Why is my boyfriend always horny? even when we’re cuddling he’ll be hard?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is always hard whenever I’m around him and he constantly wants to have sex with me. Not Saying it’s a bad thing, just worries me he is only using me, but he doesn’t get this way around other women. Suggestions as to why he’s always hard/ horny, if he doesn’t do this with other women? Could it be that he is really Just that attracted to me?

[markscott]

It's common for guys to almost constantly want to have sex when they are in a sexual relationship. When in your age bracket, guys get horny real easy,, and sex is, in one form or another, are frequently on their minds. Of course, he can learn to control himself some, and give you some "time off".

[MrOracle]

He's a young guy and your boyfriend. This is normal to the point of being boring. If he wasn't hard and horny around you, THAT would be something worth discussing, because it would be unusual and probably an indication of a problem.

[Losalt]

If he's your age then sex is the main thing he thinks about most of the time...
He's not likely to have sex with any of those other women anytime soon.
But he might be with you.
Doesn't mean that he don't have other feelings too...
But yeah...

[Maguel]

18-24 guy is generally horny 24/7. Inserrt a good looking girlfriend in the picture and he has a way of venting all that sexual desire. Completely normal and i suggest you try to enjoy it while you're both still young.

[OlderAndWiser]

How old is he?

[Asker]

He’s 21

[OlderAndWiser]

He is horny and attracted to you. Women don't understand how serious guys think about sex. Read this:

Sex and Love: When Should It Happen? ↗

[HorrorFan]

Why would your boyfriend get hard/horny around other women? That seems not so ideal when in a relationship.

[Soporific-san]

He's just happy to see you. He is like a dog who loves playing. You have a toy in hand. Don't expect the dog to stop until the end of the day.

[Buckzor]

Most guys simply can't control it, I know I can't. If I cuddle with someone I find attractive, or even somewhat attractive i'll get hard.

I do believe there's a difference between getting hard & being horny though.

I'm assuming he just hasn't had much experience with cuddling/sex/women, or that's just the way he is - as are MANY other guys.

Bottom line is we can't control when we get a boner, our thoughts and body reacts to stimulus (emotional, visual, sexual, touch etc)

[Belan]

I think he gets excited when he see you kinda ! not sure if you got big boobs ? I heard girls having big boobs gets boys horny.

[ChrisB15243]

Let me ask you this. After you have sex does he leave or stay with you?

[Asker]

He stays with me if he can

[ChrisB15243]

What do you mean by IF he can? Let me ask you, you have sex 20 times, how many times does he stay with you for at least an hr after?

[JamesDylan1990]

I had that problem and my girlfriend left me so if I was him I’d either slow down or move on cause he could blow it

[Anonymous]

when I cuddle no matter what I get hard

[Anonymous]

He's totally attracted to you.
I'm the same way.
I still get hard just sitting next to my ex-wife.