Why is it a bad thing for someone to be single?

[cth2188]

I’m single because I choose too so why is it a shock to someone who chooses to be single? Relationships and dating is stressful.. I find not dealing with relationships or dating makes me happy because I don’t have to deal with the stress of relationships.. the mind games, play games, ghosting, hot and cold behavior.. etc.. I am at peace..

I am getting tired of people excepting me to date or asking me the question about being single because I choose not to date.. then there’s this generalization that single people get horny when I don’t engage in sexual activity with people I’m not exclusive with..

[Paulalove98]

Societal norms, pressure by others like family, friends etc, they also factor age which also sucks,& think “you need someone” but you can be happy single too. Having a relationship is great but being single isn’t the worst thing ever but it all depends what you want in your life. I do want a family one day. I don’t know about you but that’s why I hope I’m not single forever or I guess I’ll just adopt a child or something if I don’t find someone.

[cth2188]

I don’t want anymore children as I have my children nor do I want anymore relationships due to the current dating world and climate- exclusively how people date.

[cth2188]

Yes , I’m fine with my single life

[cth2188]

Good luck finding someone who can bare you children

[whereismyjohnny]

It's not?

Don't bother with what people say, just do you.

[cth2188]

I do , but it’s hard with people accepting rejection nowadays.,

[Berethor]

It's not says that you single in your profile so how people know? because you talk about it a lot.

[cth2188]

It’s on my profile people are aware

[Dargil]

It is a valid choice. You owe men nothing. Just live your life in peace.

[cth2188]

I don’t even date men who why should I care how men feel?

[Dargil]

You shouldn't. What you feel is all you need.

[Super_nurse_88]

I see no problem with it

[cth2188]

Thanks I’m just confused why others feel it’s a problem when it’s my life

[KrakenAttackin]

So be single. Men get the same attitude.

[cth2188]

It’s not about just being single it’s the expectation that if your single it’s a law not to be..

[cth2188]

Last I checked there’s no law that says you have to be in a relationship

[KrakenAttackin]

WTF are you talking about?

[cth2188]

Clearly you haven’t read my post which is typical and folks start commenting not reading the post. I’m not going to keep repeating myself..

[KrakenAttackin]

I did read your post and your response is gibberish.

[cth2188]

You didn’t have to post you could have passed it up , but you choose to respond like a typical man

[cth2188]

It’s nothing new..!

[KrakenAttackin]

I get that you are single, insist you want to be single, but get shit from other people about being single, correct? Men get exactly the same static except we get called "gay" if we are not interested in dating.

[cth2188]

I didn’t say anything about men normally when you tell people you’re not interested in dating they assume you should be dating because it’s the society thing to don

[cth2188]

Do..