Why is hiring an escort looked down upon?

If all your looking for is a hookup or a quike lay why is it any worse then trying to pick up a girl at the club or casually date. I see it as a different alternative, why deal with the hassel of dating and constant flaking just to possibly get laid. it could be months before you even get lucky.

who knows how much money will be spent and how much of your time. Your paying for drinks and dates with the incentive of getting laid. your honestly paying for sex so how is it any better then getting an escort. If you hire someone you skip all the bullshit and you know your getting sex when you want, no ifs or buts! Best of all you could have sex with incredibly hot women you would never stand a chance with in real life.
Why is hiring an escort looked down appoan??
It's no worse then casually dating your paying for sex either way
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I look down appoan it it's pathetic
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The convience is a better alternative
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  • It will allow you a shorcut to getting sex from a girl who may well be unachievable for you in any other circumstances. That much is true. It will not give you any real self esteem or self worth because you will always know that you had to pay for it. You make the equivalent of paying for drinks and dates and so on but that is not a true equivalent at all, largely because you don't even have to pay much at all to get a genuine relationship. If you feel like you do then you clearly have nothing much to offer except money.

    When you pay for sex with an escort you'll get someone who allows you to use their body but may well be disgusted by you. They'll fake what they need to in order to get the job done and they'll spend your money while you go home alone and sexless as usual. You'll wake up still single and sexless, except for the sex that cost you money. Your phone will still be empty of messages, you'll still be that same guy who has fuck all. It's hardly fixed much has it?

    • When you want to get laid regardless of how you get it your not looking for self esteem you just want to fuck. When you hookup or have a 1night stand you still go home alone and sexless

  • Because whores will actually have sex with men that they not only arn't attracted to but are even strongly repulsed by. They're selling something that would normally be an intimate connection between people. What they're doing is weird and ghoulish to say the least.

    • But lots of people aren't looking for an intimate connection when your horny you just want to fuck

    • Except the whore may not even want to, she's there for the money, may even find you disgusting. There is no natural sexual act like that , it's just bizarre and macabre. Should make anyone sick to their stomach.

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  • I don't know why men always think that they have to pay for a woman to want to have sex with them. You take a woman out for drinks or meet someone at the bar... she has her own money. Lot of men spend so much time and money trying to court and play the good guy role towards woman they have no intentions on being with all for the slightest possibility that she’d f*ck him. With all these dating apps that people mostly use to find friends with benefits and one night stands... you shouldn’t have a problem finding someone willing to come around when they’re needed.

    Paying for escorts is pathetic for the simple fact that you payed for it. Don’t ever EVER pay for something you can get for free ESPECIALLY something as easy and accessible as sex.

    • You ever see "who pays on dates guys or girls" question on here. It's asked all the time and the vast majority of girls say guys should pay or you ruin any chance of getting lucky. You obviously don't realise the difference between a guy and girl wanting to get laid. Online dating is cathered to women all they have to say is I want dick and open your legs. You'll have dozens of guys to choose from with in hours.

    • There's so much competition online dating for guys. Unless your exceptionally good looking your odds are against you. Only the top 20 percent have success and regular lays online dating. The slightly above average could get laid to but it could take months. The below average guys have no chance. To reiterate yes online dating works really well if you want to get laid for WOMEN.

    • No I’m well aware. There’s several issues with dating and mindsets and a lot of females do feel entitled to being payed for and catered to. I’ve seen those “who pays on dates” questions and I’ve also seen guys complaining that when they do pay... sometimes they still don’t get anything in return. That’s the “game” of dating these days. I also aware of how much easier it is for a girl to get sex than guys and if you’re not the average good looking guy... it’s probably harder. That still doesn’t change my opinion when it comes to paying for an escort. That’s $$ that could go towards something more productive. Maybe you should try being a little disrespectful towards some females. Cuz you know woman love assholes

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  • I don't personally look down on it, each to their own. I can understand how it can be convenient and a viable option.
    As long as you are practising safe sex whose business is it of anyone else's it could potentially be safer as sex workers generally are more up to date with how their sexual health is.

  • I don’t look down on t but I can understand why others do. If you have to pay someone for sex then it comes off a little desperate to most people. To me, I can understand the benefits. Convenience and no strings attached. As long as protection was used.

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  • I don't look down on it; I actually think prostitution should be legalized.
    As long as you protect yourself, it's fine. But don't go around putting your Ol' Fella in random people without protection. Now that's just not safe.

  • Aside from potential diseases it is a great way to pass the bs and get straight to the biznezz

    • A lot of people bring up stds but honestly I think you have just a high of a chance if not more catching something from a girl who hookups up with lots of guys at clubs/bars. High class escorts always use condoms a lot of non worker's don't practice safe sex.

  • everything you discussed above is kind of sad. think about it. you're literally just purchasing temporary rights to a person's body so that you can use their holes to get off with. doesn't it sound unpalatable?

    • Ok but your still paying on dates with the inventive to possibly get laid so what's the difference.

    • there's no difference- the behavior and intent is disgusting regardless.

  • Because that is cheating shortcut.

    Using a paid service to get sexual play takes no skill, and has no spiritual satisfaction whatsoever

  • Do U man

    • A couple times a year yes, sometimes you don't want to play the long haul and go for the shortcut instead. For some of the reasons i stated above

    • Ok tc

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