He's not stretching your kitty at all. Maybe temporarily, but it's not going to make any permanent changes.
What he is doing though, is completely lacking respect for you and being a complete ass. If you don't enjoy it, who is he to be telling you how you 'should be fucked'? Next time he says that, slap him. Don't let him fuck you if it's only for his enjoyment, at your expense.
If his birthday's coming up, feel free to get him a flesh-light so he can fuck that just how he likes. :)
I like how he ducks me the only problem here is that he really goes deep deep and penetrate me real hard which it hurts but he mostly penetrating most of the time. I also was worried about my pussy being stretch out and loose cuz of him penetrating me that deep sometimes I don't even feel his dick that deep when he is penetrating me now what's going on there? I'm confused. Sometimes he might he hard as a rock and sometimes he not that hard.
You tell him it hurts you right? He should change the angle or pull out a bit if and when you do. If not, he's being really bad in bed and as a boyfriend. You won't get loose, regardless of how deep he goes or how big he is. Girls who are sexually active being loose is a myth. It's muscular canal. The only thing that could affect the tightness would be tears that come about from birth or some sort of more serious trauma. The more comfortable you get with sex, your tightness may vary a bit as well just because the muscles will no longer be quite as tense. His hardness will change occasionally depending on how turned on he is, how stressed/fatigued, how long it's been since the last time he ejaculated, etc..
I tell him and sometimes (sometimes) he stops and understands but most of the time he loves that I'm in pain and that I beg him to stop. I'm a submissive female and he loves to dominate me in bed maybe the problem right here is how's he is acting. He really takes his dominant paper in bed to serious lol.
Not from a penis no. You may feel like that especially if you are having sex frequently, but if you waited a week or something you would be back to normal.
It sounds like he's a dominant but you aren't a submissive. And that's fine, it just means you aren't compatible. He wants to be in control, do what he wants with a girl, and he hasn't learnt that you don't like that. The only way he will know is if you just shut him down when he does it and have a talk with him outside the bedroom.
I am a submissive female because I love that my boyfriend dominant me and controls me the problem that he seem to go so deep and it's mostly all the time now and it wasn't like that before.
A few questions then. By a submissive what do you like? The more detail you say the better but I won't force you. Is it the aspect of him doing what he likes to you, or the thrill of not being in control, or something else? Do you get pain from how deep he goes? Is the problem his size? If something has changed in the bedroom, there must have been a change in your lives. Is he frustrated? Are you not spending as much time together? Is he angry about something?
Does he cum harder when he does that? I like to take it up a notch when I'm about to explode, cum everywhere..
No your vagina will go back to normal, I mean after all, girls pop 8 pound babies out of there and then go back to having great sex, I don't think his dick will do much damage. However d you're telling him to stop and he's not respecting that then that's a problem
no it won't get bigger from sex, or looser. You might more relaxed emotionally and it might be a bit looser but that is it. He sounds like a selfish jerk. I am pretty dominant. I am a Dom with a submissive under my care. I don't hurt my girl. It takes maturity to be a dom. And a sense of responsibility.
Listen, it isn't my place but you two should not be I a dom sub relationship. There isn't the maturity or trust or, it sounds like, the experience. Tell him it isn't on those terms anymore. That is not how a healthy D/S relationship works.
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I love aggressive sex and I'm a submissive female , I like to get dominated but I just feel like he is going deep pretty much the whole time during sex. That's why I'm starting to think he wants to stretch me more. He says he likes it but his been more aggressive lately..
He's clearly not aware that dominance starts, an ENDS, with the consent of the sub. If you say no, that's it. If he won't respect that, dump him.
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We always had that dominant and submissive sex thing , so I have always been treated aggressive in bed not all the time we have sex but most of the time. Lately he just been wanting to penetrate me so deep and for quite while and it hurts. I don't know how to tell him that it kind of bothered me he don't listen to me to stop of slow down because you know he is the "dominant in bed" he likes to be called daddy which he is controlling me. I don't know how to talk to him with out him thinking I'm not into it.
You are still having sex with him regularly (as he wants it). But just let him know that it hurts you a lot. Tell him that penetrate you deep but slowly. Tell him that your V is not used to deep penetration so let's try to work on deep penetration step by step (slowly).
Because he is letting his animal side take over. If you don't like it then just tell him.
why? it sounds like he's not really respecting you but selfishly focusing on what he wants
That's how I see I mean he a always been the dominant one , he loves controlling me. I like it but lately he been to aggressive that he goes deeper.
ahh madhatters.. long time no see! hope alls well
@Watermelonoma... good to see you. things are good thanks
He is being inconsiderate of your feelings and wants.
He is hurting you, and sex is not about hurt, generally.
He might be trying to dominate you, or he is just doing what he wants.
That is not good sex, and if he isn't doing what you like then dump him.
You could hurt yourself inside by letting him pound you.
You won't get stretched out, the vag is very pliable, however, you don't want to feel beat up after having sex.
Your pussy can't get stretched and made bigger, unless you have kids.
But a dick won't.
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