Why is penis size such a big deal with so many men and women now days?

Literally, why does it matter if you love the person and they love you? I’ve never cared one moment about my length and width. All I know is that there are times it wish it were much smaller when it’s so uncomfortable trying to bulge out of my pants. No matter 4 inch or 9 inch, can it not pleasure a woman?
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Just like the obsession with breast size and other body parts, it really shouldn’t matter. Enjoy what you have and live your life to the fullest. Stop measuring up/down to someone else. There isn’t a standard.
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  • Penis size is important to many women because many women value pleasurable sex and penis size can potentially determine the level of pleasure that a man can provide during sex. Sex often feels more pleasurable the deeper the penis penetrates the vagina and the more the penis stimulates the vaginal walls. According to various medical studies regarding female human anatomy, the vagina expands up an average of 7 inches deep when fully aroused. Thus, the average woman is more likely to be sexually satisfied by a penis that is 7-inches in length or longer. In addition, the vagina also stretches and moistens considerably when the woman is aroused. Thus, sex feels more pleasurable with a penis that could still produce friction despite the vaginal stretching and wetness, which is more likely to occur when having sex with a thicker-than-average penis. Penises that are too short to penetrate deeply and too thin to produce friction are likely to fail to make the woman experience an orgasm. As for why such penis size is important to men, many men desire to have the equipment to satisfy the women they're attracted to, as well as boost their ego by being able to brag about their penis size.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Its about status.
    It's about having it all.
    If you have a big sized one, all the materialistic stuff going and wealth you're effectively a king!

    It doesn't matter what's on the inside.
    We have all just gotta appear in a particular kind of way

    • Thanks for mho x

Most Helpful Guys

  • Because we're a materialistic self esteem ego base society and it's all about who has the most more biggest or best. And it's just a psychology thing. You're more likely to be remembered if you have a bigger dick. And because most men in the porn industry have huge cocks so it kind of makes everyone think that that is the normal and nobody wants to be below average so yeah. Shoot why do women find it gross when guys want to show them a picture show them their dick?

    • Great and valid points!

  • Oh Please !!! Give us a fuckin' break !

    " All I know is that there are times it wish it were much
    smaller when it’s so uncomfortable trying to bulge out of my pants."

    Print this kind of bullshit on Quora or some other place PLEASE?

    Enough penis shit ! Enough !

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don’t know. As long as it isn’t a micropenis should not be a worry. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Probably because a lot of people are seeing penises in porn. So there’s a lot of comparison going on.

    • But women see big boobs in porn too... they're not obsessed with wanting big boobs... why so?

  • Because big cocks are such a wonderful thing

  • Doesn't matter to me as long as the sex feels good.

  • It’s not…

  • Yes, size doesn’t matter. Plus you tongues and fingers. Hell, I’ve had satisfying sex with as small as 3 inches.

  • Honestly size doesn't matter to me

  • Size doesn’t matter! Just as long as there’s sensual, intimate sex with the partners working together for each other’s pleasure :)

  • Penis size matter not! I have had sex with several penis sizes, to my surprise I’ve had big ones that I would think would feel nice but I didn’t feel much, and I’ve had smaller ones that turned out to be the most pleasurable. What REALLY counts here is how turned on a woman is to begin with. If she is lubricated and mentally turned on, the sex will be amazing! If not, no matter how big or thick the penis is, she won’t feel anything.

  • Doesn’t matter to me

  • It's not just recently but nearly always! Guys tend to thing girls like bigger dicks and, some of them do! So, guys keep trying to find ways to make Mr. Sticky bigger than he normally is to, supposedly, make girls happy but, so many of them say it's not the length as much as it is the girth.

  • it's not xD

  • I have two dildos, a medium one and a big one, I use the medium one to warm up for the big one, because the bigger one feels better

  • Porn has screwed many people perception, related to the sexual sphere. Also, lack of sexual education.

  • Google lists the average wiener size at like "5.25 inches" or something.

  • The message is lovely. Not many 4"ers bulge out of pants, so what are you really posting here? Are you bragging in a passive aggressive way?

  • All the women say it dun matter but then ask em what theyd like specifically...

  • It is only an obsession for most men. Most women don't care at all.

    • But big looks better and manlier enough to arouse women