Why Is PIV So Important To Guys?

I don't get it. There's dozens of different kinds of sex, so why does PIV matter so much to men? Also, I realize it's supposed to be the #1 sex act, but if you think about it, by using BC and condoms, you're stopping the entire biological point of having intercourse in the first place. So if the orgasm is what matters, then why is PIV so dominant over everything?
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  • "So if the orgasm is what matters, then why is PIV so dominant over everything?"

    You're right that wouldn't make sense.

    Ergo, the first part is likely false.

    While most of us are now using birth control, how we feel about sex acts is based on instincts (shaded by culture).

    It's likely we evolved to fall in (romantic) love because it helped with child rearing.

    Men who stayed in love with females they weren't having sex with may have died out of the gene pool, for some reason or other.

    Maybe people -shouldn't- feel that way, but... its pretty natural to do so.

  • because it is the most commonly effective method of achieving mutual orgasm. there are other ways, sure, but this is the 'default' thing if you aren't yet sure of your partner's preferences.

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  • Some guys would be very happy with a BJ. But it feels a bit selfish to the guy. It is very special.

  • PIV is the most natural kind of sex, and it is the most heterosexual sexual act, so that why, if a girl don't like PIV then I might start to suspect that she is a closet lesbian.

  • Because it feels the best.

  • sorry what is PIV?

    • penis in vagina

    • @kaylaS91 wow I did not know there was an acronym for that hahaa.

    • @Asker because most guys want that (y)

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  • Its not that important really I'm as at home in the arse or mouth and also returning the favour with some great oral for the girl too lol