For men, puberty comes with an incredible biological drive to have sex (which is biologically intended to cause reproduction, and DID cause reproduction for millions of years, with that only really changing significantly post-WWII with the widespread availability of birth control).
If you read about Darwin and Natural Selection, you'll know that species that don't prioritize Survival and Reproduction will go extinct, and will be replaced by some other species that does. Men having a strong desire for sex is why you and everyone else even exists. But you should never underestimate how much this motivates men in everything they do.
Why did men build houses? Create art? Write songs? Create musical instruments? Go to war? Earn money? Essentially, men did all of those things to impress women, so that we'd increase our chances to have sex. That's true even today.
Imagine a person who is literally starving to death, who hasn't eaten in 12 days. How motivated would he probably be to get food? Would he lie or steal to get it? Could he be trusted around YOUR plate of hot food unattended? Would you be surprised to find out that he ate off your plate, or even ate the whole thing, if given a chance?
Well, that's how virtually all men are about sex: if we aren't getting it, then getting some is our top priority in our interactions with women. Why is this so consistent from man to man? Because it's a biological thing. We didn't ask to be this way, we don't wake up and decide to be this way, we just ARE this way. So, as a woman, you need to ALWAYS remember this about men, and think about all interactions and relationships with men in this context. You cannot understand men until you understand how and why men's sexual desires work, because it's such a huge part of our drive.
Wow sounds intense 😬
Because women view men with higher body count as more ''confident'' ( manly ), and women like to feel special, so if they are dating a playboy, it's more exciting to them because they feel like ''he could be with any girl, but he chose ME!''.
Then said fuckboy will dump them for a younger girl. This is why you also see so many 16-25 yo ( or even younger ) girls here happily calling themselves sluts, and talking about how many times they opened their legs, meanwhile notice how much more passive and agreeable 30+ yo girls are.
Simple equation, women have the upper hand at the start, and lose it over time.
This is also why women more and more want to get marry, because they start their ''experiment phase'' earlier on, sometimes with much older men, ignoring the guys same age as them, then want to lock up a guy that will help them financially while they still have the looks.
So what does a guy your age do? Wait until he's old and marry a younger woman?
Exaclly, but im not into dating anymore, im no plan b, preffer to be alone
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's biological. It's also a source of immense pleasure.
I think there's a confusion between happiness and pleasure here. Pleasure is quick and comes from an external source (like sex). And happiness is found internally and is long lasting.
I suppose these men that complain are too concerned about immediate gratification and that's all they ever look for. And in doing so, they can't find what makes them whole inside. I think that's why they're unhappy, not because they're not getting sexy time.
Well for one, it's an act of intimacy. When a guy doesn't have sex, it's commonly looked at as being undesirable or unlovable. It's also seen as incompetence if a guy isn't able to find a girl to have sex with. Biology and stuff is a part of it, but it's really much simpler than that. Most people growing up experienced the hive mindset of "no sex = lame." I personally don't think it's that big of a deal, but I can get why someone would feel unhappy if they aren't getting laid. I was that way before as well.
all the porn, corny rap/pop music, Disney movies, reality shows, etc have intoxicated the male mind. Its not actually about happiness if you sit down and think about it, its more about bragging and giving themselves an ego boost.
I never associated it this way though, I always though about something fun and unwinding to do. but now as a mgtow I associate it with drama and exploitation
100% right everyone is liveing in a fairy tale now days
@Jimbod37 unfortunately yes, and the worst and most scary part is that literally nobody wants to wake up from that fairy tale
It's plain instinct.
because sex feels good thats all
Never heard that. But I guess if a man is very sexually frustrated then it won't contribute to his happiness.
Those guys are probably insecure of their manhood.
sex is a uphoric feeling. like a piece of candy to a kid. For me it is what it is at my age
Because it's fun.
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