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11 mo

Why is our friend ignoring us after we gave him a boner?

I was at the beach with a group of friends a few weeks ago and me and some other girls were fooling around with one of the guys. We pinned him down and tickled him, and he got a boner which he couldn’t hide because he was only wearing swim shorts. Since then he hasn’t spoken to us. Do you think he is very annoyed or just embarrassed? He seemed quite humiliated at the time.

Updates:
11 mo
He seemed to be having a good time at first we’d been teasing him and fooling around all day so maybe it was how we reacted. We laughed a bit because we were embarrassed but maybe that made him feel worse. I will apologise
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Superb Opinion

  • On all truth he could report you and your friends for sexual assault even if he might be a male since you guys have even made fun of that and thought since your were females ; you could get just slap on the wrist. If you were in his place and held down by even any one would think. He would ever care about wanting any one as so called friends. who don't care about others be side themselves.

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  • Male Cuck's, and some female submissives, thrive off humiliation... not everyone is a cuck or a submissive.

    An apology, and assurances that there will be no repeats, is called for to restore trust.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The dude probably thinks the same thing and what he needs is for the 2 or 3 of y'all that was fooling around with him to go and fool around with him except when he gets hard this time grab it and put your lips on his and another one walk up and grab it to and say he's got plenty here to share and pull it out and put your mouth on it and go from there.

  • What you did is called cock-teasing, and guys don't like it. If you intentionally guve a vuy a boner, follow through and make him cum.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He is most likely very embarrassed about the situation. Even more so if he secretly is crushing on one of you and someone laughed at him. Time and space will have him back to normal I'm sure. Though if I was him and never really got that close to a girl, let alone a group of girls, I would feel very awkward coming out of that situation. Not everyone can just laugh or shrug something embarrassing off easily.

  • I'm sure he was embarrassed and had to head home to jerk off. What happened to him is 100% normal for younger guys. Text or call him and tell him that you were just having fun and did not mean to torment or embarrass him. How old is he?

    • It's too bad one of you could not have helped him out with his boner later on!

  • Just embarrassed

  • Embarrassed

  • probably embarrassed, this is actually something I would quite enjoy but I still know I would be embarrassed too

  • Probably embarrassed. I suggest apologizing and offering to make it up to him by doing anything he wants.

  • You humiliated him and he probably died a little inside. Especially if you laughed at him. For supposedly being more in touch with your emotions, women are the most oblivious to mens feelings.

  • He is embarrassed cause all of you gave him a boner now he is afraid to talk to you all.

  • Of course, he was embarrassed. He got aroused by women who are supposed to be platonic friends.

  • I think he is probably embarrassed.

    If you want to mak it up to him you could tell him you secretly found it hot that he was erect!

  • What was your reaction when he got hard? Did you make fun of him for it? Or point it out in public? or laugh at him? If so thats probably why.

    • Apologizing sounds like the right choice 👍

  • He was probably embarrassed beyond words.

  • You embarrassed the poor guy and he knows that you are all talking about it behind his back. You need to apologize to him.

  • You definitely embarrassed him. You should contact him and tell him that you didn't mean to do that

  • He's embarrassed

  • It sounds like you embarrassed him.

  • Embarrassed and humiliated. Id cheer him up with a handjob or blowjob.

  • Embarrassed, and probably believe you guys were laughing at him….

  • Probably embarrased, especially if you laughed at it.

  • Your friend was humiliated and embarrassed. You probably also teased him a little bit too about his boner.

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