Why is his erected penis so soft?

Question

We don't talk about and we have sex regularly. But his erections are not that hard, sometimes he loose them, it is a sad thing to give him blow jobs and I don't know why, sometimes during sex his penis is so soft I almost feel nothing, he cums everytime though (I can feel the cum).

I don't get why or what to do. He is 39, in good shape, eats healthy, does sport basket and strength, doesn't drink too much only a little bit Friday and Saturday, doesn't smoke. I don't get it, I don't know how to talk about or if i even should or what can be done? 5

lovetotasteyou · Accepted Answer

It could be physical or mental, either one. He needs to see a doctor to determine the cause. The doctor can prescribe Sildenofil which is the generic form of Viagra. If he takes one or two of those his dick will be very hard. Most of the time it’s a mans own feeling of inadequacy that causes this problem. Once he sees how hard his dick gets using the prescribed med his confidence level will be high and he will have you walking bow legged the next day with a sore pussy. Enjoy!

ntzazal · Accepted Answer

The reasons are mentally... Maybe is nervous for something and he cannot be calm and enjoy the moment. Probably when you have sex his mind is in his problems

mrfoox · Accepted Answer

If he doesn't watch porn on the side, it could be worth looking into. I can't think of much other explanations outside of him having other outlets on the side. Try discussing it with him, I always think it's a good idea to check up ones body when it acts unusual

ArnoldClark · Answer

How can you be sure he isn't knocking one out when you're not around?

Laozi · Answer

Talk to him. If he agrees with you then you can take him to doctor (if it's necesary).

chriscdi · Answer

it might be his age because im none of these things and i can still get a hard on, might wanna invest in some Viagra or some penis pills

imjustcuriousyo · Answer

erectile dysfunction isn't always age - related. ask a few simple questions, like is he depressed, is he autistic, and has he always had this problem?