Why is my boyfriend acting weird and awkward after our group sex experience?

He's always known that I've had a gangbang fantasy and we've talked in the past about making it a reality and on my birthday he finally arranged it for me.

So he knew about it, he arranged it for me and he was perfectly happy taking part, but no9he sulks and acts weird about it.
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  • I LOVE these kinda Qs.


    "Why is my boyfriend acting weird and awkward after our group sex experience? He's always known that I've had a gangbang fantasy..."


    Probably because you did NOTHING to thank him for arranging it (DON'T you dare say he was part of the gangbang), or ANYTHING to ease his bruised ego as he watched you in ecstasy while getting fucked in every one of your holes with umpteen guys!


    "... we've talked in the past about making it a reality."
    So what? Did you talk or consider what the ramifications would be for him watching the woman he loves getting gangbanged? How he would feel about it?

    So YOU knew about it, and HE arranged it for YOU!

    I would argue that the great fun you thought he was having was NOT the case!

    "He sulks and acts weird about it", because he feels like shit about it, but it's TOO LATE now.


    He arranged it for you cuz a gangbang was your fantasy.


    If you've talked about it, tell us what is his fantasy that you will arrange for him as a thank you?


    It is clear to many that your communication about this with him has been less than stellar.


    You wanna fix it. Talk to him and find out WHY he's upset. DON'T ask us!

    • You're making a lot of assumptions and getting angry about things for no reason. 1. Of course I thanked him, dunno where you even got that idea from but w/e 2. We talked about it at length, he said it "sounds hot" and obviously felt fine enough about it to arrange it to actually happen 3. His fantasy is a ffm threesome which we have done like 4 times now w/ one of my girl friends I'm asking because I don't know, I've already tried talking to him about it but he never communicates at all. I don't see how you came to the conclusion that I'm the one in the wrong, I'm just going to assume you6not smart

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  • He may be feeling inadequate if he felt the other guys satisfied you more than he does or that you thought they had better bodies than him. He may just need some reassurance you don't feel that way.

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  • Have you tried asking him what's wrong?

    • yeah he just says "nothing" and goes back to sulking

    • Specify a specific "sulking" behavior and then ask why. For example: "You've seem sad and withdrawn since yesterday, can you tell me why?

  • Probably because you forgot he was there during the group sex I'm guessimg

    • How can I forget he's there when he's literally inside me

  • Your question answers itself.

    Group sex sounds really awkward and gross tbh.

    • It's not awkward and gross it's very exciting and fun

    • Nah, awkward and gross.

    • How is it awkward and gross?

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  • LMAO

    • 🐳🐳🐳🐳🐳🐳🐳

  • He could feel insecure now. He probably thinks he can't satisfy you. He probably noticed something like you moaning a different way or you orgasmed faster with another guy. All are valid reasons to be insecure. What's not gonna make it better is coming on the internet talking shit about the guy you supposedly love.

    • Well ofc I'm going to be moaning & cumming more it's literally a fantasy I've not experienced except with toys, why would that make him insecure :(

    • Think about what you just said. Let it sink in

    • I think you nailed it.

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  • Maybe he’s immature and believes that because he made your fantasy come true that you owe him one.

    • We already did his fantasy

    • Really it’s not a game to keep score. It’s he’s sulking then let him know you find it much more sexy when he’s into you and wants you

    • And ya if you did his fantasy then he did yours then he believes it’s his turn again.

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  • Sounds like it's his turn. Get him some pussy

  • What "weird" mean? What he is doing, how is acting more specificly?

  • Maybe he didn’t think you could be THAT wild for real

  • Jealousy?

  • Maybe he sees of you as a slut now

    • He already knows I'm his little slut 🥴

    • Yes but maybe seeing you with others affected him, and not in the way he was expecting to.