we enjoy sex with others, but according to some I am a whore, yet there is Homo's, lesbian's, transgenders, and if they are called names they get upset, and by law it's classed as a hate crime,
There are people who will call you swingers or cuck/ cuck holder or a unicorn/the man a bull. That is the given names and I am sure there are more. But you also have people who do not find comfort in your sex life and choices and will call you a whore. Just as they would with other people who share their sexual preferences. I don’t think your sexual practices is really anyones business and if you find that people are responding poorly to your comments about it. It’s probably best to find a better subject to converse about. Keep your sex life personal. There is such thing as TMI. I personally don’t want to know about who everyone is screwing when I am hanging out with them. No matter who it is. So your problem will be over if you talk about something more intellectual or interesting. Simple solutions to simple problems.
but why should we change the way we talk, if a person asks, I answer, and may I add I have been on many cruises, and we can hold a conversation with anyone
You don’t have to change the way you talk. Just remember that not everyone has to like what you do and not you have to like what others do. How we all choose to respond to it is our choice. Bang I who you please hun.
but it's not about what we like and do, why do they have to revert to name calling, to me that shows immaturity
If you and your husband are happy who cares what anyone else thinks some people just love getting in other peoples business
it's not what they think, it's the use of calling names, so immature that offends me,
I've been called a slut but only by idiots that don't know me I don't let it bother me anymore
well, I do invite them to make say what they want, it's this so immature name calling that I can't see why they do it, you know you can also have some good laughs because of your lifestyle, after one party we had swapped, the next morning I was in the kitchen hen the other lady came in, the first thing she said was, "I know his bloody snoring" afterwards we just sat had coffee and talked
Well I think it's like that in everything every aspect of life there is always somebody that has to have a big that feels the need to express what they feel like it really means something I don't care what it is that we're talking about there is always somebody that just thinks everything is just so wrong that you think they've ever tried it do you think they would even think about trying it they're so set in their ways did they think that they have the judge other people because they think they are right well I don't understand that because they are not you so how can they be right only you know if you're right I think it is what it is and I wouldn't let other people bother you with what they think say or do
Why and how do they know about your sexual preferences? If they aren't into that lifestyle then they shouldn't know what the hell you and your husband are doing. I'm not judging you, if that's what works for the both of you then go for it. Fuck other people's opinions. Be yourself and fuck whoever you want
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Polygamy however is a choice and is generally frowned upon by the majority of monogamous society.
It’s seen as lack of self control, sex addiction and the inability to commit.
so people aren't born that way, rubbish
No, people are not born polygamous or monogamous. Those are learned behaviors.
Don't tell people your private business if you don't want to be judged. No matter what you do in life, you'll be judged by someone for it. Just be selective who you tell.
Your problem is worrying what someone else thinks!
I don't know. It's hard to believe you are actually fine and enjoy that setup
why should you find it hard to believe, at least we don't tell lies like a lot of married couples do,
Live your own life and ignore the name callers.
I agree with those people, and LGBT don't have anything to do with that.
Because people consider open marriages/polygamy relationships as adultery/infidelity. Technically you and your husband are swingers and swinging, but it's still an agreement to cheat on each other. All i have to day is be careful, that sort thing can ruin your marriage if you get involved with the wrong person. You can end catching something, become pregnant or he impregnate someone else, jealousy, sexual favoritism can occur, or they you or him end up falling in love with someone else and tame off. It has happen before and a lot times those relationships crumble. But if you think you can handle it then so be it. That type of relationship is not for me. I do not want to share my husband with anyone lol
how can we cheat on each other if both are in agreement, we had a lot of the marriage saying, deleted from our ceremony, we didn't promise to be faithful, and another thing, we only do what others would like to do but they haven't the courage to do it, I understand that you don't want to share your husband with anyone, and I respect that, so why can't you respect what we do, we don't hurt anyone,
I told you, it's adultery. Even though you're both in agreement to it still doesn't change the fact you're still cheating on each other.. only difference is that you know and are okay with it. Who said I didn't respect you? I was just telling you what it is that you and your husband are doing. You're free to do what you want but you can't expect everyone to agree with that lifestyle. That's why you asked this question cause a lot people don't like that.
I’ve thought about possibly doing this at some point in my life, I’m sure watching my partner with someone else would be hot yet disturbing…
Because people are judgmental and unkind.
Sadly some people are
Very good point. I should have added the word "some" in front of people.
if you guys are happy, healthy and safe in what you are doing dont worry about what anyone else says. it is your life, you dont owe anyone anything
there was no need to imply your hatred for the LGBTQ... lol
They are mad you won't have sex with them.
That’s not nice of people to call you names. But right now you guys aren’t a protected class (at least in the US) and those other groups are. You could just not tell people you do that? It’s easier to hide than being gay or transgender.
why hide, its what we do
Okay
Also I think a lot of it that a lot of people think that if you’re in a relationship you shouldn’t hook up with other people but tbh even that’s changing with polyamory I’m not into what you’re into and I probably won’t be even when I’m old enough but I would never call you guys names or make fun of you
Why does anybody insist on talking about their sex life for any reason? The quickest way to shut down mocking or insults would be to just not talk about it.
I took a lot of crap from acquaintances and even some so called friends for letting my wife have a occasional female lover.
People can't mind their own business and think everyone should be the same.
It's none of their damn business.
Oh we just live in a society full of confused n hypocrites honey
thank you,
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I guess they envy your ability to share your fun with others. single women who are slut shamed are usually feminists extremes that wish to do the same but are too scared to.
What you do in your personal life is nobody's business. If you and your husband like having an open relationship that's your business
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