There are several variations which could be attributing to him cumming faster than he has in the past. Is he under more stress factors than he's been under in the past? If this is not the case, there could be medical reasons behind the change in behavior. Have you thought about asking him to see a Urologist and discussing his reproductive organs with a professional? If you and him don't believe this could have anything to do with what's happening, then the next step would be to address in psychological issues he may be dealing with that's causing him to orgasm faster than before.
I'm not discounting he could be getting bored with his sexuality and with the sex he's been having with you. This is not to be offensive, but do you and him just perform sex in the missionary position? If this is the case you might want to consider spicing up the bedroom and your sex lives by trying different positions or role playing to help out your libido. However, if you are already trying new things in the bedroom, then the final notation here would be to talk with him. Ask him about how he's feeling and why he feels he's orgasming so quickly when before it never happened that way.
Just ask to talk privately with him and in an isolated place that is relaxed where the two of you can just have a conversation together; perhaps over breakfast or lunch. Males can get really defensive when it comes to their sexuality therefore when you talk with him, be sure you put him at ease by saying you're not criticizing him, but you are just concerned with your relationship and want to make sure he's not losing interest in you. Don't tell him that he's not being fulfilling to you; he'll take that negatively and feel guilty about it. Just say you are feeling something is 'off' and go from there. This is what I'd do in your position.
What kind of medical issues can cause something like this?
Stress and depression are common causes of acquired premature ejaculation just like relationship issues, conflicts and performance-related anxiety. Physical causes of premature ejaculation include: conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure, thyroid problems and prostate disease as well as binge drinking. These are all classified under medical conditions, which could cause someone to cum faster than they intended. These are all items which should be addressed with your primary doctor or medical professional, if you feel these are actually affecting you or your significant other/husband. These aren't conditions anyone should take lightly and if you feel they are affecting you then you should seek help to address them.
It's a bit unusual but I'm betting if you talk to him and let him know how you feel, in a calm direct, matter of fact way, he'll do all he can to remedy the problem.
Here're some tips on how to have that conversation:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex
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Thanks for the MHG!!
Going to have that talk today thank you
He's so young... Or is he? It. could it be hormonal?
He is 21 and does it go back to normal?
I think you should ask a doctor. It doesn't sound serious but it is really odd.
If you want to be satisfied more you guys could do foreplay until you cum first.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The more a guy cums the easier it is for him to cum. Tell him to stop jerking off and having sex with you for about a month to help this. Doing this will help to reset his normal hormonal production.
1. Is he on New medication?
2. Did something happen recently that could be the cause?
3. Did he stop watching porn, masturbating?
4. Did you tell him this? and did he make it up with oral?
No medication Not that I can think of I was never aware of how much porn he watches. Does this seem to help? Why? And I don't know about maturbating also Yes and yes
I find it strange that you don't know much about your husband's sex life. If he stopped watching porn/masturbating he would cum sooner. Most men can last a lot longer if they jerk-off before sex. It usually takes a guy longer to cum the second time around. Proud of you that you told him and that he's making the effort with oral. If he doesn't know why it's happening... I'd go to the doctor as it could be a prostate issue.
What kind of prostate issue?
How old is he? And you?
He is 21 and I am 20
Maybe he is going through some changes... Maybe he is worried about something... Maybe he lost his confidence maybe he is depressed... Why dont you try to communicate with him and solve it together? Why dont you just ask him?
We have talked about it we looked up causes and things to do to help. A lot I read is men who been suffering it since day one. This barley started happening that why we are both so confused.
5 min is avg time doe lol
We use to go for 15 or 20
That's way more than average, maybe he's going through loner boner phase
Come on! Five mins is not avg @polocrew
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