Why is it so difficult to find a true lover😭😭😭all just wanna fuck?

[lola84]

[Apope16]

I am actually in the same position. I just want to fuck. NO complication. No drama. Sure I want to date long term and fall in love. But right now my heart is broken and I just want to fuck.

But there are no attractive women willing to do this. It is all crazy or fat women. So I swiped left. I even went on the FEELD app to get sex but there is nobody in my area.

What I have realized since getting buff with muscle is that if you are attractive people are insecure and get suspecious. They wonder why you want to fuck them. They dont realize that you used to be a nerd and eve though you are chubby I still think you are hot.

A hot person wants to fuck me? Something must be wrong. This must be a fake profile.

Thats what they think of us. I think when I see your profile picture and see that you are sexy as fuck... i think maybe guys dont trust you are real. Maybe they are intimidated and suspicious.

[FilmGuy93]

I'm gonna tell you like I tell every other woman who asks a question like this:

Please bear in mind that nothing I'm saying is meant to be a stab at you.

If ALL of the men you attempt to connect with only ever want sex, it means that sex is all those men think you can offer them. That could be because of at least 1 of the following 3 things:
1. Maybe the men aren't in a position of life where they want to form a relationship.
2. Maybe they think you are a boring or generally unlikeable person.
3. Maybe you don't present yourself as the kind of lady who is the homemaking type.

[Paolaa988]

Love takes time and finding that special someone who You click with and are compatible, sex and hooking up is easier if you're a young woman because that's what guys want and desire unless their really ready to settle looking for their queen. It all depends but sex is quicker to find and get than love.

[Anonymous]

sorry but your pic might be a problem, you know that you are half naked there? maybe use something like in clothes and just smile and not do the sexy face? you are pretty and all but maybe attracting wrong crowd like this

[TheBigGuy9]

Totally agree. Tits 3/4th out. Huge Arm tattoo. Looks high as shit.

[ohshee]

Knock knock, yes I'm looking for Lola 84. Oh I how are you, I'm good thanks I hear you're looking for a true lover

[kkirk4442]

Many guys are looking for sex, and don't want to make a commitment. There is little incentive for them to commit to a real relationship, if they get all the sex they want anyway. In reality, many guys are just plain selfish, and just want sex. You need to find a guy who is caring, and not selfish in other ways. He will be more likely to love you for who you are.

[Celtero]

What do you expect when that's all you're good for?

[scuff1986]

True love takes time to find sadly, never rush it or force it just let it arrive when it's ready

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, if you look into the wrong places and have the wrong men contacting you
learn to stand your ground and say hey I don't hook up with men who just want sex
sure it's difficult to find true love there are girls who just want sex and no true love
and there are guys who are the same way it sucks for sure

[Browneye57]

Are you worthy of a high-quality guy? Have you done the work?
Have you ever even considered what YOU bring to a relationship that would be considered high value? You need to be able to articulate this, cuz a high value guy will expect it. And no, it's not your empathy, or your golden vagina.
Do you have any idea of what a man needs? Do you know how to keep a man?

Oh, and yes, they ALL want to fuck. Did you think you were getting some kind of pet?

[HawkPerception]

I mean... sex is a pretty important part of a relationship in my opinion. That exclusive physical intimacy you get with someone truly makes it more than just a friendship.

There are good guys that want love and a committed relationship. You just need to filter the fuckboys out.

[BobbyC65]

In do time. 💞

[BarryLiverstone]

Reported

[poneglyphs]

probably not hard just gotta ask the right people. :)

I wanna fuck too but also want to know you :)

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

They’re all hiding!

[Iron_Man]

Don't give it up ever and the true gentleman that truly love you will wait till marriage and won't push you until then.

[Born-for-sex]

Because true love isn’t just about fucking... haha! It is about connecting and understanding one another. If you just want to fuck then go pull up your top to the next hot gas station attendant. But if you want true love. Then try to know yourself. Go buy some toys heck I will buy you some toys... and then take the time to get to know yourself. Because you can not connect on a deeper level if you do not know yourself.

[Dchrls78104]

Because people's values have gone down the toilet; so that true love is often unrequited and people are betrayed, objectified, and even assaulted by the ones they fall in love with.

[kellytheman]

I did find a true lover for awhile but she was just a friend with benefits and she just love having sex with me. We had sex at least 2 times a day everyday for 2 and a half years. It is difficult finding true love it's a hard question to answer everyone is diffrent and there is too many people in the world for everyone to find that one true love.

[TheBigGuy9]

Well, look at social media today. Everything is at the tip of your fingers. We are living in time where everything is me me me me. Selfishness runs rampant.
No one has discipline. Almost half the USA is unemployed right now. For the first time in 150 years more men and women 18-30 live at home with mommy and daddy than live with a spouse.


You are growing up in a sh*t generation if you are looking for love.

[Caliguy88]

You’re young. Give it time or focus on meeting people that are openly looking for that. You’re hot if that’s you’re real pic though. You have nothing to worry about.

[MasterOfReality]

Be patient. It will happen.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Sorry, I am not into girls with Tattoos

[COMMODOREII]

It will take time girl