Why is it people bitch and moan, and refuse to take responsibility for getting STD's, when they are 100% preventable?

[worldscolide]

Seriously I never understood this. Prior to my wife, I never, not once had unprotected sex. One, because I didn't want a child running around outside of marriage, and Two, I didn't want to catch something.. I always wore a condom, and I always brought my own because I never trusted ones someone else would give me.. It's easy to put a pin hole in the condom and suddenly I'm on the hook for 18 years of child support. The day I stopped using condoms was my wedding night. Prior to that we were both tested for STD's and came up clean..

Yet we see people all the time complaining about catching something, when all they had to do is wrap it up, or insist on condoms, or at the very least both get tested so that both know they are clean..

It shows laziness and stupidity if you ask me.

[DizzyDesii]

So were you the anon on my last post? Anyways, i made sure i got tested before having had sex with the two exes i got physical with. Even if stds are easy to cure, i take them just as serious as HIV. I never want any of that. We didn't use all the time condoms because im not afraid of pregnancy. I see it as a blessing. The pullout method was totally up to the guy but we were still getting tested before and after.

[worldscolide]

I don't recall commenting on any of your posts about STD's

[DizzyDesii]

It wasn't about stds. It was about other things said above. But if it wasn't you, cool. Just asking because that anon seemed butthurt about nothing

[worldscolide]

Last question of yours I commented on was about a fenced in yard and pets I think.. And you and me both, I never want to catch any of those. Screw that.

[DizzyDesii]

Haha its all good

[kyleelyn199723]

It isn’t as easy as you say it is. Some people don’t even know they have it until they transmit it to somebody else. All it takes is one person and another person that has no clue they have it. You can get STDs from kissing.

[worldscolide]

Yeah this is why I always insisted the person I'm with get tested before anything, even kissing happens.

[kyleelyn199723]

@worldscolide I think it’s gross if people aren’t making regular doctors appointments /gyno appointments anyways.

[FilmGuy93]

Because STDs are a consequence, and people don't like feeling like there might be something wrong with their behavior.

[worldscolide]

I know what you mean, I said as much to a pink anon and she wished death on me and hoped I get covid.

[FilmGuy93]

Nice! She sounds like the kind of person we need voting and making public policy decisions.

[worldscolide]

Right!! I think it's sad when adults can't even muster a modicum of personal responsibility.

[FilmGuy93]

Soon as I meet people like that, I run for the hills!

[worldscolide]

Same here.

[MCheetah]

Because they're lazy, stupid, and irresponsible? (Women especially do this, when they risk even more with sex.)

[loves2learn]

It is lazy. We stopped using condoms a year into our relationship because I was very reliable with my birth control pill. And we were both virgins so no need for a test. If you are having unprotected sex with someone who has not proven they are clean, that is just not smart. I think many men unfortunately think with their dicks and not their heads and regret it after.

[DonkeyDan]

Agreed, also the "how did I get pregnant when he pulled out" question. How stupid are these people?

[Neko911]

You can still get an STD with a condom. They aren't 100% protection on these things

[worldscolide]

True but doing things like getting tested before sexual contact makes them 100% effective.

[Neko911]

True. But some people don't bother because they know their clean and assume said partner is. I never had a sexual partner b4 my sorta weird boyfriend (I don't know what 2 call him) but he cheated and got chlamydia a month ago. Just found out and got tested Saturday. Sometimes these things aren't 100% avoidable because someone cheats. Or soemthing happens

[worldscolide]

That's true.. It's why I function on honesty.

[Neko911]

But not everyone is honest. So this isn't always a cut and dry situation. Shitty factors play into it as well

[worldscolide]

I suppose, but that does not mean that all forms of protection should be abandoned. That's like saying that this bridge is only 99.99% safe so we should not use it.

[Neko911]

Oh no you should definitely use condoms. I do. It's always a must for me with him

[worldscolide]

Ah ok I understand.. I just feel bad for those with a latex allergy.

[Neko911]

They make condoms for those people

[worldscolide]

I did not know that.

[Neko911]

Yep made out of I believe lamb skin or something. But yes you ca get condoms if you have a latex allergy. Lucky 4 me I don't. Thiugh unlucky 4 me im n love with a cheating butthole

[genericname85]

me neither. or like why do the pullout method, when you can have a pretty much 100% certainty not to get children if you so choose.

[888theGreat]

these are the ones worried about Covid and wearing a mask getting AIDS

[worldscolide]

Right!!! stupid.

[Anonymous]

You are right. People today are stupid and lazy

[Anonymous]

Because they are liberals who are used to doing what they want because mummy and daddy will sort it out, they moan when the bitter pill of truth hits them

You can see why I keep away from those plagued with the virus commonly called liberalism

[Anonymous]

Have to admit I’ve got hpv and I know exactly who gave it to me. Hoping it goes away but it was my own stupidity. I get tested again in just under a year. You don’t think it will happen to you and I fell in love with a piece of crap that slept with anything and everything. I was dumb but it happens

[worldscolide]

Man that sucks. I didn't know it was curable.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it goes away on its own hopefully. Your immune system sorts it. If not I have to go have treatment. It’s not really the end of the world. The guy was an ass but he got rid of an old ex that wouldn’t leave me alone. I’d take hpv over him 😂😂