Why is my boyfriend turning me down on sex?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three year now. Our sex life has been amazing until recently. Yesterday was our first time having sex in about two weeks. He hasn't really been wanting to and haven't really touched or showed any interest sexually, until last night. He said he was "sexually frustrated" and I completely understood because I was also. He wanted head, so if course I gave it to him and then he pulled me on top of him. We had sex for about 30mins until he started to get limp. He didn't cum and we never finished, we just went to sleep. As aggravated as I was, I let it go. Well, today I wanted to have sex. I took off all of my clothes in front of him and then Layed in bed next to him. He smiled but continued to watch tv. An hour went by so I began to touch him sexually. He got aroused, but after about 15mins of me playing with him he started getting soft so I stopped. He told me it was hard to stay aroused when he was focused on the tv show. So I waited until the show was over and tried again. (About 40 mins later). He then told me he was tired and he went to sleep. We used to have sex every day and the last two weeks we haven't (except for last night when he got limp). I even went and ordered a sexy foreplay outfit for us to have fun but he's not even showing any interest in that like he was when I first ordered it. (I haven't recieved the item yet) I Am starting to think he isn't sexually attracted to me like he used to be.. Maybe because I'm "old" to him? Maybe because he's watching p*rn again? (That used to be a major problem because he would lie about watching it). I don't understand, because when we were having sex everyday just two weeks ago, he would always say how much he loves having sex with me, how my p**** is so amazing, etc.. Can someone please help me out here?

[ilovesexyfeet]

Stress and anxiety are common causes and the harder he tries the worse it is. Tiredness is also a cause so is he working more than usual or do u know if he is worried about anything? The other thing if it came on suddenly is an affair! If he's seeing somebody else then his performance at home will suffer. He can't keep it up because its not as exciting as playing away from u. I hope its not that and if it is something that is stressing him out then u need to support him try other things like laying down next to him and playing with yourself, let him watch u pleasure yourself ask if he wants to join in take it slow don't fret it he goes soft just go back to playing and hug him kiss him make him feel like its ok and u are there fir him and want him.

[SomeoneImportant]

"Maybe its because you're ugly"

It could be that he's watching p*rn, thats been a problem for me in the past, very difficult to keep it up if your masturbating to p*rn regularly. Why not just ask him about it?

[Anonymous]

I am sorry for your situation but it sounds to me like he's seeing someone. Guys do get stressed out about things and this can affect how they are feeling but I am assuming he would share whatever he is stressed out about with you given that you've been together for 3 years.

He is not showing any sexual interest in you because he is either getting it from somewhere else or he is signalling that he wants out of the relationship. Some guys do this when they want the situation to end but don't know how to say it.

Fingers crossed it's a phase he is going through but you need to look him in the eye and ask him directly what's going on with your sex life.

[ellacxo]

Maybe he's feeling insecure "down there" remember men go through moods just like us ladies

[ellacxo]

Then again I'm young so I probably don't know

[Klaatu51]

he just bored to have sex with you :P

[abhishek12]

Maybe u guys shd take some break... everyday sex has caused his body to shut down.. give it a few days time and everything will be alright..!;);)