Why is it okay for girls with a big butt to wear revealing bottoms, but not for girls with big breasts to wear revealing tops?

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Hiya y'all, I'm a petite 5ft3 girl with large breasts (34O), I love my breasts and don't have any back pain, I have no intention to get a reduction, thank you.

I'dlike to know why when a girl with a larger butt wears revealing bottoms that even show the lower part of their butt cheeks it is accepted by society, but when a girl like me with larger breasts wears a revealing top with cleavage we are automatically assumed to be promiscuous by men and other girls say mean things about us?

Strangely enough, no one finds it slutty or say mean things about girls with smaller breasts wearing revealing tops. I think it's just jealousy but I still want to know what you people think of this matter.

As for wearing cleavages, big breasts sweat a lot, so I'm not going to cover them entirely just to please people who find it offensive. I'm not putting them in your face, I'm just trying to be comfortable (again, chopping them off isn't an option, no one is asking you to chop off your big butt).

Grond21 · Accepted Answer

Congratulations on loving your breasts. More people should take a page from your book.

This may be a controversial opinion, and it is my personal one, but it seems true to me. The reason why a girl with a big butt can have part of it hanging out and it doesn't cause as much of a fuss is because it's not as much of a sexual statement. In other words, there is something more inherently sexual about the breasts. This is definitely not a bad thing, but it does seem to be a pattern. Even if someone prefers the butt, the breasts are louder (I don't know if that make sense), visually speaking. So your breasts when they are revealed, get more attention because breasts naturally draw the eye more than the butt does.

If you don't mind me asking, what country are you from? Or if you don't want to reveal that, what size is 34O? I've never heard of that one before

normalice · Accepted Answer

Because we can look at butts discretely? Whereas to look at a girl's boobs she basically has to be looking at you. So a revealing top over large boobs is perhaps seen as a "trap," whereas a revealing bottom over a nice butts (by the way, not necisarrily "large" - there are those of us who love small butts) isn't so much. This is just a guess, though..

TraceyByrd · Accepted Answer

That's love I will always prefer smaller breasts anytime. & to answer your question you should be worried about what u think not anyone else. I'm here to satisfy me nobody else

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Large breasts (34O).  Are you actually saying you're a 34 band size, with an O cup?

Dargil · Answer

Sounds reasonable to me.

farmboy91 · Answer

I don't know bit honestly it should change. Reveal as much as you want. It's your choice!

_SOARER · Answer

Both are immodest and both are not ok Stop thinking about what other people think and look within. You know whats right and whats wrong. Look within!

wondering_guy · Answer

You can show your cleavage but you will get a lot of guys perving at them. Guys like boobs/cleavage, so they may look more there than your face, just be prepared for that and do t take offence to it