Why is it wrong to hire a prostitute (escort), especially why women see it so bad?

It can be the only way to gain experience or have a connection for certain people, if a man is autistic or very shy or doesn't look good in profile photos or he is very short in height or have a micropenis. It is better to have a little bit of company and experience than to end up being a virgin in the thirties or forties without knowing many things, is not necessarily s*x but about dating. Not know how to give a hug, a kiss, affection, how to have a conversation... this may sound offensive but if women dont pay for sex or company (or for dominatrix) it is because they have it for free, if men could have suitors and thousands of matches they would not pay for it, if men could be attractive at all heights and not only being taller.
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Anyway, I'm talking about escorts in appartments, not brothels, pimping or street prostitution.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Do a little local research before try this out. There is a criminal element surrounding "sex work" that you don't want to be exposed to. "massage parlors" or roadside "spa's" (often Asian) may be an approach. The first time, pay the house fee to get a sponge bath and a non-sexual massage. Get used to being touched. Don't worry about whatever shortfalls you have. You are getting a "service" you are paying for. Learn the protocol of purchasing "extras" for future sessions. A bath, massage and blowjob... a girlfriend experience is what you want and it WILL settle your mind.

  • I think brothels are more legit than just escorts being their own manager. Cause I think some brothels require girls and even the clients to be tested. And they are probably more experienced.

    Anyways I don't see a problem with this. If it was legal it would give lots of women more opportunities to work. Cause let's face it the demand is definitely there.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's not wrong. It's non-conventional but I think people are slowly becoming more tolerant of prostitution and similar jobs as more progress in made in sex-work losing the stigma associated with it as a whole.

    Because, like you said, the more publicly accepted or tolerated it is, the safer it'll be for both the sex workers as well as men who see them mostly for almost therapeutic purposes as opposed to just paying someone to get them to cum.

  • I do t think it’s bad it’s only bad if he abuses the worker

    • Do not*

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  • It's because it's traditionally unusual for women to be as sexually thirsty as a man. That's where whore shaming of women partly comes from.

  • I think it’s wrong because it’s illegal…if it was legalized, I would see nothing wrong with it so long as it was being regulated…I. e. done through companies instead of freelancers

  • I am autistic and short. I have a girlfriend to whom I lost my virginity. I am also paralyzing shy. Granted she's my first, but still it happened considering all of that.

  • I don't judge personally, but in my 54 years on this earth I have actually never hired a prostitute Ever!!!

  • It's not wrong. Nobody can give you a valid reason why it's wrong

    However, I disagree with your thinking; it is one of many ways to gain experience or have a connection. Everything thereafter mentioned is irrelevant

  • The issue I have is that they use pimps, and sometime the girl also may have been in trouble before so the Johns or Jane’s can be picked up by the security guarding the girl. If she’s legit, she’s solo and independent. Most of the time she’s just a scammer, steals money. Gray gray area in a black market

  • I've done it several times. Nothing wrong with it

  • The assumption is that the women are trafficked and doing it against their will.

  • Women like having power just like anyone else and they have more power than men when it comes to sexual relationships. They know that they would lose some power/advantage if men felt safe going to prostitutes instead of having to court them