Why is it always the question between guys of "do you like butts or boobs"? Why is never pussy an option?

[Anonymous]

I mean yeah, I like boobs and asses, but they are rarely the ones that make me hard. I always prefer to see a cameltoe, to see the shape of her labia, to try to imagine what she looks like underneath, or even better, I like to see some side labia in bikini, with a little hair stubble. Or I like when you can see the shape of large labia minora through her bikini. To be completely honest, butts never turned me on, with the only exception when I could see her labia as well.

Do most men not think the same? Why do I feel like, from that question, most men don't care about the pussy and prefer to see ass or boobs instead?

[Jaarraduun]

I think it has to do with it being less obvious. Unless a woman is wearing tight tights, leggings, or yoga pants, you normally aren't going to see it unless she's naked or has otherwise dropped her undergarments/pants.

It's equally possibly that woman themselves are more interested in showing off those two areas vs their vagina. I know that my partner doesn't like me seeing her without underwear on unless she's shaved down there because she doesn't think it looks good. Not that that's stopped me before, but you get the idea.

That said, I think a nicely shaped one , specifically a slightly puffy camel toe with none of the vaginas lips peeking out, can look absolutely amazing. But there are some that look like little more then roast beef due to the makeup of there vaginas lips. Which in my humble opinion isn't very attractive looking at all. I think some woman knows or think the same thing, and this aren't in any particular interest to draw attention to it. They would rather show off their other 'assets' at least, that's my experience. Hope that helps.

[PositiveFlight]

This is a great question I have asked before too! I don’t get the obsession so many younger men have nowadays with butts. I mean sure, its nice as the whole of the woman’s body to have a cute butt with feminine hips as long as it’s natural and not a bubble butt like Kim Kardashian. Breasts are also beautiful and feminine but again, as long as they are natural and a part of her feminine body as a whole.

But it seems as if there’s an effort to deny true femininity nowadays. Sexual contact seems to be more geared toward unnatural and disgusting acts involving anal only but excludes or ignores the vagina all together. Why be with a woman if a man will ignore that which most defines her divine womanhood/motherhood? The vagina/vulva is literally the most feminine of all parts on a woman’s body. A mature looking area down there with pubic hair represents mature womanhood, creation, pleasure, and the most defining trait of the female gender.

[RoseySaraah]

1 obviously you go for pussy but it can't be seen unless I'm naked!

2 it is a visual thing and pussy is ugly!

3 we don't want someone drooling over our pussy so not sexy if we don't like u.

[Apple1996]

I think the same thing like I'm wayy more into pussy rather then boobs/booty

[madhatters4]

because you can't see vaginas through shirts and pants.

[PeytonVD]

I’m curious to see more answers 👀

[REX_JSWL]

Pussy can't be an option because pussy is primary target
We fight for secondary target (butt or boobs)