]

Well then why not just go alone or with a friend? xD

[Asker]

What do you mean

[genericname85]

I mean how do you feel good about company you payed for?

[hellacray]

I say if you're willing to pay for the experience I say go for it.

I personally don't trust these women.

[NaughtySarah]

It's not dude, the only ones who look it down are the religious nuts

[moviedude714]

My feelings have definitely softened for it but me personally I would only be for it under certain circumstances

[MidnightCowboy]

I think there is nothing wrong with it

[Subcowboy92]

I do not look down at it

[Tiffanyishere]

It is? i didn't know that

[Asker]

By society's standards it is but its stupid

[Natted4]

I dont know about you, but when I have sex I prefer if we both enjoy it. But if you're using a prostitute, chances are she isn't enjoying and is just there for your money. I'd rather have sex with someone that actually WANTED me.

[DRAGONOFTRUTH]

Because sex work is frowned upon in society for a plethora of dumb reasons.

[Anonymous]

Because you're paying waaay more than you would on a date or party, etc, because you're either lazy, not good at dating, need to pay to get a girl, lack communication skills, value only sex, or all of the above. Of course that's pathetic.

[Asker]

If you count the time and money spent on trying to get laid then straight up paying it's really not much more. You say "you need to pay more" so your agreeing that regardless either routh your paying for sex.

[Asker]

You obviously don't realize it's wayyy easier for girls then guys when trying to get laid. All girls have to do is post a sexy pic on tinder and open their legs. couple hours you'll 50 guys to choose from who are trying to fuck, there's no effort on the girls end

[Asker]

And like I said it's an occasional alternative sure I could get laid with getting an escort but that could take months. Sometimes it's not worth the hassel if you want a quike lay

[Opinion Owner]

"You say "you need to pay more" so your agreeing that regardless either routh your paying for sex" - No i didnt? I said, a reason it's pathetic is that some guys feel the need to pay in first place in order to have sex. As in they dont even try with their social skills or politeness or normal step by step gradual process of being in a relationship. Dont take it out of context. And if you spent the same amount of money trying to get laid as paying an escort then you ARE trying far too hardd. Too desperate. No one decent does that. No one decent needs to use money like that. No effort for girls? Hun you're talking about sluts, not the average girl. This isn't a porno where every girl would do that. The problem is the amount of money you're spending to fuck. Thats the difference. Most people dont spend the same amount as gettng an escort, now i say most cause maybe you actually do.

[Anonymous]

just use protection, htd is way too spread

[Asker]

Of course the only time I wouldn't would be if I was in a relationship and she was on the pill

[Anonymous]

The convience is a better alternative

[Anonymous]

Why pay for sex? I don't agree with that industry either way..

[Asker]

Why.. I literally put up a whole list of reason read it

[Anonymous]

It’s like paying for love. What does it most likely tell someone? That you’re unloveable. Do you want to tell people you’re... unsexable? If not, keep it to yourself or don’t do it at all.

[Asker]

I don't go around telling people and if your looking for casual sex your not looking for love just physical pleasure. so what's the difference?