Why is my boyfriend ignoring me after we had sex?

My boyfriend and I recently decided to have sex, it just happened and now it's been about two days that he's been distant. He only texted me twice the day after. Why? I'm afraid he's gonna break up with me and I should I give him his space?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It seems as if he wasn't much serious with you in the relationship and after having sex with you, he felt as if you're so much true with your feelings for him. Because sex is a very intimate thing and a very different kinda feeling which pulls out the true emotion out of anyone. That's why sex isn't always easy for people to do. It isn't just about pleasure but also about feelings and love.
    So, my point is that after having it with you, he might have felt as if he is doing wrong as it may seem from his side that he's playing with your feelings. So he might be feeling guilty for that and is trying to make a distance so that you may not fall for him so much truly for lifetime.!
    Just don't take my opinion in a wrong sense. It's just one point of view!
    Try to understand! :) all the best
    And keep up for the positive things.!

    • Thank you :) I appreciate it

    • My pleasure. :) and keep smiling.!

  • how long have you guys been dating?

    ask him whats going on. if everything is ok. I don't think you should give him space.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Giving him space is the most intelligent thing to do. Sex is a serious thing, so maybe he is thinking of a lot stuff. Being distant is not a bad thing in itself. But eventually, hope he does get back to normal. You took a big step by having sex, now you gotta be patient, no point panicking!

    If it was a mutual decision, then he'd be guilty of cheating you if he breaks up with you, without a valid reason that is.

  • You've been dating for two weeks. That's hardly dating at all. That's still in the fresh stage where some guys think it's okay to run because it's still early. My guess is this situation is exactly that.

  • Same thing happened to me once then a few days later I got a text saying, "you're great but I'm not ready for a relationship."

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  • Sorry to say it but... you just got Hump'n'dumped

    • But he hasn't dumped me yet

    • www.urbandictionary.com/define.php

      it has happen enough that people actually bothered to give it a definition on Urban Dictionary...

      So... be careful there

    • Lol thanks

  • You're too average in bed. You didn't arouse him.

  • How long have you been together?

    • About 2 weeks

    • Not to be rude but I think he got what he wanted out of the relationship. I don't know if this is the case. Maybe he had a busy two days but relationship wise this is the most intensive part. Not responding for 2 days right after having sex makes it clear he was just in it for the sex.

    • If he's ignoring you after sex, and you've only been together 2 weeks (I'm assuming you weren't dating before you became official) he's just in it for the sex. He shouldn't be ignoring you otherwise. Now I have to wonder if you two actually had the conversation, saying you're boyfriend girlfriend. Or if youve been hooking up for 2 weeks and you think he's your boyfriend because of it. You're not together unless you have a conversation saying that you're together.

  • Seems like a: Wam Bam Thank ya Ma'am
    situation.